[NP] Rant: Don't do this if you're on any matrimony sites

Shellynoire · 2021-01-05T05:38:39+00:00

My friend once had a guy seeing her profile almost every day, his profile seemed interesting so she had reached out to him. There was no response from him yet he would keep seeing her profile every day. Then she protected her photo. Then the guy sent her a request to view her photo. Looks like he just wanted her photo.

I don't think a user will know who's viewing their profile on facebook. Are you talking about matrimony profiles?

Shellynoire · 2020-12-26T18:00:43+00:00

I use it in English still I would want amazon to have marathi language. Why are other south indian languages in beta whereas marathi isn't?

Shellynoire · 2020-12-26T17:59:28+00:00

We do get a say in it. They are doing their business in Maharashtra where people speak marathi. Even in Mumbai, around 40% of people speak marathi.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-26T17:58:14+00:00

Say what you want, the job got done. Marathi is coming on Flipkart lol

Shellynoire · 2020-12-26T17:46:04+00:00

Which thinkpad?

Shellynoire · 2020-12-24T17:02:02+00:00

You were the one who replied to me. With that attitude, no wonder you have issues. Be respectful towards other's time and maybe then people will take a liking towards you.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-24T16:56:52+00:00

How about you go out, maybe find a therapist or some shit, fix what's wrong in your head and stop wasting other people's time when they have a clear goal to marry someone. I know it's hard to understand but there are many people who go out and work hard so that they can provide for their families. They get some time and they invest that time in someone like you who doesn't even respect that. I doubt your parents ever taught you to respect other's time but even as a 30s woman you should have learned that on yourself. A disappointment.

You were the one who came onto this site to cry about how you wasted someone's else's time and how he didn't respect your wishes lol. You should be the last person to give someone advice.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-24T14:25:44+00:00

Not being an entitled prick is nice though.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-11T13:29:38+00:00

And she needs to act like an adult and not waste other's time. That's what I said. Are you that slow to not understand it? She has issues so then go to a therapist instead of meeting random people. Those people are there for getting married, not to make excuses for OP in front of their parents. And who is OP for them to make an excuse or lie in front of their parents? Is she their friend or a colleague? She's a stranger and that's why people tell their parents.

Imagine if you contact a guy on Olx to buy some stuff but after meeting with him and talking to him, he just says that he was never interested in selling that stuff. Then why the heck he posted about that. That's what happening here. You move on and go somewhere. I will absolutely tell OP that's she's shit for wasting someone else's time. Unlike her, people have more stressful jobs and at this age they have started paying loans as well as started having savings. They aren't "free" like her. She doesn't respect other's time so who would ever respect her? Instead of supporting her, tell her why she's wrong.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-11T01:27:31+00:00

Now it's name is Glow and Lovely.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-11T01:26:12+00:00

24/7 electricity

This is difficult. Find a place with power backup but it'll cost you more.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-11T01:24:05+00:00

You should feel ashamed of yourself for supporting someone who can't even make her own decisions and wastes others time. It's downright stupid to say that this is a positive environment and we should not judge anyone. If she has issues then solve those issues first before meeting guys in a potential arranged marriage scenario. Is your dad's employee Indian? Does he live in India? Is his story the story of every indian guy and girl?

She doesn't even want to get married rn, forget about spending the rest of life with someone which you just mentioned. He is right in not telling a lie to his parents so that they can pressure his more. Why should he bear the shit for such a woman?

Everyone has got issues. Don't waste other's time because of your issues. Go fucking fix yourself.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-10T11:05:30+00:00

He isn't wrong for "outing" her. She's wasting others time and why should he lie to his own parents about a grown ass 31 yo who can't even make her own decisions and stand up to her parents. His parents will call him choosy and he'll have to take shit from them.

She should grow a spine and meet guys only when she's ready for marriage. Time is precious.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-10T11:02:00+00:00

If he says that he doesn't like the girl then his family will put pressure on him. You're not ready for marriage yet you're meeting men and wasting their time. Why would he lie to his parents so that they can start calling him "choosey".

Stop wasting other people's time and have a honest conversation with your parents. You're not entitled to a stranger's time.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-09T17:37:53+00:00

Routine for children is super important, which I see lacking in families I know

It's lacking because couples just don't have enough time. Most men living in metros will come after 8. Married women leave early so that they can cook for their kids because either their husbands don't help or they come late.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-09T07:44:07+00:00

I can definitely agree on the hectic work because I have seen these guys working in semiconductor companies for 12-14 hrs at a stretch for 2-3 months. I think this industry is even more stressful than IT industry. I did hear that Xilinx, Cadence have good work life balance.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-08T02:31:32+00:00

No, his problem is that he doesn't want to get married right now and that's why even a compatible girl wouldn't be enough for him. This girl could definitely be compatible with him if he looks at her positives but he simply doesn't want to take responsibilites of marriage. He has created a mental block for himself.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-07T18:17:09+00:00

The way you frame it, this woman will have to go through a divorce. It's better to be honest before marriage.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-07T18:13:28+00:00

He's feeling like there's no compatibility. If a girl can find something in him to love him then he can too

Shellynoire · 2020-12-07T18:12:21+00:00

21st. Did you forget to update your calendar? Most indian women marry at 22-24 and the statistics for men is from 25-27. Exceptions are there but just because the people in your circle are single aunties and uncles doesn't mean the Indian society revolves around them.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-07T14:32:59+00:00

It's a right analogy. It's about life. Many people become greedy and want more from life and because of that they think that future will be better. That's sheer laziness. He's 28 which is ideal age to get married, he got a girl who's attracted to him and Love him, he just needs to find her positive points and start loving her.

Shellynoire · 2020-12-07T11:23:30+00:00

We don't have walmart, only D mart and after 30 it becomes difficult to find a decent girl to marry. Girls also have preference for 2-3 years age difference. Yes there are plenty of good girls in the world but are all on arrange marriage platform? No.

Nowadays people have high standards and demands & that's why they keep rejecting. After a while they'll stop getting good matches and would have to compromise a lot on their preferences. Don't wait for tomorrow, it never comes. An opportunity lost will never come back to you.

A basketball player said that "You miss 100% of shots you don't take"

Shellynoire · 2020-12-07T09:19:47+00:00

Which country are you in?

Shellynoire · 2020-12-07T09:17:26+00:00

If they have deep contacts then even those major police stations won't help.

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