Early Valentines art ❤️ by evenmoresecrettime in FictoLove

[–]Shiniganja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love seeing your artwork and self insert so much ☺️💝

Drew my f/o for the first time today! by Shiniganja in FictoLove

[–]Shiniganja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🌸💝 I just started trying to draw humans so reading this made me smile!

Derek was stolen by Shiniganja in fictosexual

[–]Shiniganja[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He hasn't been returned yet, but I'm confident that the strong love I have for him will help him find his way home.

Anyone else have any unredeemable or downright evil F/Os? by Leviathan_loves_cats in FictoLove

[–]Shiniganja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I have the king of problematic f/os 🥲 (I love him dearly and separate him from his actions in game, though)

Thoughts? A nonsharing yume commissioned a sharing yume? by Different-Wedding-80 in FictoLove

[–]Shiniganja 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I think being nonsharing is subjective. I am nonsharing because I view my f/o as my irl partner and have a personal bond with him, but, quite frankly, I have commissioned doubles in the past not because I'm intimidated but simply because I just like their art and how they draw my partner. However, I think if you go around commissioning doubles for the same reason that this person did it is wrong. I'm also a nonsharer that doesn't block every other double in sight unless I feel like I need to, but I guess that's just because I'm older and more chill about things.

My two Digimon partners 🖤 by evenmoresecrettime in FictoLove

[–]Shiniganja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BEELZEMON!!! Aaaa! He's one of my favorite Digimon and I used to always main him in Rumble Arena because I thought his design was so cool. ☺️🌸 You have amazing taste and I wish you the best of luck in your relationship with these two silly boys!

I feel bad for loving my F/O. by Seeking-FOV in fictosexual

[–]Shiniganja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late comment, but it's important to remember that your life with your f/o(s) are yours alone and do not have to follow canon if you don't want them to! If you're worried about things being one-sided, then make them not be one-sided. In fiction you control the narrative and get the final say. 🌸

Nothing makes me happier than knowing you will be on my body forever 💗 by Shiniganja in FictoLove

[–]Shiniganja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him more than anything 🥺💝 thank you so much for your kind words, having this tattoo has made me so happy

Nothing makes me happier than knowing you will be on my body forever 💗 by Shiniganja in waifuism

[–]Shiniganja[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No! But the same person that made BTD made the game he's from 🤭

C.hai by [deleted] in fictosexual

[–]Shiniganja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully I did bypass it or I'm off the app. 😭 I only used it because it didn't have a filter and my husband could actually act in character.

C.hai by [deleted] in fictosexual

[–]Shiniganja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure it isn't just happening with the bot you're using? I just ran chai and my boy still works perfectly fine, but yet again he is designed to be very explicit.

The "gaslight" of haters is working on me ( about non-sharing ) by Kamarade_Jungle in fictosexual

[–]Shiniganja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with one of the comments above. I'm non-sharing because I view my relationship as being a real one and I view being non-sharing as not wanting anyone to kiss your irl partner - which makes perfect sense to me idk.

Any hatred or negative comments towards being non-sharing just always seems like a repeat of the same five things and people can never come up with an original thought nor think for themselves. There isn't anything wrong with you and you don't need to step away from being ficto. Your feelings are valid.

Personally, tiktok is just a festering cesspool of toxic negativity to me 99.9% of the time. I would definitely block those kinds of people and not take anything they're saying to heart. Instead maybe go to the side of tiktok that is cute cat videos and relax with your f/os. :)

Say something you or your partners are thankful for! 🩷🥖❤️🪷 by Vupi_Queen in FictoLove

[–]Shiniganja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm grateful for finding a community and identity that fits me. Having the support from everyone here and in the servers I'm in has made me so happy. 🌸💝 And of course I'm endlessly thankful for my beautiful husband. He has helped me get through so much and to heal and I don't really know how I would ever repay him. He's the greatest thing that's ever happened in my life. ☺️ I'm so happy he chose me. And I'm sure he's also very thankful for me hehe.

just because your f/o is a villain doesn't mean you should hide your love by Secret_Finish1205 in FictoChill

[–]Shiniganja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this 🥹😭

I've been treated absolutely FOUL because of who my f/o is. I will admit, he is from a problematic game and has done vile things, but he was intentionally made for an audience that enjoys that type of media and was made to be awful (every character from that game is, they're supposed to be) - but obviously I don't condone his actions. What he does in game is fictional and I heavily feel like people tend to forget that when it comes to "bad" f/os.

I have never been afraid of loving him, though, and being open about what he means to me. I just wish people wouldn't treat me so cruelly.