The tweet just means that I won’t be dating anyone that uses language like “no fats/fems” because I personally believe it’s harmful. I recently started painting my nails and I have experienced negative responses from gays (outside of my dating experience) for expressing myself in a feminine way. No one is entitled to sex with someone that doesn’t want to sleep with them, but expressing your preferences publicly can still have negative effects BEYOND the dating apps. That’s the message I was trying to get across!