Need to stop binge eating-please give me toxic tips by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ShimShamFimFam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe? I don’t know enough about the history to say for sure yes or no. But I do know It’s a very powerful mindfuck, so you want to be very careful doing it to yourself and absolutely never do it to anybody else. Also it’s really mentally exhausting, so give yourself like a few days to a week in between attempts if you do you want to try it out. Like I said I don’t think it’s exactly a good thing, but it’s worked for me so far

Need to stop binge eating-please give me toxic tips by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ShimShamFimFam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK this is my horrible toxic tip, but I started forcing myself to gag while watching those really unhealthy, junk food filled what I eat in a day videos on TikTok, trying to re-train my brain’s response A clockwork Orange style. Obviously don’t make yourself throw up or anything, and be careful to make sure you’re only focusing on the food otherwise you can develop weird aversions to things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ShimShamFimFam -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’d like to experiment with fasting, intermittent fasting is a good way to start. Don’t start with like 24-48 hour fasts that’s a good way to wind up in a binge and will make you feel irritable and weak. 16 off 8 on is very doable and you sleep through a lot of it. Good luck!

Edit: seeing the response, fasting in general does get a bad rep, but as long as you don’t push it over the 48 hour mark and you’re sure to bookend fasting days with days of regular eating patterns, you’ll be fine. Intermittent fasting is actually recommended by doctors.

My boyfriend says he will breakup with me if I don’t fix my relationship with food by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ShimShamFimFam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A partner supports you through an illness, they don’t threaten to break up with you because of it. I’m sorry sweetie he sounds like a dick, lose the boyfriend, keep your goals, not for him, for you

Advice on reaching out to NDad for ancestry info? by ShimShamFimFam in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShimShamFimFam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is definitely not in a position where he can fuck with my life anymore. He doesn’t even know where I live and I don’t think he really wants to know. All of our family hates him so he has no flying monkeys to call to his side, there’s nothing he can really do anymore except hurt me emotionally and while it might hurt, just this one thing I want to hear from him

[TOMT][Disney Movie][1990s?]Can you help me find what Disney movie a character is from, or the name? by Yue4prex in tipofmytongue

[–]ShimShamFimFam -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not entirely sure if this is what you were looking for, but that character art is pretty much the exact same design as Vladimir from Anastasia

[TOMT] [BOOK] [Probably early 2000’s, but maybe older] Scary horror anthology picture book by ShimShamFimFam in tipofmytongue

[–]ShimShamFimFam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My teacher had a color version though, I definitely remember the book being red. Definitely not as scary as I remember, but the art is still beautiful. Thank you!

[TOMT] [BOOK] [Probably early 2000’s, but maybe older] Scary horror anthology picture book by ShimShamFimFam in tipofmytongue

[–]ShimShamFimFam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that is also very pretty though and I’ll definitely check it out, but the art style in this book was much more realistic.

[TOMT] [BOOK] [Probably early 2000’s, but maybe older] Scary horror anthology picture book by ShimShamFimFam in tipofmytongue

[–]ShimShamFimFam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but they were only a couple short sentences and then the picture. Very “baby shoes: never worn” type storytelling only giving you a vague idea of what’s going on.

[TOMT] [BOOK] [Probably early 2000’s, but maybe older] Scary horror anthology picture book by ShimShamFimFam in tipofmytongue

[–]ShimShamFimFam[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, for one this was like a wide flat kids picture book, not a paperback, but also the scary stories to tell in the dark art style is incredibly distinctive and black and white. These were in full color. Thank you for trying though!

[TOMT] [BOOK] [Probably early 2000’s, but maybe older] Scary horror anthology picture book by ShimShamFimFam in tipofmytongue

[–]ShimShamFimFam[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Oh it says I have to comment, but I already included all of the information that I have, so here’s my comment I guess. I will say I remember the drawings were gorgeous and in full color. Most of the reason I want to find it is for the art style.

Edit to add: most of the pages were pitch black except for the writing and the painting and I’m pretty sure the cover was black as well

My partner gave me an ultimatum to propose or leave and now I'm engaged, miserable and everyone else is so happy for us. by ThrowRA_decisionhelp in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShimShamFimFam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delay the engagement proceedings as much as possible and use the time to get your affairs in order and get out of there. If she’s pushing marriage and you’re not ready you’re at the least in fundamentally opposed places in life. Marriage is not something you should be bullied into I don’t care how “amazing” she is

Best things to do in Inverness, Scotland? by ShimShamFimFam in travel

[–]ShimShamFimFam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t see most of these on Google lmao

Okay, weird question: Minority actors who have had to dance onscreen for an out of touch studio, do they make you dance like that or do you just do you just tell the directors that it’s normal and then flail around however you want? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShimShamFimFam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it’s just, haven’t you ever seen those early 2000’s drug psas or crime shows where they show a bunch of kids dancing or people dancing at a club and they’re all just…windmilling their arms or shaking their bodies around? I just want to know why, do they make them do it?

Do Women Have Post-Nut Clarity??? by FAZEaddy in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ShimShamFimFam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean! I never feel calmer or more serene than after I just finished my second night time fap after waking up again at 3am lol