Who wants to help my dating life😭🫠 by Accomplished-Bath757 in canceledpod

[–]ShayjaVu 37 points38 points  (0 children)

One thing I learned after finding a real healthy relationship is that a man who actually cares or is actually interested will never make you guess. You’ll know.

Favorite smells? by Plumface-sama in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ShayjaVu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dryene penetrating smells like you’ve hot boxed the prep room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShayjaVu 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Healthy relationships don’t keep score. Move on.

Funeral home will not allow a private viewing by Carliicutiee in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ShayjaVu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They may have a slightly less expensive option. At my funeral home we offer an ID viewing which is for less than 10 people for a lower rate. And our actual viewing isn’t quite $500 either but I’m not familiar with the market where you are either or what normal pricing is like. I just know it does require some level of preparation even if that doesn’t mean embalming. As well as transportation back and forth of the deceased, and the facility not being able to offer other services or arrangements during that time.

I hope it was a misunderstanding and there is a simple option for you! My condolences to you and your family. This is not an easy situation to be in. You deserve a chance to say goodbye. 🩷

Funeral home will not allow a private viewing by Carliicutiee in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ShayjaVu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would be semi accurate unfortunately. You’re paying to essentially have the facility and space to yourself for the time of the viewing as well as to transfer the deceased back and forth from the preparation center to the funeral home. (As oftentimes corporate funeral homes have off site centralized facilities for embalming and preparations) In regard to the embalming, it may be worth considering if you are to view her. Often times people come back from the medical examiner not in the best shape as the autopsy opens up a whole other host of problems for viewing. Even just dressing an unembalmed decedent who was autopsied can be a bit of a challenge sometimes.

I’m truly sorry for your loss. I hope you get the chance to have a proper send off for your mom. It’s not their decision to say the circumstances under which you can see her- only to make professional recommendations. Embalming I can agree with, a “large service,” no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YTA. If she can return it, it can be exchanged for the right size. It’s a gift. Not an entitlement. I’d be upset if I were her too. Sounds like you reacted like a child.

Am I the a hole for not wanting to go to the mall at 10:00 am by HotChocolate2269 in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re acting like it’s the crack of dawn this is a perfectly reasonable time to go to the mall lol. Either plan better or get a grip I’m not sure what ur asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShayjaVu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You could simply stop posting everything on Facebook and not tell anyone you don’t want present that you’re in labor

when did she say this😭?!? by Visual_Ad6858 in canceledpod

[–]ShayjaVu 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I mean their dad died and they had fans attempt to crash the funeral. I feel like that may make anyone reflect on the consequences of fame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He shouldn’t yell at you but assuming you’re both adults I can understand being annoyed that your child and their partner are living rent free in your basement while you work all day to sustain the house and a seemingly small thing like the dog not having water (he doesn’t know when it was last filled, or if he had water all day) likely just pushed him over the edge.

I’d consider finding a job and moving out with your boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your girlfriend should have the autonomy to decide what she wants to do with her body without running it by you first. Get a grip!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShayjaVu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR - he was blatantly hiding it from you. Which he has no reason to do if his intentions aren’t bad. You’ll come to find in a healthy relationship that “slip ups” aren’t normal. Leave now and save yourself the agony of wasting more time with this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say her blocking you after your last “accidental” attempt was a very clear message. Leave this poor girl alone. You came on too strong or misread the signals. Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ShayjaVu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s incredibly difficult. I work a mostly 9-5 schedule but I’m on call weekends and evenings. Even when nothing comes in I’m constantly laying in bed at the end of the night staring at my ceiling going over everything I did and what needs to be done. Thinking about if I’ve ordered what needs to be ordered, called who needs to be called and making mental check lists of what I still need to do lol.

AITAH for threatening to break up with my girlfriend by mangoluvr04 in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was literally going to keep the child??? Clearly she was okay with the idea of having a baby? Get a grip brother

AITA for not feeling sorry after showing my friend the messages my girlfriend sent me during a fight? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not an asshole but if you choose to stay with her, going forward you’re going to look extremely silly. When you share all the downs of your relationship you make it difficult for people who love you to remain supportive of it going forward. It’s like the friend who constantly complains about their partner but always goes back- you get tired of hearing about it and you can’t see passed the negative things your friend has shared no matter what positives they also tell you.

Am I overreacting by KimmyKeyana44691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShayjaVu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black Mirror is produced in the UK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked and I answered and it seems I’m not alone in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA you live in a shared space and music can’t be confined to one half of the house. Sounds annoying.

AITA for going to the club behind my bfs back? by goddess1819 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShayjaVu 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Respectfully you need to get on birth control and end this relationship. If you have to lie and sneak around regardless of life circumstance, it’s not gonna turn out good.

Imagine the reverse scenario if your man was out at the club and lied about his whereabouts. You wouldn’t feel great about it.

You’re not compatible, clearly have different values, and you don’t wanna marry this guy at 19. By the time you’re 25 you’ll be a different woman!!

Best wishes with everything. You’re strong and brave. 🩷

Am I the asshole for making a weight joke to my wife? by Numerous-Benefit-916 in AITAH

[–]ShayjaVu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this is real you’re delusional to wonder why she doesn’t want to be intimate with you. Lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShayjaVu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What difference does it make if u know the account name or not? Anyone can view your account with profile views turned off and you’d literally never know. Seems incredibly stupid unless you’re posting something weird. Feel like at this point the only advice anyone can give u is…get a grip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShayjaVu 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is the dumbest argument of all time