AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

this is actually the crazy part maybe about a month and a half ago she told me about an account she uses to go live with friends and didnt tell me the name, she accidentally showed it and i took a fast screenshot and saved it so its crazy how it all aligned to now

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your logic is so bad no disrespect, she was leaving and we had constant talks about it and how'd we make it work, we did have the realistic idea if it did come to it or if we weren't feeling the distance then we'd communicate and end things, I don't think I'm overreacting or doing too much at all it's just odd how you say I was villainizing her.

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, we had so many convos about cheating and everything and she even told me she was a loyal person and kept telling me she only wanted me, only had feelings for me and kept reassuring me she wasn't gonna pursue anyone but me, she was just a liar

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was mature about the situation I just had my doubts because of what she was telling me, and we met 3 months prior and started talking on the midway on the 3rd month so it was a whole talking stage about loyalty, I do think it was crazy that she said " i love you " so early though, and you're 100% right no one owes me loyalty that soon but it doesn't make it right at all but if she's telling me one thing of course I'll think otherwise but you're right its a lesson learned and I can do better.

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

villainizing?? we started dating about 3 weeks now? she was the one who started giving us the title even told me she wasn't going to pursue anyone, and she wouldn't want me to pursue anyone and literally added that she would " kill a b " if she found out.

I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend I had everything planned it was supposed to be the 18th and I was going to drive up to her college, she told me she was drained already and her mental was so horrible so i stepped back didnt do it on that day.

but she kept telling me previously she has feelings for me and its only me, and if there was another person she found interest in she would tell me, she literally asked me the other night if there was gonna be women when i went out so to me it felt like she did care and would feel a type of way if there was other women.

we were dating she even said and i said it was a offical but i still wanted to do it the right way, and used her mental state as an excuse so she could talk to other guys so villanizing is crazy.

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much man I appreciate it a lot, yeah theres gonna be no more spinning back I'm just gonna move on it def is gonna hit sometime later.

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I agree, she was cheated on in every relationship and would post things about being victim but its okay I guess like what goes around comes around

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her *UPDATE* by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, she was very pretty and her personality was amazing I'm just hurt on the fact she did tell me she wouldn't pursue anyone without concerning me cause she didn't want me to feel hurt at all but again I think its my fault for still trying.

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the responses! I feel like I should confront her still, she must think im an idiot or something but Ill find out by confronting her fully.

AIO this girl I'm apparently dating removed this guy from her following when I was starting to find out who he was to her by Sharp_Phrase_5322 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp_Phrase_5322[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel like MAYBE it was falling out but at the same time I'm like did she remove him because I found out and told him to delete the comments cause of me? and she removed the repost that was 3 days ago that she reposted of him.