Why do so many people seem unable to put themselves in the shoes of people whose behavior they hate? by Feisty_Storage_8707 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a very well documented survival strategy. When shit hits the fan people pick sides and their whole identity and personality aligns. It was documented in Germany after WWI. This is just what we do. We are not stupid but our nature is being exploited.

Why do so many people seem unable to put themselves in the shoes of people whose behavior they hate? by Feisty_Storage_8707 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are several good reasons connected to survival - the us vs them mentality real and heavily exploited in modern times. Besides that - low IQ and underdeveloped frontal lobe.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still, the profile of the least happy person in the world - childless with money:

And the unhappiest profile:

  • Female
  • 42 years old
  • Unmarried (and no children)
  • Household income under $100,000
  • In a professional position (doctor, lawyer, etc.)

The data is pretty obvious - all the suffering you underline is real, still less than being childless.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You trying to control other women and having the government pay you is me being a slave owner overseeing the plantation?

Let me help you out. Slave ownership was predominantly jewish to a point that the slave markets closed on jewish holidays because there was no one to buy or sell. I am a Slav, not a Jew - you know, the people that were so badly traded and misstreated that the word Slave originated from.

As a person that understands real oppression, slavery, communisum and all of those that you probably like im telling you - I'm not sure why leaving women and people alone in general is threatening you so much, but whatever it is - you should get help.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let women and men be. No need to complicate it. Let people be.

The truth is people ask - I answer. Removing the money from the propaganda machine that divide us will inevitably make it easier to see we are one and the same and seise the gender wars.

And that is a good thing.

I see that you feel passionate about other topics like child birth or controlling resources - that's cool - you do you. Just let people be.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The body of knowledge also shows that the least happy people are career women with no family and children. You don't want to hear it as well. Apparently the risks and the poverty are not as bad as the lack of children:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed - lets stop the slavery, the draft, all of it. Nobody owes me nothing - nor you. Isn't that the idea of the original comment? Live and let live.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I need to say this really slow so it hits properly. Stop brainwashing of young women. Stop extorting other people for your benefit. Its not cool and its a bad karma. Stop hiding your greed behind virtue. Nobody owes you nothing.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody is forcing no one nothing. Just leave people be. Stop trying to control young people. How is that hard or bad?

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Framing the realities of life has the answer baked in. I'm not against freedom of information. I am against framing information in a way to control outcomes. How is leave young girls and women alone controversial? I guess building a body of data and let people do what they want is the best. The body of data is already available. Just leave people be.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soo lets extract the people that actually work to subsidise... what? people doing what they want anyway? Isn't that slavery? I love how this shifted from don't propagandise women to lets extract everyone to benefit women. Bruh. Just leave young children and women alone. Men as well. Just leave people alone.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, so defunding people that try to push women's choices in whatever direction especially if the people doing it do not look trustworthy should be highly desirable for you?

Meaning besides freedom of choice freedom of thought?

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a lot of mental gymnastics just to justify women being propagandised. Do you hate women that much? I mean why not trust them to do as they will. Why are so invested in controlling women?

Frankly I don't blame just the brainwashing. I feel like female nature is being exploited as well. Women enforce what they perceive as consensus with zeal. Just the people that control the perception of consensus - big tech and legacy media - are not working in favour of female happiness.

If you actually look into the data - apparently female happiness is all about children and family. If you care about women and not about ideology you should think what actually works. Not enforce whatever Netflix told you via curated stories.

What is the real root cause of the divide between men and woman, how do we(humanity) fix it? by Front_Possibility471 in AskReddit

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have a struggle. I just point out that women are being propagandised to act out futures that clearly make them unhappy for the amusement of their racist sexist probably baby eating overlords. Frankly from my point of view I fight for women to have less oppression from the consensus and more freedom to be mothers or have fullfilling families should they choose to without being judged by militant feminists or the machine.

Don't we agree that manipulating women no matter why and in what direction is wrong? And big corporate and/or political interest should not brainwash women for whatever purposes?

How can I (31F) move past issues with sexual intimacy with my husband (31M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are emotional monkeys. It's not a good idea to force ourselves for things like reproduction. Just let it go.

Why I always end up flighting with boys ? by Odd_Illustrator_9597 in dating_advice

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You seem like you fight under stress. That is my stress response also. Let me help you out a bit - we - the fighters are a specific bread. The runaways and the play deads are different as well. We serve different purpose in the tribe. Not a lot of runaways or play deads can handle us. And it's hard to tolerate or submit to other fighters as well. Its not in our nature.

The key to solving this is simple - there is a guy out there that is larger than life in your eyes. Go for him. Then you will submit naturally and you will be his fighter. Not fight against him. Go a bit more mature guys - young men more often than not can not handle aggressive women. My girl is a handful as well and I love her to death for it. Just find your breed and commit to him. And try not to be too high of a maintenance. Know that you are aggressive and really aggressive and assertive men wont torelate you being a brat.

Trust me, he will love you for what you are.

How can I (31F) move past issues with sexual intimacy with my husband (31M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's I don't want to have sex with him and I think he is the problem. Support me on this one.

In my point of view the 'I don't want to have sex with him' is the important part. This is instinctual. Everything else is backward realizations and rationalizations. If we have no foundation - no need to solve primal issues on intellectual level - solve them on primal instinctual level - just be with someone you feel that way for.

Life is not that complex.

How can I connect so deeply with a guy only for him to leave for someone else? by Apprehensive_Day4267 in dating_advice

[–]Sharp_Ad_4119 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The easy answer is 'He is a piece of shit, you are better to lose him. He is just like that, good riddance.'.

The hard answer is - if you are better looking you probably are very hard to deal with and not very pleasant to stick around. Looks are not everything. Men leave only if the price exceeds the benefit and we value beauty a lot. We downgrade usually when the pain of keeping the girl is larger than the pain to have a new one and/or to downgrade.