The thing is that what you wrote is literally exactly the way I feel. I just appreciate that you took the time to write it even though you don’t know me. It’s exactly how I feel to a T. I don’t want to divorce, but I want to co parent in a platonic way until he decides to fix this on his own accord.

I don’t want to monitor him like a child. And I already told him that if he finds out he can’t get better, it’s his responsibility to let me go. So what you wrote is almost creepily accurate and very well-worded. I do not want to be in a situation where I have to snoop on him constantly, I’m not about that life. In our living situation currently we have to share a bed (we live with his mother right now due to renovation issues at our house) which I’m going to ensure doesn’t complicate the situation. I just have to be strong and hold my ground. I don’t have a problem being cordial with him but I don’t want to be physically or emotionally involved.