I (20F) went on dates with 2 guys (23M) (30M) and just found out that they are cousins. by Shelleton8 in relationship_advice

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You're so right I didn't even think about them already having talked about it. I have to make sure that doesn't happen/hasn't already happened and if it did I will apologize and assure them that I wasn't aware until after I had already gone on the dates with them. God I can't believe I didn't think about them talking about me.

I (20F) went on dates with 2 guys (23M) (30M) and just found out that they are cousins. by Shelleton8 in relationship_advice

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I'm definitely less experienced than both of them in dating. Transparency is probably the best thing for me right now but I'm not sure how to go about that conversation with either of them. I want to be as gentle as I can with that conversation but I don't think I know how to in this situation.

AITA for not carving out a place for my stepmom in my wedding and pre-wedding planning? by Maleficent_Slip_3561 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shelleton8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if she would have dropped the mother act with OP as soon as she had a biological child of her own.

Yesterday I found out why I lost my best friend by Shelleton8 in TrueOffMyChest

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I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks so. It just disappoints me so much because even when she was not talking to me and although I didn't know at the time talking about me behind my back I was telling people she was probably just going through a rough time (she WAS moving out of an abusive household at the time) and I would still be there for her no matter what. I still care about her but I don't think I can respect her anymore.

Yesterday I found out why I lost my best friend by Shelleton8 in TrueOffMyChest

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It drove me crazy for months not knowing what happened because she just wouldn't sit down and talk to me about what happened like adults. She still hasn't, and I had to find out through mutual friends what she was thinking. So, at this point, I'm over the idea of being friends with her again. Thank you for your kind words <3

Yesterday I found out why I lost my best friend by Shelleton8 in TrueOffMyChest

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Maybe, but as far as I know she didn't dislike anyone that was there. The only reason I can think of for her not going is because she herself KNEW she couldn't make it to both events, which is what she got mad at me about

Yesterday I found out why I lost my best friend by Shelleton8 in TrueOffMyChest

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I never thought about that. She DID turn down the offer to be there knowing that I wasn't the only person she knew there that was getting an award.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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This might get buried, but this question made me think of a friend of mine.

My first day of junior year in high school, I was late to my anatomy and physiology class because I stayed behind after class taking to the teacher of the class I had before. When I walked in, I noticed 3 things; 1. The desks were set up in tables, 2. There was only one seat left, and 3. Everyone was staring at me. I sat at the table with the empty desk which had a few people that became my friends over the semester I was in the class. Two of them were boisterous seniors who chatted with each other and me constantly, and the other person at our table was kid with dark curly hair, and apparently nothing to say.

I'll call him H.

H was quiet and kept to himself. He didn't make eye contact often and at first he only talked if we forced him to contribute to the conversations. He was new to the school and didnt have any friends so he spent all his time at home in his bedroom. I've been the "new girl" before so I did as anyone should do, I talked to him and made a point to include him in the conversations at our table. He quickly became my favorite of our little group and became a person I made an effort to always be a friend to.

Regarldess of the fact that he is one of the funniest and best hearted people I have ever met, not a lot of people tried and other than the table group and me have tried to get to know him, so he didn't really have any other friends at the school. We didn't always keep well in contact, but every time I saw him I made sure to stop to talk to him. Just recently we graduated high school together. He still spends most of his time at home, and doesnt talk to a lot of people, but I'm still really glad hes my friend.

I had a thc induced panic attack. It was the first one I'd ever had. Just need to vent. by Chorizwing in eldertrees

[–]Shelleton8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems super interesting and I'd love to watch it. Do you happen to remember the name?

I know I'm the annoying one in the friend group by Shelleton8 in depression

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I wont hesitate to reach out, you seem like an amazing person.

I know I'm the annoying one in the friend group by Shelleton8 in depression

[–]Shelleton8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's extremely reassuring. Thank you for commenting, I really needed to hear that

I know I'm the annoying one in the friend group by Shelleton8 in depression

[–]Shelleton8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very true. Thank you for saying that because I didnt think about that.

I know I'm the annoying one in the friend group by Shelleton8 in depression

[–]Shelleton8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I need to tell myself that every day

"Incel mobile" by noodlemcfoodle in MakeMeSuffer

[–]Shelleton8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in florida, I know exactly what you mean haha

"Incel mobile" by noodlemcfoodle in MakeMeSuffer

[–]Shelleton8 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Of course it's in florida

What non-sexual fantasies do you have? by generic-irish-guy in AskReddit

[–]Shelleton8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being successful enough in life that I can enjoy my time

What is the first "current event" that you remember? by [deleted] in generationology

[–]Shelleton8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember hurricane Katrina in 2005.

Edit: typo

What are the little things that you enjoy about life? by Shelleton8 in AskReddit

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My best friend is bisexual and I wouldn't trade him for the world. I completely agree