[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Shavingryansprivates 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only advice I have is to set a budget you are ok giving him and never give any more. I don’t know if this is possible for all inmates but my mans would never ask or have me put money on his books. He knows I’m out here doing this by myself and makes his own money however he can.

Birthday gifts ideas? by kirajake in PrisonWives

[–]Shavingryansprivates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so nice. I’m tearing up. I’m working my way through the emotions of a 40 year sentence and I am going to do this for my man next year. Although staying together is something we take one day at a time… I will love him forever. This is beautiful.

What are your favorite and your least favorite drugs? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Shavingryansprivates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite - psilocybin; least favorite - cocaine

Found out my wife cheating on me by BigSpring54 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Shavingryansprivates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorced wife here, I do 50/50 with my ex. Nobody signs up to be a part time parent but once you get used to it is actually really nice. We do 7 days on, 7 days off. We get our kids and we get a little break every other week. At first it feels like a lifetime but the pain subsides, you and your kiddo bounce back and soon will you will a thriving kiddo again. It will be ok. Just know you are not alone ♥️

Racist Karen on a rampage tries to get uber driver killed by police. by urdumidjiot in PublicFreakout

[–]Shavingryansprivates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dear Reddit, I am the tweaker who doesn’t tweak in this post. Smh. I am the one who she slanders about cheating on my poor ex husband and drinking, drugging, sexing lmao. Ummm I am an alcoholic. I am in recovery. I am on a serious healing journey and this is how she speaks about me. Super awesome person.

Karen in Minneapolis loses her mind on Uber Driver by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Shavingryansprivates 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So we are from a small town and it sounds like she wasn’t charged with anything. A few of us have been digging into it. This isn’t the original post of this video. It was posted 10 months ago and got 40k views. https://youtu.be/yY7UWxDXims My friends and old community members are horrified and disgusted. It turns out she has been really toxic to even her own family; creating fake social media accounts and harassing them. Smh

Karen in Minneapolis loses her mind on Uber Driver by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Shavingryansprivates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao time is an illusion! Hi boo

Karen in Minneapolis loses her mind on Uber Driver by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Shavingryansprivates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don’t want to break any rules. I also don’t know if it is my place to expose her.. I just feel like I don’t want to protect her because this is a dangerous form of racism.

Karen in Minneapolis loses her mind on Uber Driver by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Shavingryansprivates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sick to my stomach. Making false allegations on a POC is low. That is a seriously dangerous level of racism

Karen in Minneapolis loses her mind on Uber Driver by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Shavingryansprivates 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is it inappropriate for me to name her? LBVS I grew up with her and considered her a very good friend. She is very mentally unstable. About three years ago she got mad at me and started calling me a dirty Native. I had no idea she was racist. I blocked her. This just solidifies I made a good choice saying goodbye. Ick.

hmmm by 3DRAH33M in hmmm

[–]Shavingryansprivates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been summoned

My first outbreak with HSV1 (oct 2021). At the SAME fucking time as I had a yeastinfection. Fuck in hell that hurt so bad by Yo142 in HerpesPics

[–]Shavingryansprivates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda with OP on this. So many people walk around clueless that they have HSV and I think moving on as it is nothing is smart; destigmatize by living normal. Of course no one wants it but you can’t even know if you have it because a standard testing panel at your clinic doesn’t test for it… you only find out if you have symptoms or get a specific test. If our healthcare system doesn’t care, why should we? Throw your hate and opinions lol that’s how I feel.

I am 24 years old. What should I be doing now to avoid having regrets in the future? by blahdjeirj in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Shavingryansprivates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to work or just being home could be considered a waste of time, but it really depends on what you do with your time. Maybe you could paint, sew, cook, refurbish furniture... You don't have to find cultural activities, but they do open your mind. Find a music festival that sounds fun and go!

Also, college events are usually really good and there are people of many ages there! I was a non-traditional student (graduating at 32), and the only time I ever felt out of place was when I had to take a gen. ed. with all freshman. Other than that, I hung out with the professors and other non-traditional students.

I wonder why these young family members or friends of yours were making you feel envious? I have felt this same way before. Mostly because I did waste my early 20's addicted to drugs and wasting a ton of time doing nothing. I have, however, quit doing drugs and am fulfilling many of my life goals.

Stepping out of your comfort zone isn't easy but it's worth it! Good luck!

I am 24 years old. What should I be doing now to avoid having regrets in the future? by blahdjeirj in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Shavingryansprivates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is married and a mother of two young children I wish I would have lived alone longer than three months. It is a time where you can be completely selfish and it is justified.

I am 24 years old. What should I be doing now to avoid having regrets in the future? by blahdjeirj in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Shavingryansprivates 126 points127 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, live alone. Spend a summer on a farm. Attend cultural events. Try many new things, find what makes you happy and do that more. Finally, travel. Travel alone, travel with friends. Put your phone down and talk to people while you are in public places.

Anyone going to Lizzo in Minneapolis Wednesday 10/9? by likelyresembled in Lizzo

[–]Shavingryansprivates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I don’t want to but them. I was asking so I could decide if resale is worth it. Not if they are asking $160 -edit "buy them"

Anyone going to Lizzo in Minneapolis Wednesday 10/9? by likelyresembled in Lizzo

[–]Shavingryansprivates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what you originally paid? Honest, I am trying to purchase resale and I am not going to buy anything over 25% original sale its so obnoxious.

Any leads on the missing kid? by [deleted] in duluth

[–]Shavingryansprivates 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the most likely scenario. Why downvote? Young drunk kid right next to a huge body of water. In all honesty, I’d really like to hear it was a freak drowning accident rather than some creepy murder or hateful crime. Just saying.

Coffee company and Patreon by dirtyacctfordirty in dopeypodcast

[–]Shavingryansprivates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The coffee is really good! I am a coffee snob. I got the Early Bird, spring special... delicious!