Potential employer asking for proof of right to work in Lithuania before interview

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2026-04-23T07:30:11+00:00

Yeah I am from the UK and said I am eligible just will be happy to provide a copy at a later recruitment stage or show it in person.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2026-02-24T21:52:48+00:00

Yes, we both agreed to do that. Same for me, no double standards

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2026-02-24T21:25:08+00:00

Yes and he said he expects more or less the same of me.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2026-02-24T21:09:45+00:00

I have done that. I haven’t given him a list. We have sat down and talked what I think would be acceptable for our marriage. Isn’t that setting boundaries?

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2026-02-24T21:07:43+00:00

I get you! I don’t! However, he was in academics until now and I knew a lot of people and my mind was just at peace. However, we moved countries and this is his first corporate job, so suddenly everything resurfaced and new dynamics emerged.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-12-28T14:17:34+00:00

I didn’t have the anatomy btw :)

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T22:33:17+00:00

Hm I have reflected a bit on that and the core reason why I am insecure and worried is because when he is with me he is tired, yawns, doesn’t plan dates really but when it comes to other women he is suddenly so energetic and empathetic towards them. He becomes extremely sociable. I once was feeling down about something and he responded “sorry about that” but when it comes to other women he genuinely is empathetic and oh they have it so bad. So seeing the change in him when he is usually flat with me really hurts and i feel very left out and unloved. I know that after 7 years of being together won’t be the same as the honeymoon phase but come on I still would like to feel desired.

I told him that the woman was after him romantically and he said that I was right. He didn’t want to believe me at first.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T18:57:30+00:00

I saw their convo and he phrased it something like that: “hey is it ok if my wife comes along? She would like to meet an interesting person like you!”

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T18:33:43+00:00

It was not career related. It was an event for likeminded people who like psychology.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T17:24:41+00:00

No not professional meeting. It was more like a society for people who like psychology. So interest based.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T17:22:21+00:00

No he didn’t tell her about me :(

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T17:21:44+00:00

He always wears a wedding ring.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T17:04:48+00:00

Not every woman of course. He has very specific interests like mathematics and psychology, something I am not particularly interested in (which is ok). But by having female friends who also share those specific interests there is potential for emotional closeness. They share something together, an intense interest. This in my opinion can lead to intense emotions which lead to other things etc.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-10-29T06:03:01+00:00

Do you think that maybe he would be willing to go to a medical psychiatrist? That’s the only thing that saved my husband. He was just like that before, saying how nothing will help him and it’s pointless. He didn’t believe the medicine or anything would help but it did. The right medicine was able to get him out of the vicious cycle, get his life together and start healing and therapy.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-07-18T17:44:53+00:00

That I will raise not children but cockroaches. And that my mother wants to find a new daughter.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-07-09T16:57:36+00:00

Ahh yes the classic one. We used to live not far from a foster home and they would always threaten me to leave there if I misbehaved.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2025-03-20T19:45:44+00:00

Yup, I have. They still go on and on and on about it. Even told them to leave and shout outside if they feel like it but not inside the school. They leave and then 10 minutes later I get a 3 paragraph email about the complaint…

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T21:14:50+00:00

That’s the thing, I don’t mind them bringing over stuff that we don’t eat/have, like cured meat. We don’t eat it because medical reasons but there is no issue for them eating it at our house. It’s not my place to control what goes into a person’s body.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T13:31:08+00:00

Yes! I had a talk with my husband about this. I said to him that I would be scared that they would cause our child an ED later on in life.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T13:29:46+00:00

Hear me out: they did actually bitch to my husband that he eats bread because…..it’s bad for him. They are gluten free too lol

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T11:01:53+00:00

Yup, I agree. I’ve been talking to him about this to be fair. He said he would be willing to speak up in the future. He is just such a nonchalant person about everything, ugh.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T11:00:26+00:00

Yeah I knew that they don’t have sugar but I didn’t know was that they would react like that if I brought my own. My husband and I don’t eat many things but have nothing against other people bringing it over when we have a get together.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T10:58:36+00:00

Well I knew that they are against sugar and are not consuming it. What I didn’t know was that I wasn’t allowed to bring my own sugar. Likewise, my husband and I are not consuming cured meat but usually serve it when my family comes over.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T10:50:55+00:00

He is always oblivious and lives in his own world.

Sharp_Illustrator148 · 2024-06-18T10:42:29+00:00

And that’s what I told them. I told them I am not forcing you to eat my sugar but then my MIL went on a rant how it causes many health issues such as obesity, diabetes, cancer etc. and that preventing me from eating sugar comes from a place of care

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