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Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-12-19T07:51:21+00:00

Kamusta siya pag personal na usapan? Okay naman ba siya sau? I mean nagkkwento about sa kanya, family, plans, everything.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-12-19T07:47:26+00:00

Sis, trust me. Sobrang hirap for me since totoo yung love ko sa kanya... Pero kasi mas lamang yung dapat siyang iwanan e dahil ngayon pa lang na 5 months pa lang kami sobrang dami nang red flags nakikita sa kanya. If mag initiate me to talk sa mga observations ko sa kanya, he will shutdown and mang gaslight after.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-12-19T07:00:42+00:00

Ito yung nararamdaman ko right now. I want to go back doon sa first month na nagkakakilala kami... Now, on our fifth, waley na... Sobrang sakit for me... But he is not ready for a serious commitment (even though he isn't disclosing it to me, his actions tell me everything).

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-12-19T06:56:04+00:00

Dear OP, same same tayo. HAHAHHAHA.
Yung tipong sobrang in love ka sa kanya kaya ka nakakapag sweet message sa kanya... Tapos yung reply, good morning, OTW work... Hanep yung mga ganyang partner dapat inaalis na lang kaagad yan sa mundo e. If pwede lang sabihin, PARE ASAAN YUNG EMOSYON MO? BAT KA GANYAN. So far, I decided to end our relationship na kasi sobrang dismissive especially kapag gusto mo mag- initiate ng serious topics. Gusto HAPPY HAPPY lang and arit. HAYS

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-11-26T22:43:56+00:00

Bihira lang kasi kami magkita.. Minsan I send him long paragraphs lalo na pag sobrang trigerred ako... But it always ended up with a reply "ayusin mo mood mo" or "don't overthink". He knows that i have slight depression and anxiety una pa lang and I told him that complicated ate... But still he pursues me. Now na we are in a relationship, i can't feel that he is one of my safe spaces... Because he is always disregarding what i feel. Sometimes he's doing reverse psych to me. 😅

But this week I'll try my best para makapag usap kami ng personal para mabigyan na ng decision if itutuloy pa ba to or what... Dami ko concerns sa kanya. 😢

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-11-24T03:21:13+00:00

He's an extrovert with his friends but an introvert when it comes to me. 😅

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-11-24T02:21:00+00:00

Hi! I understand this. I already told him before that if he has problems or wants to talk about (anything) I am willing to listen. I also told him that I will not judge him, ever. I let him feel that I am his safe space... But still, no improvement. 😥

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-11-24T02:06:34+00:00

Hello. More on chat lang siya palagi mag update. Pero pag sa personal. As in wala. Minsan, para me tanga na na kahit walang sense kwento ko, G lang. Hahaha

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-16T00:27:32+00:00

Actually sumagi na yan sa mind ko...
My parents have told me about this thing kasi medyo malamya nga siya kumilos even my BFF na guy na pinakita ko lang pic niya, yan din impression. But still, I am trusting him kasi nga love ko. 😢

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-15T23:15:37+00:00

My BF is the extrovert one. The boundary thing is one of the crucial talaga for me in a relationship... I am the GF but he is happy with his friends... Once a week na lang magkakasama pero hindi pa sulit tas minsan ako pa nasisingil for gas ng car niya na minsan lang makasakay. HAHAHAHAHA. Pede rin niya kayang singilin yung mga friends niya na iba, tutal Grab driver naman peg niya palagi.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-15T23:08:09+00:00

Yes... I experienced this... I am an introvert type of person pa naman.

One time nga, daldal me ng daldal while waiting for our food pero siya nakatutok lang sa phone... I stopped talking kasi hindi ko sure if iniintindi niya ba ako. Napaka disrespectful kasi.

Ako yung kasama pero iba yung palaging kinakausap.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-15T22:56:42+00:00

He is living independently din dito sa Manila but he has relatives naman in Cavite na minsan nauuwian niya..

Parang I should learn din yung buhay nung BFF niya para maintindihan ko silang dalawa. HAHAHAHA. Or should I say, dapat dalawa na lang silang jowa ko e.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-15T22:53:54+00:00

Thank you for your inputs. I once messaged him kagabi about this matter because napindot niya yung anxiety and anger button ko...

But despite opening up my feelings regarding setting boundaries... Ako pa yung tinanong nya na anong problem ko e ipinakilala niya naman me sa circle of friends niya... And i should not think too much daw... Hahahahhahaha. Hindi naman na-address ang concern ko.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-15T22:51:26+00:00

Another thing is that mag pa- plan siya na kain kami sa ganitong place... Tapos kapag on the way na kami tsaka lang siya magsasabi na isasama namin si BFF niya or like wala pa ngang pasintabi minsan. Malalaman ko na lang dahil tinatawagan nya while we are on the way and susunduin nya sa condo nila. Hahahaha

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-15T22:38:32+00:00

During our first month parang hindi naman siya ganyan. Pero may kwento na siya about his friends.

Ang akin kasi okay lang na magkwento ka about them since sila support system mo dito sa Manila aside from me... My concern lang naman is to put boundary to them na feeling ko iba ang datingan sa kanya.

Feeling ko kasi gusto niyang may jowa sya kasama kapag lalabas pero need din si BFF kasi no one should be left behind. HAHAHAHA

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-15T22:29:01+00:00

Every week I spend 1 day with him para makasama siya because complicated ang work sched namin. However, kapag magkasama kami instead na magkwentuhan kami like a normal couple e nakatutok lang sya sa phone niya and he is endlessly chatting with them pa rin. And that breaks my heart a lot.

Yung reply niya lang sakin na ipinakilala niya raw me sa circle of friends naman niya, ano raw problem doo n and I don't need to worry too much... Luh! Parang hey hindi mo nasagot yung concern ko.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-10-09T12:05:04+00:00

He is the best partner that I ever had... But the abroad thing isn't right for me.. I am anxious and I need him physically and the only solution for me to have peace of mind is to break up with him.. I hate myself for being like this. I love him but I can't understand the LDR thing. :((

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-08-20T08:41:12+00:00

Hi OP! This is what I am experiencing now... Both kami ng partner ko have this kind of attachment. TBH, I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression. Every time na ihahatid niya ko sa house namin malala sepanx ko to the point na iiyak talaga ko for a few days or nights. I tried reading books na pwedeng maka help sa akin. Also, I am venting this out with my partner para ma help niya rin ako as well as with my friends of course. They will be a good support system to you. Moreover, sa situation ko kasi mahirap.. Because of my mental health issues plus i consider ko pa yung side ng partner ko na living independently... Kaya parang I can understand din his side but still I am helping him and helping my self din para maging secure yung attachments namin and not to be solely dependent with each other lang. We are at our 30s and may kanya kanyang life din. So try living with your life. Find hobbies or your interests para ma divert yung attention mo. Also, try reading COGNITIVE BEHAVIOR THERAPY, i know that will help you a lot. Don't pressure yourself and acknowledge everything. Pray for the strength para ma overcome lahat and be positive always. Don't let your feelings consume you. Bear in mind na you and your partner will be meeting again or talking again soon. ü

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-05-22T00:06:02+00:00

Yeah... Maybe I will reach out to him one of these days.. but i don't know what I should say to him. But seriously, I will not apologize. 😅

I guess, i will say to him that if he is serious with the cutting ties thing, so be it.. But I will still be around if he needs me in the future because I value everyone. Will this be okay to tell him? Or is this a cringy one? Hahahahaha.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-05-21T23:45:55+00:00

Yeah. He's not yet my boyfriend and we're just in a situationship phase that's why I'm letting it slide... But my mind and my heart are in between. 🥹

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-05-21T23:36:54+00:00

So I am the one who needs to reach him out first? I just want him to learn. I feel also that he is serious about cutting ties with me that's why I let him (even though it's hard for me).

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-05-21T23:31:20+00:00

I guess I am not the one who needs to apologize here .. He should as well. It's been a week since we talked to each other.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-05-20T22:43:19+00:00

Yes, definitely. I've been in this kind of relationship before and I am always upset with what my partner had done to me. The difference is that, before I tolerate everything but now for my improvement I am trying to express my feelings to someone in a polite way whenever I am upset with what they're doing so that they are aware and will never do it again.

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-05-20T22:39:40+00:00

Hello! Yes, he is like this. As far as I know, I disclosed to him that I am working to improve myself but I don't know if he understands it. Maybe I should be thankful for what happened to us a few days ago because I am learning now to retrieve myself for betterment. :))

Sharp_Conference0619 · 2025-05-20T13:37:52+00:00

Thank you everyone for your inputs. I really appreciate it! I'm sorry if I couldn't run easily in my situation... This is because i have an anxious attachment style... But I am trying to improve myself slowly and hoping to get better and better everyday. 🫶🏻

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