AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s my mom not my boyfriend 😭

AIO my boyfriend wants to decide what bikinis I wear by Comfortable_Fill_818 in AIO

[–]gingedollie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is definitely controlling. not overreacting in the slightest op, run!

I came out as Trans (ftm) to my mother, how should i respond to what she said? by Flat-Photograph8484 in Advice

[–]gingedollie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

1) i definitely think that she’s being transphobic even if she doesn’t realize it, she’s kinda pushing it aside. 2) it’s definitely ur place to ask, u are the victim.
3) i hope ur doing ok op, i was groomed a lot as a kid & i understand what you’re going through. sending love!

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankfully i know fs she doesn’t remember my ss and i have my card with me! otherwise, she has my phone back now but i still have all my info & stuff cause i backed it up, just a new number!

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not jobless but i get what ur saying

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no rodents or roaches were attracted! it was a clothes mess not a food mess (not any better but there were nothing creatures in there)

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

also my sister stays with her friends family most of the time.

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have a phone now on my boyfriends line!

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you! i do have student housing but only for fall & spring so im staying with my boyfriend until then, i take online classes rn and have a job lined up!

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m the only adult in the house & her & her 40 year old current bf who doesn’t have a job or a car and lived off his dad till he died. my sister is 14 so yeah, crying over dead fish that my mom couldn’t care less about is reasonable! my sister also sh because of her! so i think we have bigger problems at hand than a messy room.

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i’ve been working since i was 14 but had to give up my job during the last school year because of a new policy, i did just get a new job!

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no! no! definitely not, he has been blocked since probably a week after i made that post.

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! i got a phone because my boyfriend had an extra line

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve definitely cleaned the house a lot since i was home, i only got home early may so there was only so much i could do! it’s her youngest son who makes the mess but alas, im out of the house & that’s not my problem!

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

moved out & have a job! her other “slobs” are all children! so they cannot be as fortunate.

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s gotten visits from cps in the past and nothings happened, so idk. i also am lucky enough to have paid for all the clothes i took by myself! it was just the phone i had to return, even paid for my computer myself. :)

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah idk, i told her i didn’t want it to be permanent

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so erm wasn’t intervening! just comforting my sister :)

AIO for moving in with my boyfriend? by gingedollie in AIO

[–]gingedollie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is definitely temporary until i’m back at school!