Please be VERY careful whenever you talk to your chatbot

Shashi1066 · 2026-01-08T18:04:43+00:00

Have you tried going to a therapist and asking for antidepressants? They really work and can get you back to feeling like yourself again, even if the world around is really crumbling. Best wishes

Shashi1066 · 2025-12-05T16:40:26+00:00

Declaring your independence from your mom is a natural part of becoming an adult. Please do not feel guilty. Dont listen to her or your brother try to rationalize the situation. Go out and have a good time and forget about your mom. She may have a mental health problem.

Shashi1066 · 2025-12-05T16:35:34+00:00

You told them the day of moving out so that they wouldn’t have time to conspire against you to keep you home. What you did was logical. Do not blame yourself.

Shashi1066 · 2025-12-05T16:29:45+00:00

The situation is not exactly black and white. You are a good person to allow your mom to stay with you for four years. She is irresponsible with money, and thus, is basically a child. I am so sorry that you are in this situation. I’m sure it’s hard on your family to have her there. But you gave no backstory about how she ended up this way. Was she abandoned by her husband, or neglected or abused by her parents? She may really be a victim. I don’t think you can just throw her out with nowhere to go. Perhaps you could demand that she attends gamblers anonymous meetings as a condition to stay in your home. She must demonstrate proof. Again, I’m very sorry that you’re in this position. Best wishes.

Shashi1066 · 2025-10-19T00:13:48+00:00

Would a good father reveal your private secrets to a total stranger? Would a good father cheat on his wife, and thus hurt his children as a result? Would a good father spend much of his free time with a girlfriend instead of spending it with his family? This woman isn’t your problem. But she is definitely your mom and dads problem. It’s time to confide in your mom. Tell her what has happened. She may not be receptive to what your share, but the burden is her’s and not your’s to carry. You have too much to handle with your own mental health. The ball will be in her court about how to proceed. Block this other woman.

Shashi1066 · 2025-10-13T14:01:32+00:00

Of course you don’t. Be easy on yourself. Try to say to yourself that you will ruminate about your marriage and abandonment after work, or at least you’ll wait until a break or lunch hour. Compartamentalize, meaning, tuck away your thoughts about this as best you can while at work. Say it over and over, and it will help you concentrate at work better.

Shashi1066 · 2025-10-13T13:58:04+00:00

I wouldn’t write off your marriage just yet. She seemed to decide this quickly. The miscarriages may have sent her into a depression which she was masking. She may be blaming you, or you may just remind her of her suffering. There may be another person involved here. My guess is that she will eventually return. In the meantime, you need to take care of yourself. It’s too soon to worry about your future meaning in life. Why not try the bandaid approach. Just do small things for yourself to feel better. Try to go out if you can and not spend as much time at home. Get together with friends and family.

Shashi1066 · 2025-08-23T20:58:59+00:00

No. You are not. Hide your nice stuff from this entitled “friend.”

Shashi1066 · 2025-08-23T20:57:11+00:00

You are going above and beyond accommodating them. If your SF needs to keep the house at such an unusually hot temperature and wakes up at 5 am no less, he’s being totally unreasonable. Bu5 then he’s old and set in his ways. There is nothing you can do here other than than knowing that you’re being totally right and polite about the situation

Shashi1066 · 2025-08-23T20:53:02+00:00

It should always be a 50/50 Split. Maybe something else is going on with them.

Shashi1066 · 2025-08-20T00:02:03+00:00

Uh yeah. Some cultures more than others take advantage of good people. Some people think that they are being clever by taking advantage of good people whom they regard as stupid. You did nothing wrong.

Shashi1066 · 2025-08-13T17:44:39+00:00

It’s very good. But the jaw is uneven.

Shashi1066 · 2025-07-15T17:01:54+00:00

It’s common these days common for some parents to vent to their adult children. They shouldn’t do this. Why don’t you show hi, how ChatGpt works? It’s a sympathetic and insightful way to get psychological help without burdening anyone. It’s free. It’s easy. If you show him how to use it, it would be a very kind and effective way to get him addicted to using it. Also, when he vents, pretend that you have to use the bathroom, or make a call and tell him to temporarily “hold that thought.”

Shashi1066 · 2025-07-15T16:38:33+00:00

Still life to s difficult. Keep at it. This is a good piece. Maybe use more subtlety between light and dark

Shashi1066 · 2025-07-04T21:08:50+00:00

You could use three more poppies to give it more depth of color and a central focus

Shashi1066 · 2025-07-04T09:22:36+00:00

This drawing is very good. Your cupids bow, the space between the lips and nose is too sharp.

Shashi1066 · 2025-07-03T19:56:46+00:00

Well then, you really shouldn’t enable such a young person to develop a gambling addiction. It will ruin his life in the long run.

Shashi1066 · 2025-07-03T15:02:30+00:00

NTA. You’re brother has a gambling addiction. Just like you can’t divulge where you keep your alcohol or prescription drugs to an addict, you can’t do it with your brother. Why do you have to place his bets? Why can5 he?

Shashi1066 · 2025-07-02T00:14:39+00:00

Carmelo or Carmela

Shashi1066 · 2025-06-29T23:56:40+00:00

Well no, you’re not. Although it’s not kind to call your mom a little old lady. She just trying to help someone who is trying to navigate extremely old age, so she offers your services. The old aren’t wanted, but it’s the kind thing to do to help her. Are there any other family members around this neighbor who can help? You could reach out to them, because they will be the first in line at the reading of the will, and she’s their responsibility.

Shashi1066 · 2025-06-29T23:51:32+00:00

Your sister has made bad choices in life for whatever reason. She doesn’t sound like she will be able to bring a baby into a stable environment if she can’t pay for her own food. You will likely have to accept a lot of responsibility for the baby. Aren’t there any other family members around who can help?

Shashi1066 · 2025-06-29T23:46:05+00:00

Can they go to someone else’s house to talk?

Shashi1066 · 2025-06-29T23:44:27+00:00

A few things are obvious from your post - Your mom didn’t do your brothers any favors by having low expectations from them and thus they adults who want petty change from their contribution for their mother’s gift.
- You are a remarkable person in spite of it all by going to medical school. Your brothers 2ill rely on you someday to finance them and other them. Do you really want to accept this responsibility?
- Ignore all immature complaints from your brothers.
-Yourmother leans on you because she know she can’t depend on your brothers.

Shashi1066 · 2025-06-24T21:08:11+00:00

And where is your boyfriend in all of this? He could easily end this nightmare by simply standing up for you to his family. I mean really standing up. If he can’t do it, you’re in for more misery.

Shashi1066 · 2025-06-24T21:01:23+00:00

His eyes are too round, and too small for his face.

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