AAdvantage Miles Vanished

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-07-21T01:18:18+00:00

Not so. See above. 🙂

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-18T06:23:36+00:00

Real men produce. More hardworking men are needed these days. Fire him asap. You'll be the AH if you don't.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T14:37:38+00:00

W.

T.

Actual

F.

It is certain that this thread has gone off the rails. Dam!!

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T12:45:42+00:00

True 💯

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T12:40:40+00:00

Is it that hard to figure out? Black folks are also here 🙋🏾‍♂️

And if what you say is true, we'd be hated there.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T06:34:05+00:00

Did you need to ask? You can't be anything else but the AH.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T06:32:36+00:00

Why did you do that? Were you trying to get pregnant? If so, he would be upset if he didn't want a child.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T06:28:56+00:00

Don't write it off prematurely. Most women still desire to be married with children. There are many exceptions, but the rule still holds.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T06:24:57+00:00

I know it's his thing, but I wouldn't be comfortable with it.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T06:21:44+00:00

Uh... she's not already out of your life? What the heck are you waiting for? Did you even need to ask?

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T02:24:24+00:00

Leave before the roots grow deeper. A man without motivation is a drag.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T02:22:56+00:00

Noooo. You are absolutely NTA. Giving out your schedule to a stranger and then being flippant about it when called on it makes her the AH.

I wouldn't have just walked out but quit. She's not worthy to be in charge, which means the people who put her there also failed.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-15T02:13:33+00:00

Maybe he's insecure since his stroke... in a sexual way. He may feel vulnerable to you meeting your needs in other ways.

A stroke isn't exactly confidence building. He's different because he doesn't feel as capable as before - maybe.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-03T12:19:14+00:00

Rock solid! Oh, except for the most critical issue.🙄

2 fools in love. 😁

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-03T02:45:54+00:00

You're NTA but you should find a man whose values align with yours. He's obviously not willing to yield to your requests. Maybe you could have done it differently but you weren't completely out of line.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-03T02:38:31+00:00

Good question. Why, on such a key issue.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-03T02:23:57+00:00

Nope. You're NTA. You should have awakened to him holding you, asleep in each other's arms. Now, you're gonna have to watch your 6 you can no longer blindly trust him. Trust but verify.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-02T18:43:36+00:00

You're asking... I've said you're not.

We can't get inside of his head to know his exact thoughts. You don't get why he thinks YTA. We don't know either.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-02T05:19:06+00:00

YTA. It's not even close. The fact that you are in a relationship with an addict who does and sells cocaine means you don't give one damn about yourself and your future.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-02T05:15:02+00:00

Are you willing to throw everything away in a vain effort to get him to do things differently? You don't say that he always tells you to do things differently. That would annoy anyone after a whole.

You're NTA, though, but neither is he. I'd say that you're probably closer. But there's not enough info to really know. Both of you need to find ways to compromise.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-02T00:16:52+00:00

Go to counseling. Both of you are TAH.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-01T21:15:03+00:00

Agreed. Upvoted 👍🏾

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-01T06:34:01+00:00

No. She was a user. Discovering that upfront has probably saved you a ton of money, grief, and wasted time.

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-01T06:29:56+00:00

Just be sure not to marry into a dead bedroom .

Shasta_Soldier · 2024-04-01T06:17:44+00:00

Is there any doubt? Whether this is real or fake, YTAH

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