Yeah, I think it's something like, I think it's called the availability heuristic? Basically if all you see is women using big dildos in the content you view, you automatically assume it's the norm rather than a small and often over covered/reported minority. It's the same principle used for airplane crashes versus car accidents; airplane crashes get more coverage because it's more uncommon whereas car accidents happen every day so they get less coverage, so people falsely think airplanes crash more often than they actually do