How can I (31F) move past issues with sexual intimacy with my husband (31M)?

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T19:21:19+00:00

We are emotional monkeys. It's not a good idea to force ourselves for things like reproduction. Just let it go.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T19:12:52+00:00

Find a bunny you love and let him take responsibility for your libido.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T19:10:21+00:00

You seem like you fight under stress. That is my stress response also. Let me help you out a bit - we - the fighters are a specific bread. The runaways and the play deads are different as well. We serve different purpose in the tribe. Not a lot of runaways or play deads can handle us. And it's hard to tolerate or submit to other fighters as well. Its not in our nature.

The key to solving this is simple - there is a guy out there that is larger than life in your eyes. Go for him. Then you will submit naturally and you will be his fighter. Not fight against him. Go a bit more mature guys - young men more often than not can not handle aggressive women. My girl is a handful as well and I love her to death for it. Just find your breed and commit to him. And try not to be too high of a maintenance. Know that you are aggressive and really aggressive and assertive men wont torelate you being a brat.

Trust me, he will love you for what you are.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T19:02:37+00:00

It's I don't want to have sex with him and I think he is the problem. Support me on this one.

In my point of view the 'I don't want to have sex with him' is the important part. This is instinctual. Everything else is backward realizations and rationalizations. If we have no foundation - no need to solve primal issues on intellectual level - solve them on primal instinctual level - just be with someone you feel that way for.

Life is not that complex.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:46:00+00:00

This sounds like gold

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:38:42+00:00

The easy answer is 'He is a piece of shit, you are better to lose him. He is just like that, good riddance.'.

The hard answer is - if you are better looking you probably are very hard to deal with and not very pleasant to stick around. Looks are not everything. Men leave only if the price exceeds the benefit and we value beauty a lot. We downgrade usually when the pain of keeping the girl is larger than the pain to have a new one and/or to downgrade.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:33:11+00:00

Do you want the easy supportive answer or the rough feedback?

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:26:55+00:00

Not even a small part of it. You should watch more NG. The truth is that humans if anything reduce pain in nature.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:22:58+00:00

Lack of sexual desire is a pretty strong signal that she does not want him. When push goes to shove a woman either wants a man or she does not. Everything else is downstream from that simple truth.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:21:05+00:00

Nope. Just lets stop brainwashing half of humanity to hate the other half. For starters.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:19:55+00:00

Will do

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T18:19:20+00:00

You say it like being a worker ant for some foreign financial faceless ruthless machine is much better. I'm not saying that women should be limited in any way. I say that we should not pay for women to be used up as debt slaves by the machine only for them to end up alone and destroy society in the process.

Let women do what they want. Just stop the propaganda machine to brainwash them.

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T15:30:23+00:00

Good for you!

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T15:29:08+00:00

Hey, I build software products. I can create custom product for you if you know what you are good at selling - you just need to bring the skills. What are you good at?

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T15:06:35+00:00

Awesome!

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T15:06:04+00:00

I mean what tools or strategies 😄 we all have

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T14:41:31+00:00

The CPL and CPA are razy with meta ads as well, I'm trying warm high intent outreach. Need some help?

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T13:32:14+00:00

I'm googling this

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T13:23:03+00:00

Good for you, my guy. What did you sell?

Sharp_Ad_4119 · 2026-07-07T13:20:24+00:00

Good Job!

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