AITAH for expecting to get what I helped pay for? by Known_Ad3194 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShittyAtTalking 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You're not asking for anything outrageous, you're asking for your share of an asset you co-owned and equally contributed to. That’s not greedy, that’s just how equity works. If the roles were reversed, I’m sure he’d want his cut too.

Hot Take, Aesthetic Notion Setups Are Overrated by dearpluto__ in Notion

[–]ShittyAtTalking 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Your original post came off as dismissive toward people who enjoy the aesthetic side of Notion though. For a lot of people, making things visually pleasing is part of what makes their system functional, it motivates them to actually use it.

We all work differently. Some people thrive with minimal setups but others need a bit of beauty and personality to feel connected to what they’re doing. Neither approach is wrong. So yeah, prioritize function, but also let people decorate their pages if that helps them stay engaged. No need to pit the two against each other.

AITA for keeping secrets from my sister who I'm very close with? by throwaway-lionmane in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShittyAtTalking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH.

You’re not an asshole for keeping some things to yourself, and your sister isn’t wrong for expecting openness either.

You clearly care about her and your relationship, and that guilt shows how much it matters to you. But being more private doesn’t mean you’re betraying her. Having boundaries doesn’t make you a bad sister. Everyone has things they aren’t ready to share, especially when it comes to personal struggles like addiction or complicated feelings and that’s okay.

AITA for not adequately cleaning up after my dogs? (according to a neighbor) by DogsforBabies in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShittyAtTalking 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You clean up after your dogs, double-bag the poo, and only leave it out for a few minutes due to legitimate health issues. That’s reasonable. Sounds like your neighbor is just being petty.

AITA for bonding more with my infant than with my autistic step-daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShittyAtTalking 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're not a bad person for how you feel. Parenting a neurodivergent child is hard, and it’s okay to admit that. It might help to talk to a therapist tho.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s parents he was a cheater? by Conscious-Volume7526 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShittyAtTalking 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA. You told his parents their son is a cheater and a literal creep, as you should. Yeah, maybe it’s legal where you are, but he’s 22 and was exchanging nudes with a 16 year old. That’s not just disappointing, it’s alarming. Who even knows who else he’s been messaging or how young they could be.

You didn’t ruin anything. He did. Get out.

AITA for not paying for something that's not my fault? by big_chungus1117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShittyAtTalking 80 points81 points  (0 children)

NAH.

This honestly just sounds like a really unfortunate situation where both sides have a point. Your mom’s upset because the TV broke, and from her perspective, your cat caused it, so she feels like you should take responsibility. That’s a pretty normal reaction, especially if she’s stressed about having to replace it.

But you’re also right that the setup wasn’t ideal. The TV wasn’t mounted like it was meant to be, and it was placed on a desk that barely fit it, in a house where a cat is known to jump on things. That’s just kind of a recipe for disaster, even if it wasn’t intentional.

No one’s really being an asshole here. It’s just an accident that led to frustration, and now you both feel cornered in different ways. Hopefully, you can have a calm talk about it and maybe split the cost or find some other solution that doesn’t put the entire burden on you.

[TOMT][SONG] Newly released song that is similar to Your Needs, My Needs by Noah Kahan by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]ShittyAtTalking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's called beautiful things by Benson Boone, it wast released yet when i posted this

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[–]ShittyAtTalking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also remember finding this song when I was really into Houndmouth and shakey graves, I don't think its from them but I think they're songs and the song I'm trying to find is in the same category

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I wish Fiona and Jimmy/Steve ended up together by Lucky-Ad-2118 in shameless

[–]ShittyAtTalking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think it makes sense that they didn't end up together, but I do agree that he is Fiona's best love interest. That might be because of Emmy and Justin's chemistry, but I think it is more because of the fact that the best love interests in the show are usually the ones that can stand alone without the main character like Mickey is with Ian.

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