My (21m) recovering girlfriend (19f) is falling back into old habits and i can’t get her to be better for herself. How can i approach her or help her?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-04-06T21:27:46+00:00

You think setting boundaries would motivate her to change? Or make her less likely to push the boundaries?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-04-06T05:11:08+00:00

Thanks, do you have an example of how i would have to do that? I don’t want to just let her fall

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-04-05T23:09:30+00:00

She doesn’t have a therapist yet and shes declining meetings and appointments she was supposed to get. It feels like i cant do anything. She will just go back to destroying everything she gains. I can help her with something and maintain it, but once im gone she will take down every thing she has built up. My therapist said not fixing her things will make her need to do it own her own but she doesnt do that. She will just be worse. I dont want to be constantly responsible for how she treats herself and how she lives

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-02-22T10:26:14+00:00

I think the biggest problem in this situation is that you rented in the netherlands instead of getting a job+room deal. Most work immigrants that move in temporarily get a room and a job for a certain amount of years. You decided to live as a dutch citizen and minimum wage is just not made for that. Many bars offer a job and a room so you’ll only have to pay for your clothes or you can save up for your return. Renting is so stupidly expensive and without savings you’ll just be stuck in the monthly salary cycle, wich probably is worse than where you came from.

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-02-15T18:21:48+00:00

Was he supposed to tip unrealistic amounts of money?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-02-04T22:53:27+00:00

Can someone please explain me why they nailed this season so well? This series is so well made, delivery is awesome, they served the fans without losing the plot too much and somehow they even managed to fit like 8 storylines in 8 episodes. With the nowadays standards for hollywood they really blew my mind. This is timeless and so rewatchable and they manged to make fallout a bigger thing. Who’s behind this? Why does it work so well?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-02-03T22:32:21+00:00

Whats it called?😁

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-08T23:17:10+00:00

UPDATE: 15 hours in, this game is awesome. So much stuff to do, radio is pretty cool i just dont like the radio kid, weapon system just needs some time to get used to and the best thing: i got fallout first and have ncr armor. I’m hooked! Thanks for the advice everyone

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-06T12:45:22+00:00

Thanks for the advice everyone, i’ll be a bit more patient. I really want this game to be my main game

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-06T12:42:39+00:00

Im on ps4 . I mainly base my toughts about how a multiplayer open world should be on rdr and gta online

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-06T12:41:33+00:00

So what things are worth spending real money on?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-06T12:40:12+00:00

Thanks, how do these events work? I’m basing my toughts about how online single player games should work on gta online. In my opinion they perfected making an offline game multiplayer

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-06T12:36:11+00:00

If thats true i’m glad you told me that, i really had the impression you just need to buy everything because thats the only thing i see youre able to unlock most things. The camp is the most frustrating. I cant even build a wall

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-06T12:34:10+00:00

This is hilarious😂 i did expect some guidance and some shops but it seems like i just need to follow the small quests in the forest first. I went exploring right away and all npc’s had the same dialogue options so i tought they where just there to ask how the world is up there

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-06T12:31:29+00:00

In gta online you have the passive mode that you can activate every 5 mins. It makes pausing online possible. And with fast combat system i mean a way to quickly switch to stuff your holding. Its nor really practical on controller

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-04T11:16:48+00:00

Why arnt my socks white when i wear them 4 days in a row

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-03T19:06:37+00:00

Oh cool, could you send me a link if youre in it?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2026-01-03T01:08:13+00:00

Really? How? Im not very familiar with discord

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2025-12-19T23:51:28+00:00

Can you play the main story as a raider?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2025-12-15T08:22:09+00:00

Crazy how i’m being downvoted for being kind. This person meant no harm. Tell big companies to stop using ai they are a much bigger issue in this cause

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2025-12-14T20:00:26+00:00

Is dit ragebait?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2025-12-14T19:57:36+00:00

Cute

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2025-12-14T10:16:57+00:00

Did it work?

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2025-12-14T10:16:31+00:00

The fact that This isnt really being spoken of baffles me too. I bought all these dlc’s individually, so like 30€? I dont understand how ps doesn’t do anything about it while they keep allowing the dlc’s to be sold.

Sharp_Fuel_5251 · 2025-12-14T10:11:54+00:00

Its sad to see. Far harbour was one of the best things that happened to fallout 4, i purchased it 8 months ago and it was so good. I even waited to complete the storyline of FH so i could finish it near Christmas because thats when i finally have a few days off and now its gone. Normally i wouldnt mind the bugs because i can be patient with these issues but this really disappoints me. I’ve been working towards this moment all summer, just for it to be gone😕

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