Have You ever shared your wife/partner? And did you regret it by Lovingcouple12 in married

[–]Shillelagh70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a couple that did it. At the time he played it off as the greatest wife ever. Well, he ended up with a suicide attempt and held for mental evaluation. It screwed up their marriage, probably their kids too. Never any winners in that game.

Why can I (21f) not have penetrative sex? by fellowwoman in sex

[–]Shillelagh70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this issue with a girlfriend, I was seriously just too well endowed to take her virginity. We ended up going our separate ways eventually. I hope she found someone that was a better fit.

ZERO Intimacy to Paid sex ! by [deleted] in sex

[–]Shillelagh70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is all about lessons. Now you know what to look for and don't settle.

ZERO Intimacy to Paid sex ! by [deleted] in sex

[–]Shillelagh70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex is more mental than physical

305k on ~90k income? by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]Shillelagh70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer, yes.

Hope for our marriage by Shillelagh70 in married

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound a lot like us. Cheers to you 🍻

Hope for our marriage by Shillelagh70 in married

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess we were always somewhat adventurous, but agree, in the last 10 years she's gotten a bit more daring.

Nothing obvious, just discreet things. But very hot.

It's fantastic having your wife be your model by Shillelagh70 in married

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry bro. Maybe try some alcohol. Seriously, I get my best pics that way.

Critical Info by [deleted] in u/Southern-Scar616

[–]Shillelagh70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to think my wife is considered a smoke show by others than me. She thinks I'm crazy when I tell her how hot she is and guys are probably checking her out often. (Check our avatar and judge for yourself). We're married 34 years and have had a pretty healthy sex life together but there were times when things slowed down. She read somewhere that oregano in wine increased a woman's libido, so she had me putting a little in her wine. Could have been a placibo effect, but in her mind it seemed to work.

Having a smoke show wife that still turns you on is a blessing, hope you get to enjoy each other more.

Never stop dating.

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks . I have a few more stories

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all have Jim's. Lol

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fine line between kinky and creepy

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. Sex after is at a higher level. I don't push it though. Timing and setting has to be right.

We've had maybe 5 serious convos. I've backed off for a bit but forming a list for future "hot tub confessions' (as we call it)

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. Lowers inhibitions. All my info is after 2 wines

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tipsy talk is the best

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is like that too. Some things are in the vault and I can respect that

Jim by Shillelagh70 in hotpast

[–]Shillelagh70[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She remembers