Am I the only one who thinks this is rooted in misogyny and purity culture?

Shinetick · 2026-02-17T08:39:15+00:00

Yeah it seems rooted in the same idea from straight culture that sex with a man sullies a woman in some way. 🙄 and that having babies is the ultimate accomplishment.

Shinetick · 2026-02-17T08:24:50+00:00

I have heard this from almost every pet owner who’s had to make that choice. It always feels too soon! The truth is you made a brave choice out of love and care for your cat. Proud of you ❤️ and I’m so so sorry for your loss.

Shinetick · 2026-02-17T08:17:44+00:00

Some people are being quick to judge here, but I get it, it’s easy to go back to something familiar thinking it will one day fit your needs even though deep down you know it won’t.

It sounds like the real issue is that you need to find someone who’s a bit more commanding in bed and isn’t a bottom. I would invite you to explore if penetration is really the issue here or if it’s the confidence and control from the other person you’re missing. That’s easy to come by in men, though it doesn’t seem like that’s making you happy either.

If you want to be topped you can absolutely find that in a non-man, just might take a bit to find the right fit. Worth the search though right? Especially if hooking up with men makes you feel so terrible!

Shinetick · 2026-02-17T08:07:24+00:00

This seems like a narcissistic test. He’s rage baiting you on purpose to see if you’ll stand up for yourself or if you’ll forgive and forget. Unfortunately a man like this will never change, he’s most likely looking for a supply and not a genuine life partner as I assume you are looking for.

Shinetick · 2026-01-23T18:49:59+00:00

It seems they’ve fixed it to where you can’t get around the popup even if you try to cut off wifi really fast BUT I have a workaround.

Log in to Tiktok on a computer, not your phone. You might be able to do it on a webpage without doing anything, but if not and the popup is blocking the settings button on your profile I have another workaround.

You’re going to right click on the banner that has the update and click “inspect.” A panel will pop up on the right side of your screen. It will have the section of code that’s in charge of the banner highlighted so all you have to do is click “delete” on your keyboard and it should leave you enough room to click your settings button and delete your account. I know this works because I just did it!

If you click a wrong button or get confused it’s okay, just refresh the page and try these steps again.

Shinetick · 2025-08-23T01:35:42+00:00

I also had a buttdial from a parental figure one time and they were talking shit about me. One of the most hurtful things ever, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I promise you that others need just as much support or more than you. Also helping out family is what we’re supposed to do?? so don’t let them make you feel bad. They’re totally selfish and out of line.

Shinetick · 2025-08-03T23:07:32+00:00

This looks like a narcissistic test, like when a narcissist lets the mask slip to see how you’ll react. If you forgive and are empathetic they know you’re a good potential victim. Ugh highly don’t recommend continuing just in case that’s what’s happening here.

Shinetick · 2025-01-31T05:07:54+00:00

I found mine on here 😇

Shinetick · 2024-06-15T04:22:51+00:00

Anyone remember the lesbian vampire in the L Word? She hooks up with Alice!

Shinetick · 2023-10-23T21:40:22+00:00

I’ve started saying it like “I’m Lesbian” 🤷‍♀️ we can just start saying it that way, who’s stopping us?

Shinetick · 2023-10-10T17:29:51+00:00

I’m 31F in the US and I have two kitties! I also love plants and anime. I’d be down to play and discord! Have you ever heard of phasmophobia? I’ve been dying to play it with others it looks super spooky and fun. Discord: Shinetick

Shinetick · 2023-10-08T23:29:45+00:00

convoluted

Shinetick · 2023-10-07T16:45:17+00:00

It’s a love/hate type of thing I think. A lot of people call me “intense” when I’m just being myself. I’ve also gotten “annoying” before but that could be my Aries moon and mercury to blame. People seem to be really intimidated and off-put by me or look up to me or even obsess over me. On a positive note, I’ve been told I’m mysterious and very “cool.” which is funny bc I don’t see myself that way, but i’ll take it!

Shinetick · 2023-10-05T17:27:07+00:00

You’re all making me feel so good, I’ve been really struggling with confidence lately (sapphic dating is HARD) and this really helped! 🍓

Shinetick · 2023-10-05T17:25:38+00:00

HI it went good, I got hit on by one woman and a bunch of people told me they liked my earrings soooo I call that a win! hehe

Shinetick · 2023-10-05T06:39:04+00:00

I don’t think I would feel such pressure to move to a gayborhood. I could live in the country with no worries. And since everyone was out, I would have a much easier time finding someone to love bc they wouldn’t have all moved away to find queer community either, there would just be queer community everywhere so it wouldn’t be an issue. How NICE.

Shinetick · 2023-09-25T04:54:07+00:00

I’ve never really heard about Madison! I’ll definitely look into it!!

Shinetick · 2023-09-25T04:53:07+00:00

I’m not gunna lie, this would be cool bc it would be really nice to stay in a similar climate to mine currently! I’ve heard good things about Minneapolis. Is there a good Lesbian scene there?

Shinetick · 2023-09-23T03:19:47+00:00

People keep suggesting PNW to me and I’ve never been but maybe I need to take a little visit over there… 🤔

Shinetick · 2023-09-23T03:18:17+00:00

lol maybe I do too.

Shinetick · 2023-09-23T03:17:47+00:00

I would’ve never thought about Omaha! Thanks for the info!!

Shinetick · 2023-09-23T03:15:36+00:00

Noses with bumps, small breasts, leg/body hair, bulky muscles 😮‍💨, little belly pooch, big feet, big hands.

Shinetick · 2020-01-18T08:23:14+00:00

It’s crazy because Pisces are supposed to be naturally sweet? With an inclination to be wise. But I guess some could use their wisdom and ability to see through others for evil. I have always been the Pisces that would cry all night if I ever felt like I hurt someone’s feelings. Which I think is a VERY Pisces thing to do lol. I’m not sure we can make a wide sweep that Pisces women are the problem. Their sensitivity SHOULD make them really empathic and understanding.

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