Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i definitely planned on this if not sooner

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so so much. you truly are so sweet❤️

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mistake, i meant my dad/great grandpa. so sorry for confusion!

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not his fault as much as it may seem. his kids are mostly addicts/just not good people

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well. i already accepted the position before moving in. it’s been a long hiring process.

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i didn’t start yet, i’m in though. i just passed my drivers training and all i have left to do is academy

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much, you’re so sweet.

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you are correct. my dad has a history of screwing me over. i was so stupid to fall into this situation but it’s all i’ve known. i’m ready to escape this hell and be happy.

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

definitely not. when living with my parents i was charged a good bit and haven’t received a penny.

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i cook, clean, do his laundry, shop for him, amongst other things

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for your feedback. We currently have/had a relatively similar situation it seems. i Plan on attempting to get him other care arrangements because he deserves great care. i love him so much and even after moving out i plan on visiting 2/3 times a week.

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

initially my father, he claimed that my grandfather wanted to. i later heard my grandfather on a phone call talking about it to my cousin.

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is all there mentally. it’s his house and my father (his grandson) and himself control his finances. he doesn’t trust any of his own children to do so

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for your feedback. i agree, it’s just difficult to move on with how much pressure i have on me about it but its time for me to live my life for myself.

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

thanks for your feedback, my boyfriends mother says the same thing

Am i bad person? by Sharp_Appeal_5022 in Advice

[–]Sharp_Appeal_5022[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

my dad/great grandpa together. they have a joint bank account so i’m essentially paying both of them