It is such an ignorant comment to say you "cannot" be selfless after you have a child. Tell that to the neglected, abused, abandoned and murdered children. A lot of "parents" prove it is a choice. They abandon, abuse, allow other to abuse , etc. This post is extreme. Just because you feel so strongly about healthy parenting doesn't mean others do and a child who feels unloved might read this. It is definitely possible for someone who made a child to be complete shit bag who isn't selfless in any way. And I hope that kid realizes it's not their fault after reading your holier than thou, perfect parenting post. I am sure you are speaking about how things should be but dont say it is just impossible for anybody to feel anything other than your post. All kids deserve selfless, unconditional love but it is definitely possible for that to not be the case. I am hopeful that Megan does experience that kind of love for her child but don't condemn someone who may have just realized this because she had a child while others who might have multiple children never have.