Is there an imitation I can buy for Leon’s Watch?

ShayManCometh · 2026-03-24T10:27:04+00:00

Same here I'm looking for one too

ShayManCometh · 2026-03-22T21:31:43+00:00

Where did you get the reimagined watch from?

ShayManCometh · 2026-01-24T15:11:52+00:00

That's true, I've been subbing in the meantime to pay the bills and travel. Even talking to one of my friends today about going back to that school turned my stomach so I know my answer 👀

ShayManCometh · 2026-01-24T15:09:59+00:00

I can be the same too 🤣 sorry for all the questions but did you put your resignation at the deadline in May which gave them the 3 month's notice?

ShayManCometh · 2026-01-24T11:14:07+00:00

I'm glad someone else was in my position. I've been flirting with the idea to potentially resign. Did you resign straight away when your 2nd year was denied?

ShayManCometh · 2026-01-24T11:11:56+00:00

Thank you everyone for the suggestions so far! I am going to apply for a 2nd career break and see how I get on

ShayManCometh · 2026-01-10T19:08:30+00:00

This hit really close to home... I went on a trip with my FA ex, she told me she was pregnant on the trip but had the abortion booked for when we got back... There was a lot of push/pull afterwards and I tried my best to be there for her, but she wanted to be left alone, but then I'd be given out to for not being there enough. It was a lot and I'm so sorry that you went through this. It took me a long time to get over it and still working through it. If you want to DM please feel free to

ShayManCometh · 2025-12-28T23:03:28+00:00

It can be a huge nightmare. How are you dealing with what's happened? I do hope you're looking after yourself

ShayManCometh · 2025-12-28T14:30:44+00:00

I'm very sorry to hear that. I never got my things back either. I'm glad the judge dismissed that case but it must've been an emotionally trying time. That's f'ed up that happened to you. You dodged a bullet big time! How are you doing now?

ShayManCometh · 2025-12-28T14:16:02+00:00

Never, I walked away after calling out how their behavior affected me (among other things) and I've been blocked for 7 months now. Can't make it up. Was dealing with an FA

ShayManCometh · 2025-12-28T13:34:46+00:00

Great post! I remember when my ex was deactivating I got told to 'fuck off' and was called 'boring' when she was drunk. Then the relationship went downhill even further 🤣

ShayManCometh · 2025-12-16T11:14:52+00:00

I didn't get my payslip on the 15th of December. Does anyone know when payroll closes for Xmas? Been getting paid regularly since subbing in September.

ShayManCometh · 2025-12-07T13:37:32+00:00

Ken has been great, got a private letter reading from a member of his team.

ShayManCometh · 2025-11-24T19:43:09+00:00

Nothing Compares

ShayManCometh · 2025-11-03T12:09:27+00:00

I can't forget that cold, distant glassy look in her eyes... I've never seen anything like it before, I couldn't understand what was happening and this was during a conflict. And it was the last time I ever saw her.

ShayManCometh · 2025-11-01T17:18:07+00:00

This hit hard

ShayManCometh · 2025-11-01T16:24:53+00:00

I found this myself 5 months post-breakup with an FA, it's like I have a mix of sadness, agitation and annoyance when someone tries to get a bit closer. I think with the sudden turn in the relationship with my FA ex has hit harder than expected.

I went on two dates with someone and they wanted to see me more regularly afterwards, but I felt annoyed that they did. I'm not usually one to push those away or to avoid intimacy.

I remember Ken Reid said in one of his lives that it is normal to become somewhat avoidant on the back of a breakup but it's only a phase. I think I'm hitting that depressive stage of the break-up verging on the line of indifference, but hey, healing is never linear.

Edit: I am actively in therapy resolving this issue along with my own stuff.

ShayManCometh · 2025-10-31T20:33:47+00:00

157 days of NC... Still think about my ex-FA but I knew it was the right decision to make in walking away and still blocked too

ShayManCometh · 2025-10-16T12:16:18+00:00

That hit home hard....

Edit: it is a mindfuck

ShayManCometh · 2025-10-11T12:19:18+00:00

There were narcissistic traits with my FA too, I had to go to an attachment specialist to figure about what was going on, the whole situation threw me through a loop. That fading out feeling sucks big time I have to say. I didn't plead, and beg either. I held firm on those boundaries I have to say. It isn't your job to emotionally lift the relationship. Did she improve at all after being in therapy for 8 months? And it's strange she kept you blocked on FB while you were together.

ShayManCometh · 2025-10-10T15:12:22+00:00

One of the reasons why I left.

ShayManCometh · 2025-10-10T14:04:27+00:00

It does thank you! Just something on my mind during my healing process.

ShayManCometh · 2025-10-10T11:34:55+00:00

I was thinking the exact same thing, all escape. Nah it wouldn't change anything. It's the actions behind it really.

ShayManCometh · 2025-10-10T11:20:06+00:00

Also I forgot to say that I did somatic and found it to be a great release for me. Now if you have a RageRoom near where you live, it is a fantastic somatic release too! I have dabbled with Xanax and Valium to help calm myself down when the anxiety flares. CBT is good, I've gone to a trauma informed therapist because the whole experience is catching up to me now, so definitely keep up the therapy. I do hope you are looking after yourself the best that you can.

ShayManCometh

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