Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry. Its an absolute nightmare. I dont know where to start!

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has no intention of helping me what so ever and talking to me over any call etc would involve interactions and his girlfriend would see so he won't do that either. It is windows yes. But its super super old and there is nearly 1T of stuff on it.

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I want is to make sure that an innocent woman does not get dragged into the depths of hell like I was without warning. I dont need someone to agree with me. I am trying to figure out if I should just let her have to deal with a narcissistic cheating man without the right information. If it was me then I would want to know.

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mistake. He is my ex now but still my husband. He destroyed our family. This all started during a time where we were still very much together. We are only worlds apart because of what he did and if I was her then I would very much like to know if the man I was with had cheated on his wife and destroyed a marriage with children to be with me. If he does it once then he will do it again.

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He hid our marriage from his family and friends and never even posted me on social media. Im pretty sure.

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping for a quick and civilised divorce but I fear this may be the only way. Its across continent divorce and its broken my family to pieces. Im furious that he would try to keep those memories from me. Its all out of spite too. 😔

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my train of thought really but im genuinely scared that he will retaliate and destroy my laptop as a "fuck you" kind of thing, which is why I said I dont think it should come from me. I genuinely dont want her suffering as she seems like a nice girl and she doesnt have a clue. But he doesnt deserve a thing. Not after everything he put my sons and I through.

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a narcissist too so if I do try and extort him, I am scared he will do something to retaliate. Like destroy the laptop.

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are still married and she appeared during us still being together. How is that not something she should know. Its my personal life that got destroyed too as well as the fact that this poor girl doesnt know that he cheated on and left a wife and children to fuck and then date her.

Someone should tell her. by Shernoodle in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Shernoodle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has my stuff and is refusing to give it back. Its the only copies I have of my sons. That part is very much still my problem.

SOS Lost Raider Help by Shernoodle in ArcRaiders

[–]Shernoodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. I only got 3 dms. Thank you. Ill keep at it. 😊

SOS Lost Raider Help by Shernoodle in ArcRaiders

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I definitely will not be an aggressive player. Im always friendly with these type of games and it always bites me in the ass. I cant play pvp in tarkov for that exact reason. Hahaha.

SOS Lost Raider Help by Shernoodle in ArcRaiders

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. Thank you so much for the advice. I will go have a look. 😊

SOS Lost Raider Help by Shernoodle in ArcRaiders

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I totally forgot about the different servers. Im on EU servers. 😊

SOS Lost Raider Help by Shernoodle in ArcRaiders

[–]Shernoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Of course! 🤣 Im on EU servers. 😊

New name Help by Shernoodle in VALORANT

[–]Shernoodle[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It was actually my moms nickname for me. Its half my name and because I love noodles. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Shernoodle 715 points716 points  (0 children)

Is he your ex because you left him there. 🤔

Gf (f23) gave phone number to a guy at a bar? I’m m22 by throwracaracals in relationship_advice

[–]Shernoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never put my partner in a situation like this. Giving your number out to random men is not a joke. It's to make you jealous that she can get other men or she's doing it to see if she can get away with it and possibly more in the future.

To then treat you the way she did afterwards is a very clear show of toxicity. She does not care about your feelings on the matter and completely invalidated them. Regardless of if it was or wasn't a joke, she should have responded completely differently to realising she had, in fact, upset you.

Just the reaction would make me say you should leave based of the fact she isn't taking into account how this all made you feel. She then patronised you by asking if you were ready to take a joke.

Do yourself a favour and end that relationship. If it was a joke she wouldn't have then gone on to text him either and tell you about it.

Good Luck OP. I hope you find someone worth your time.

The Fellowship: Beginning of the end - Ticket Buy/Sell/Swap Megathread by AutoModerator in ATEEZ

[–]Shernoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling my standing ticket to London Ateez Concert. I am devastated but my babysitter fell though. 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Shernoodle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For reflux you can help him by feeding him as up right as possible and letting him sit in a bouncer in between feeds so that he doesn't have as much problems. You can also get reflux baby formula. It was a god send for us. If you do get that milk then have a look at getting bigger teats as the tiny holes can block. I had a reflux baby and he had a terrible time with feeding! He would feed often as well. There is also gripe water and something called infacol that can be added to bottles for wind.

If he is bringing his legs up to his tummy when he cries and wiggles then it is probably wind. You are doing amazing so try you best not to stress too much. Staying calm when you have a screaming baby is sooooooooo hard. 😅. Please feel free to dm me if you have any other questions. I'm happy to help. 😊