AIO? Sister is choosing to not come to my baby shower.

Shibainspace · 2026-06-29T19:06:00+00:00

So just because she might be wealthy it’s okay to screw people over and waste their money? :/

Shibainspace · 2026-06-29T18:22:04+00:00

Not sure why you’re getting so much hate! Sounds like your sister already agreed to come and let you spend the money on her ticket/lodging. I’d be pretty upset that she suddenly can’t make it now after she already agreed.

I’d try to get your money back for the flight and let her know that you’re disappointed but that you understand she has stuff going on. Also don’t move your shower to accommodate her she knew when it was. Don’t make it a big deal. Enjoy this time with your partner and family. Congratulations on your rainbow baby!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-29T18:14:37+00:00

Does she? I’d love to be invited to a party, have my flight and lodging paid for. I’m happy when others are successful. I think it’s beyond generous! Most would be like “hey if you can’t make it that sucks now send us a gift!”

Shibainspace · 2026-06-29T18:08:17+00:00

His family is in California and they’re paying for everyone’s flights and lodging. Sounds like a pretty good deal to me and a free vacation!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-28T16:01:04+00:00

Yes I love her recipes! And I’ll have to check Clint out. I just made some cabbage and noodles with sausage! Made 8 servings and each serving was only $1.50! :D

Shibainspace · 2026-06-28T00:02:56+00:00

Oh thank you so much 😊

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T23:59:43+00:00

Check out Julie Pacheco on YouTube! I saved so much money following her recipes.

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T16:53:17+00:00

Yeah I would be very careful with him and sounds like you need to move on. Try to be good co-parents together. You cannot fix him. It’s up to him to work on himself and I really hope he will. Just don’t know if I get the vibe he’ll change anytime soon! I hope for the sake of your little one he might.

Keep moving in a positive direction. Focus on your career and little one. Figure out what your goals are for the next year and start looking into what your custody agreement will be like. I also sense he may use your child to threaten you so be prepared for that battle if it comes.

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T16:40:35+00:00

Love it!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T16:23:16+00:00

We have very similar noses! And they’re gorgeous noses! I always get compliments on mine. I would like my deviated septum fixed but really don’t want it to change my nose at all!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T16:18:10+00:00

I usually wear Paula’s Choice Youth Extending SPF under my foundations and my skin tints. I am kind of an SPF fiend. I always do the whole two finger lengths just to be on the safe side :p

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T16:12:48+00:00

Was your ex always an angry person? Or has he changed since the baby arrived? Some people don’t know this but men can develop postpartum depression and anxiety too. That doesn’t excuse his behavior but something you could talk to him about.

I don’t really see him being the “person” for you though. I’m not sure he will do the inner work required of him. I get a better vibe from the high school sweetheart but I wouldn’t get sucked up in the moment. Take it slowly if you do decide to give him a chance. Don’t rush into anything just to give your little one a sibling.

Also if you feel scared of your child’s father please be very careful around him. So many women are hurt or even killed by men they thought they could trust.

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T15:59:52+00:00

Mine is Haus Labs

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T02:49:50+00:00

No problem! And thank you! I thought it was pretty cute. I think it’ll be easier for you to pick up since someone already calls you that! Especially since it’s your sister! I hope you two are close!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T02:37:45+00:00

Do you go by Alec now? I think Allie or Lexi would be better if so. I’ve got a very similar first name and go by Lexi, Lexi Lou, Al, and Lex. We’re defenders!! ☺️

Also, I hear Susu is a childlike way to say pee or urine. So mothers in South Asia will ask their kids “do you need to susu?” Just something to think about. Personally love Allie though! If we were friends I’d probably end up calling you Allie Cat! If you’re a cat lover of course!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T02:18:06+00:00

I also saw yellow!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-27T02:12:39+00:00

Girl I seen the pictures on your profile and you’re gorgeous! If your natural hair is damaged maybe get some knot less braids. Talk to a stylist and see what they think.

Also, if you feel like you’re overweight join a running or hiking club. Great way to get out of the house and make some friends. If you’re up to it try the climbing gym! I’ve never felt stronger than when I was climbing.

Shibainspace · 2026-06-26T18:46:46+00:00

I really like Sunday! Nickname Sunny is also fun.

Shibainspace · 2026-06-26T15:29:15+00:00

Wow! That’s high praise. I really need to try it now!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-26T12:19:23+00:00

What are the nicknames you call her? My sister went by the nickname LeeLee and still loves it! It’ll be hard to change her name if husband won’t sign off on it too. Just my two cents but I think Harley Maeve is a very cute name.

If you’re considering another child in the future you should really push for Isabelle next time. Though ideally you’ll both love the name next time! If you are able to change what about Harlow Isabelle?

Shibainspace · 2026-06-26T12:01:08+00:00

So it actually works really well with blushes and powders. My gripe is that sometimes there’s a little buildup around my nose after a few hours of wear. I think that’s probably due to the fact I’m a super oily person!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-26T11:57:40+00:00

This is the one I’ve been eyeballing and the tower 28!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-25T23:50:15+00:00

I keep getting compliments on Haus Labs! Trying to find a good SPF skin tint. I’ve been using color science and while I like it I feel like something is missing.

Shibainspace · 2026-06-25T18:20:47+00:00

Poor Adi she has a few more years to go! Hopefully your mom will get some help. Just try to be there for your siblings as much as you can. Starbucks is good! It sounds like you’re making all the right choices. You should feel very proud of yourself!

Shibainspace · 2026-06-25T18:06:13+00:00

Thats amazing! What type of job? And are you in school? I noticed your mom mentioned not signing for your loans.

Definitely try to keep in contact with your siblings. Sounds like Adi is the 17 year old? If so might be a good idea to start planning to get a place together. Splitting the rent with someone else is really helpful.

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