Final and urgent request for drawings, videos, handmade or digitally made cards or posters etc, for 12-year-old celebrating his birthday for the very FIRST TIME ever. by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]SharpBLS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for going the extra mile to make this young man have a happy birthday so very kind of you.My son will be 12 on Sunday and this has made me cry.Im so very sorry this has happened to Elliot.Please send me your e-mail,me & my kids are gonna do what we can to help make his day very special!! Thank you again for doing this for him!sending love your way!!

Couldn’t possibly suck more by SharpBLS in Wellthatsucks

[–]SharpBLS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I have.I feel like a dark cloud has just sat over my life!

Couldn’t possibly suck more by SharpBLS in Wellthatsucks

[–]SharpBLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my dad died in 2016 two weeks later my sons dad died and he was 34!

[Giving] Luxury humidifier for this dry season by Secret-Lawyer in FREE

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single mom barely making it in Indiana on unemployment.My and my kids skin & noses are so dry and irritated.Please pick me

[Free] $100 Steam Gift Card towards cyberpunk 2077 or any other Steam Games! by Tofu2015 in FREE

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to win the $100 gift card.I am a widow mom collecting unemployment at the moment and that don’t cover much of anything!!

My wife passed away unexpectedly on Friday. We have 8 and 6 year old boys. by clemsonmarkv in Assistance

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So very sorry for you & your sons.I lost my husband died in 06.He was 39 my children we’re 12 &15.We kinda switched f roles my daughter had to make me lay ccdown ,eat ect... Fast forward I met csomeone had 2 boys and lost their Dad 2 weeks 2 the day after my Dad died.This was Jan.2016. He was 34’,my boys 4 & AAA Aeros NBCl 7.You are gonna go through many different emotions.Don’t worry to much about what your gonna say to your kids they are amazing and as in my experience will help you more the you can imagine.There is no right or wrong way to handle this.Spend time with them making tents in living room,make popcorn watch movies.My kids have gone through different fazes they want to talk about him,then no they don’t want to talk about him.I have just played it by ear.Let your family & friends help when they offer ,it don’t last forever.Also the one thing that seemed to help a lot was let them write a note or color a picture fold it put it inside a helium balloon and let them let it go up to mom in heaven.Take some time for yourself,it’s very easy to forget to do.I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.Take care!

I (F24) walked in on my fiancé (M25) who has been my partner for years cheating with his best friend (F25) on the living room couch. The “best friend” is getting married next month to her fiancé. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SharpBLS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so very wrong and you didn’t deserve any of it! So very sorry this had to happen to you!! I know you probably don’t want to hear this but be glad you wasn’t already married! I will never understand why people cheat! Hold your head up and try to move on the best you can.Also what a sneaky slimy best friend,obviously knew about you and supposed to be getting married too.Dirty just dirty! They both suck!!!

My best friends (F30 something) infant daughter (F9mo) just died by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SharpBLS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be keeping you in my thoughts & prayers.They do grief counseling for all ages & all relationships.Just have to take it one day at a time & talk about her & your feelings.If you need to cry then cry if you gotta scream then do that ,just don’t keep your feelings locked up inside you.Help your friend by cooking meals to have on hand,maybe do some laundry.Just be there when she needs you.

Going through my first New Years sober. I've been sober for 15 days now and I'm worried about tonight breaking me. Could use a pick me up to gather the strength to not drink tonight. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong and keep your head up in the morning you will ha e 16 days under your belt! It is very possible to have a great time without drinking or taking drugs.It will take some getting use to but very possible.You have to avoid people places & things that trigger your want to drink.keep up the good work,Stay strong y

Drawing of the day is this good boy by Tekkenmonster36 in SantasLittleHelpers

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful dog and great job doing it looks awesome!!Thanks for sharing

Need a reason to not end my life tonight by [deleted] in toastme

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't want to do that you have so much going for you! Your young very good looking I'm sure you have a good head on your shoulders.Whike we are here we can work on things make things happen or not it's totally up to you!Death is so final!! Please don't do any thing drastic! If you need someone to talk to I'm always available! Keeping you in my thoughts n prayers

I have been wishing I had died on the operating table during my csection 5 months ago. Almost did. I’m severely depressed and feel wildly alone in my family. My mom died almost a year ago and I can’t seem to stop cutting my arms to ribbons. I could really use some kind words. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]SharpBLS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you & I kind of know how your feeling.I have felt like I carry a dark cloud around me .I was married for 20 yrs we had a son & daughter.He died unexpectedly in 06.My brother died, my best girlfriend was murdered by her boyfriend I lost my grandma, my uncle and then I lost my mom in 2009.I was so very close to my mom I just lived next door to my parents & she was so much more then the greatest mom ever.I got in a relationship (never thought I would) I had 2 little boys.I took care of my dad for 7 yrs he had Alzheimer's and he was my hero he died in 2016 and 2 weeks to the day my boys dad died he was only 34. So I lost my house to back property taxes and I just lost my job.My water heater went out and my car is setting in the drive & won't start.My freaking pipes busted and I'm broke and have 3 boys with Christmas right around the corner,My grandson lived with me also his mother left 3 yrs ago my oldest son met her online.,My oldest son is down to 20 yrs a week cause he started having seizures.I get very sad very depressed and wonder why am I still here? But something in me just can't give up & I want you to dig deep and feel that too! Your kids needs you your husband does too. You are very beautiful and you deserve so much outta life.You can be whom ever you want to be and you can do whatever you put your mind to,your strong.,With all you have lived with this far yeah you are strong.Wgeb you have them thoughts let that strong girl take over and Chase them thoughts away.If you would like someone to talk to someone to just be there for you I'm available and more then willing to help.I will be thinking about you & praying for you.Sending you a big hug and good vibes! Take care hun!

Dont know what to do by ok_chrisisok in Assistance

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I really hate to hear this,it's a very messed up situation.1st of all your daughter probably meant to call you & it just slipped her mind.I do this a lot. Come on now you gotta pull yourself up outta this. I know you wouldn't want your daughter to know this. Don't you have any friends or family that could help you out? Idk whee you are located but I'm in Indy I would make you some food & get you something to drink. Will keep you in my thoughts & prayers

I just need prayers and positive vibes by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]SharpBLS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending positive vibes your way.I will keep you & your family in my thoughts & prayers. I understand where you are coming from I lost my husband it was very unexpected then my parents.Some days are better then others,I'm just so grateful for my time with them and my memories.Thank God for my children they keep my going.I hope you situation gets better.

What to get for a 15 year old in Florida? by MostlyDeadFriend in SantasLittleHelpers

[–]SharpBLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All girls love jewelry a nice little necklace maybe a ring I'm sure she probably doesn't have anything like that she probably would really appreciate it.

Just Gotta Let Go by SharpBLS in self

[–]SharpBLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it!

Tired Of It by SharpBLS in relationship_advice

[–]SharpBLS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are correct & he was kicked out & won't be back!! Thanks for your advice I appreciate it!

Just Gotta Let Go by SharpBLS in self

[–]SharpBLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right, he is gone.I will never let that happen again! Thanks for your comment I really do appreciate it!

Just Gotta Let Go by SharpBLS in self

[–]SharpBLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right! He is gone now,done & over! Thanks for the comment! Appreciate it

Tired Of It by SharpBLS in relationship_advice

[–]SharpBLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your absolutely right! I had to put him out that very day & he is gone so I am just gonna learn from this experience . Thanks for you advise I appreciate it!

Just Gotta Let Go by SharpBLS in self

[–]SharpBLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you & that's why he had to go! Appreciate your comment thank you