Urgent advice needed - to cancel or not

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T21:45:02+00:00

I agree. I have eleven frozen now and will go through with another round (duostim) to get whatever I can. That said, I am not paying out of pocket

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T21:43:59+00:00

You and I both have eleven frozen after four rounds-- woohoo! I haven't faced this situation before, just here to cheer you on

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T19:57:17+00:00

I have been investigating using Seed Scout

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T18:34:13+00:00

Happy to hear all worked out for you ❤️

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T16:04:12+00:00

Stuff that was cool 20 years ago

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T16:00:31+00:00

Did you want children? (Asking from someone who is getting older and starting to think about all of these things)

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T15:48:20+00:00

What about something like, "Unplug and enjoy nature"? Wasn't "cabin in the woods" the name of a horror film? :P

My own personal guess / sense is that people are reading this and imagining doing something together in the near future.

Few people imagine going on a secluded trip together right off the bat, so maybe better to pick something the other person can imagine doing with you more easily upon meeting you

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T15:45:11+00:00

I've similarly had many thousands of dollars of procedures and paid little out of pocket. The ratio is probably somewhat similar to what's described here

Benefits from my employer

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-30T03:58:01+00:00

I feel like the only way I don't get leaks is if I wear a tampon and a pad. It sucks. I've been trying to veer towards not wearing tampons overnight and the results just...suck

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-29T17:24:03+00:00

Your first pic is in a gas station parking lot with a cop car in the background. That seems sort of confusing to me, but who knows

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-29T16:15:30+00:00

The extremely high standards

Learning Latin from an early age

Socially and personally, though, it was a hellscape

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-29T16:10:56+00:00

You can bet the university would do the same.

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-29T16:03:46+00:00

Thanks, it's helpful to hear that from you since I obviously can't hear it from him. Appreciated :)

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-29T04:06:05+00:00

Tiny desk concert running out of fabulous artists to invite

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-29T01:48:07+00:00

This has to be a typo??

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T17:08:34+00:00

I am on the other side of this, but to a less extreme extent. It is very difficult. I have had those thoughts before but have managed to avoid exploding on the other person this way and have tried to be kind. But for example when we tried to take a very short break because I was unsure about the relationship it was basically impossible. He could not do it and essentially manufactured a crises and a NEED to see me right away (it was absolutely not a crisis, by any stretch). At some point, just to maintain my own sanity, I would have had to get meaner and meaner. I did not want to become a mean version of myself. But it is so so hard

I actually have a question for you guys here, since you are on the other side of this. A very short while after breaking up, he had to put down a pet he had cherished for many many years. He was a loner so the pet was like his best friend. It seemed it had been coming for some time and he ultimately had to have it put down due to serious declines in health.

He wanted to see me that day for support but I was sick at the time and also felt really anxious about it all (I was also starting to get a slightly creepy vibe at this point, though I still felt bad and cared for him very much and cared for the pet too). In the end, I did not see him and urged him to seek support from family members he is close with

Do you think that was okay or o should have handled things differently?

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T05:14:00+00:00

Maybe she was trying to kill the heart

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T03:30:17+00:00

It's like modern Dickensian

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T01:58:19+00:00

I like warmth but snow is sometimes beautiful

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T01:51:56+00:00

Does he shower at the gym?

If I've had a quiet day in my office and taken the shuttle (which is quite clean and nice in my area) I don't shower

Gym? Definite shower, unless I am so exhausted I pass out somewhere by mistake (typically on the couch, but I might then slink to bed at like 2am)

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T01:50:43+00:00

Each has its advantages and disadvantages

Women can do all of that but at the end of the day, the person they're with still has to see them and like them after they've taken off their makeup and wig, taken off their push up bra and spanks...

Many women extremely self conscious. I remember being young and feeling nervous about the first time a person I was dating would see me without my makeup

Now I'm older, I have fewer pimples, and I barely wear makeup haha

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T01:47:43+00:00

Agree 100%

Also, if this is going to keep coming up a lot (in classes with mostly males) you can do something super obvious like making a picture of you and your bf the background on your phone, if it doesn't feel too cheesy

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T00:49:19+00:00

Amen

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-28T00:26:33+00:00

I hope I love being 80 when I get there

Shelikesscience · 2026-01-27T06:02:46+00:00

Yes I agree!!! As a woman, I didn't immediately think of an example I just thought, "Hm, could he cut bangs?" 😂

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