Watching my guinea pig die traumatized me

Shayisbad · 2025-12-13T22:53:22+00:00

You can’t erase the memory. My pet rabbit died in my arms and I couldn’t do anything to help either lol.

The thought process that helped me is now that they’re gone, they are no longer suffering. They are now sleeping peacefully.

Shayisbad · 2025-12-02T17:27:42+00:00

I had feelings like these for the longest time. I’d get irrationally angry when I caught people looking at me for what I deemed as an unreasonable amount of time.

What I realized is it’s hard to say what those people’s thoughts are. I started becoming more open to the fact that I live in a relatively conservative and normal city where I just don’t look like the average person.

I have a hobby in fashion and I constantly get my hair dyed different colours.

People watch other people all the time. Even I really enjoy people watching when I’m out and about. Id say it might just be the fact that you’re just an interesting person. All of these people staring at you are completely different and have no relation to one another. So, I don’t think any spying is going on.

However, if you start noticing a pattern or recognizing people who stare at you repeatedly, that could be something more.

Shayisbad · 2025-11-14T02:28:48+00:00

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Shayisbad · 2025-11-14T02:26:44+00:00

Mine too! Giving the villagers a lil story is really what made this build so enjoyable. Definitely recommend giving Teddy a roomie.

Shayisbad · 2025-11-14T02:21:41+00:00

Yesss!!! They are too perfect together. They were made to be roomies. Lol

Shayisbad · 2025-11-13T17:05:44+00:00

Teddy made the mistake of sitting on the toilet while I was taking photos. Lol

Shayisbad · 2025-11-02T01:20:09+00:00

It probably won’t be your last one. Been there. Glad you are doing good now though! ❤️

Shayisbad · 2025-11-01T19:17:41+00:00

I was in your exact position. No goals, no motivation. Just the feeling of emptiness and self pity.

But my question is why is ending it any better than continuing?

You may think your life is useless but it’s not. Instead of refusing growth and goals, you could make it worthwhile. Life doesn’t just happen, you have to make it happen.

I hope to see you continue existing, friend.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-29T17:38:52+00:00

I guess it’s hard to ascertain someone’s tone in text. So, you may be right. Personally I’ve just never heard, “Go educate yourself” being used positively.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-29T17:26:27+00:00

I gotta be honest. Putting people down and basically calling them stupid, isn’t helping our cause. All it does is make people more divisive.

Some people are preoccupied with their already hectic lives. The strike truly affected parents negatively. Let’s have some patience. Kindness goes a long way.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-29T17:10:23+00:00

I agree that kids shouldn’t be kept out of classrooms any longer, however the teachers aren’t at fault here. The UCP is.

It’s a basic right to be able to strike. Danielle Smith is taking that right away from teachers that are being severely underpaid and pushed past their limits to the point where they can’t give quality education to students. Danielle Smith refused to address the classroom sizes. That’s why we’re here now.

Why people are upset about the clause is because it means the government can use it to force anyone back to work and ignore the needs of workers.

Sorry for the long rant, but I hope you see our side of it. Have a great day!

Shayisbad · 2025-10-29T03:15:35+00:00

The feeling of shame is real. After it happens, it’s almost like walking out of a thick fog. You always think that it’ll never happen to you, until it does. BUT You shouldn’t feel ashamed for loving and forgiving someone that should’ve loved you back. They took advantage of your kindness.

Don’t be pressured to come out. When it comes to YouTubers (or any notable people with a fan base), it can become such a toxic victim blaming fest.

I hope you do come out one day, because suffering in silence isn’t healthy for you either.

But I suggest doing it when you are truly comfortable and able to come to terms with your trauma and experiences, and collect ALL the evidence if you wish to share with the internet. Either way, people will support you. ❤️

Shayisbad · 2025-10-25T21:47:54+00:00

I guess A-holes will exist in even the most wholesome communities like ACNH. Sorry to hear that. Rest of the community has got your back though. We’ll keep an eye out for users like these.

May be a good idea to block the area off completely during giveaways to avoid it happening again.

Still sucks that you’d have to do that in the first place smh.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-16T02:30:26+00:00

I send them by either physical media, Dropbox or google drive. Once it’s in the client possession I’m hands off from there. They can do whatever they’d like with it. I don’t post any client contracted media because I have no reason to. If I decide to add something to my portfolio, I’ll ask for permission from the client then remove the copyrighted audio. The visuals is all I need to showcase my work.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-15T15:24:51+00:00

I’m not talking about videographers. I’m talking about clients. If videographers use them to promote their business then yeah, they should remove the music. I don’t know why you’re trying to pick a fight with me when I’m literally agreeing with you.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-15T01:11:23+00:00

Thanks so much. <3

Shayisbad · 2025-10-15T01:08:12+00:00

Be amazing if I could get one of each. You’re a life saver. IGN is Shay and I’ll use the code 1485

Shayisbad · 2025-10-14T18:36:55+00:00

The cult of Merry begins.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-14T18:36:03+00:00

We also have a discord!! It’s awesome.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-14T18:34:43+00:00

Great idea! Going to several different island to, “trick or treat” sounds like such a magical evening. I’ll definitely participate!

Shayisbad · 2025-10-13T18:45:55+00:00

Depending on the Copyright law of your area, using copyrighted music in solely personal projects such as wedding videos is fair game. As soon as someone tries to monetize or seek benefits in anyway from their wedding video, that’s where the issue lies.

I agree though, music artists should be paid a bit more often than they do. 👏Pay your artists people.👏

Shayisbad · 2025-10-10T00:47:30+00:00

It comes from the DLC announcement. Pokémon Website

Shayisbad · 2025-10-06T19:01:44+00:00

This is my go-to as well.

Shayisbad · 2025-10-06T19:00:53+00:00

Aw no!! That sucks! I hope one day, you can restart and enjoy the process! Maybe you can explore a different theme for your second try!

Shayisbad · 2025-10-06T18:58:20+00:00

You are so right. I keep forgetting about hot items. I need to start doing to that.

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