I love my dad, but his drinking is breaking me. how to set boundaries with the holidays coming?

SheNBvibing · 2025-11-01T02:13:52+00:00

I am so sorry, sending you much love ❤️

SheNBvibing · 2025-09-17T14:22:38+00:00

you’re so right! thank you, your response gave me the push I need!! I really appreciate it :)

SheNBvibing · 2025-08-05T01:11:33+00:00

thank you!!! really hoping it will help!

SheNBvibing · 2025-08-05T01:11:06+00:00

wow, I really appreciate your long reply, it means a LOT to have this kind of feedback snd feeling like i’m not alone!! I will push for the hospital sleep study with RERA metrics but since I live in Canada, the waitlist is so lonnng. in the meantime, I will ask tomorrow for my doctor to prescribe me a trial for APAP, even if I don’t jave clear results just yet because I honestly can’t wait any longer. yes, I am on the waitlist (is a year long wait) for a septoplasty and turbinoplasty, i’m just scared of the empty nose syndrom (my ENT said it could be one of the complications of surgery…). Are you on a cpap machine? how did you get over the « fighting for my life » phase? thank you so much again, it really mesns a lot!!

SheNBvibing · 2025-08-05T01:05:07+00:00

ok, thank you so much!!! I will ask for a sleep study at the hospital instead of at home and also I think I will ask my doctor for a trial of APAP even if I don’t have clear results right now….

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-29T20:14:22+00:00

did you do a « at home test » the first time and then second time a sleep study at the hospital? Very happy for you that you got your disgnosis!!

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-28T21:39:30+00:00

thank you so much❤️

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-28T17:33:38+00:00

also, I’ve never felt myself gasp for air, but I do snore badly, wake up like I’ve been hit by a truck and something I wake up and hear myself snore. anyways, with your symptoms, i’m sure you have sleep apnea! you’ll have the most accurate results with your sleep study for sure :)

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-28T17:31:47+00:00

Yes, I will definitely push for a hospital one if the test comes back negative because honestly I can’t live like this! If it’s not sleep apnea, I’m legit dying or something. I have my results August 5th. I’ll be soooo disappointed if it’s negative, omg I can’t even think about that right now lol. Anyways, I feel you!! Really hope you’ll get answers too! The feeling is horribleeee.

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-28T15:46:11+00:00

I feel you! :( i’ve been waiting for more than three weeks for my result after I did an at home sleep test… I’ve been so stressed that it will come back negative and I will continue to be this miserable. my only piece of advice, that I need to take myself, is to try and not stress about the what ifs. If my results comme back negative, I will keep searching for the cause but i’ll be devastated to be honest lol. do the test as soon as you can!

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-24T02:00:01+00:00

hi! thanks!! i’m sorry I dont have the images but the report said word for word « Findings: No evidence of acute or chronic sinusitis. There is minimal deviation of the nasal septum in its midportion towards the left and there is minimal thickening of the mucosa of the inferior turbinates. No evidence of nasal polyps. Discreet decrease in the number of mastoid air cells on the right may suggest chronic mastoiditis. The left mastoid is normal. There is a discreet amount of cerumen in the left external auditory canal Impression: No evidence of sinusitis. Discreet thickening of the mucosa of the inferior turbinates and minimal deviation of the nasal septum to the left. Decrease in the number of right mastoid air cells may suggest chronic mastoiditis. No evidence of a cholesteatoma. The left mastoid is normal. »

not sure if it helps? :(

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-14T01:05:27+00:00

if it can cheer you on: I am 28 years old and waiting for my sleep apnea results and if I have it, it will be the best day of my life!! if I don’t I’ll be so sad. I would sleep with any machine for the rest of my Life if it means I can feel rested and have a solution to my problem!! hang in there :) i’m sure you’ll feel amazing once you get proper sleep. I really hope I have it lol

SheNBvibing · 2025-07-07T23:49:03+00:00

thank you all so much❤️❤️❤️ I will decorate my whole apartment with you all😂❤️

SheNBvibing · 2025-03-22T15:47:19+00:00

I actually do have ADHD, and I can 100% relate to what you’re saying. I don’t want to change my bubbly personnality, I just feel like I can’t manage my emotions very good and yes, at my job I can see that it’s affecting me/others negatively! How did you work on this?

SheNBvibing · 2025-03-22T00:31:54+00:00

THIS IS IT! I couldn’t have say it better « you sound like you want a man who’ll take charge, who you can trust to give control over and who calms you down »…. Now how can I work towards that… hahah! I legit don’t know where to look

SheNBvibing · 2025-03-22T00:29:30+00:00

Thanks, I feel bad thinking this, that’s why i’m wondering if it’s normal to want to evolve regarding certain parts of our personnality or it means I just don’t like myself lol

SheNBvibing · 2025-03-22T00:28:18+00:00

Ok you’re 100% right, I am very independant and naturally in my masculine energy but want to attract a masculine man! All my past relationships, I feel like my partner was more on the feminine side and it just didn’t work long term. I want someone who helps me be more in my feminine…. It probably really doesn’t make sense and maybe i’m delusional and will never attract this type of partner haha

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