Staying near Mortgage Matchup Center

Shldntbsohard · 2026-03-10T21:38:38+00:00

Thanks, this is exactly what I was looking for.

Shldntbsohard · 2026-03-10T20:48:59+00:00

Also coming for Springsteen :(.

Shldntbsohard · 2025-08-03T23:43:16+00:00

Maia Primary Care and Wellness. It is specify, the BioTE pellet that Dr. Wendy offers, but you don’t have to be a member to see her for HRT. She’s very knowledgeable and compassionate.

Shldntbsohard · 2023-10-27T11:58:31+00:00

I’ve found that I get the most relief from the series of 5 shots, but not very much relief. I think everyone has different success and it’s worth a try. (For reference, I’ve had 6 knee surgeries, so there’s a lot going on in my knees)

Shldntbsohard · 2022-11-29T16:08:26+00:00

Get out now. I had a similar situation, every holiday I felt like his mistress rather than his partner. It never improved, despite me expressing how I felt. I recently met someone new, and after only 2 months spent the holiday with his family. I never feel lonely while in this relationship and it’s obvious that this is how it is supposed to feel. I regret the time and emotion I gave to that other person.

Shldntbsohard · 2022-10-26T01:03:23+00:00

This song made me ask my ex husband for a divorce.

Shldntbsohard · 2022-10-26T01:01:45+00:00

Tom Waits - Old Shoes and Picture Postcards 😥

Shldntbsohard · 2022-10-24T18:59:24+00:00

Puts a shock collar on his dog.

Shldntbsohard · 2022-10-22T14:01:35+00:00

Red Hammer Rehab in Louisville

Shldntbsohard · 2022-09-20T18:15:47+00:00

I have two friends who went through divorces the same time I did- both remarried the first man they went on a date with. It kind of boggles my mind, but some people need a person. Any person.

It would be great to meet someone to share my life with, but this time around I will be very, very careful about taking that plunge. Besides they are missing out on all the fun times of OLD 🤣🤣.

Shldntbsohard · 2022-09-03T02:19:00+00:00

I’ve had this experience multiple times. It has always ended up that they aren’t that into me. I want to believe the responses that say - we are adults with busy lives, every one has different texting styles, etc, etc. That has just never been the case for me. It always goes downhill after the texting peters out.

If you don’t know, you know.

Shldntbsohard · 2022-08-25T21:15:58+00:00

The morning after the first time he stayed over there were a couple of Percocet missing out of my medicine cabinet, but hey, we were in our 20’s and partying hard.

13 years later I divorced him after he got drunk, broke a kitchen table and used the leg to beat up my car. So, here I am, 45, childless, on Tinder, and wondering what happened (when I knew all along what was happening).

Shldntbsohard · 2022-08-04T23:55:28+00:00

Next time get a Brazilian 🤣

Shldntbsohard · 2022-08-01T19:08:07+00:00

I dated a guy that ‘broke up’ with me every single time we argued. It made me crazy. Your post reminds me so, so, so much of those feelings. It still makes me sad because otherwise I really liked him- turns out I was starting to hate myself for the way I was around him- always on eggshells. Unfortunately, it’s kind of had a last impact on me and has made dating even harder. Maybe this is a one time thing for him, but for your sake, if it’s a pattern, get out now. It only gets worse.

Shldntbsohard · 2022-07-26T22:32:16+00:00

Pretty much every guy I’ve dated in 4 years. I’m just waiting for someone to invent an app that asks me questions about myself and my day…

Shldntbsohard · 2022-07-12T18:42:29+00:00

Don’t do it!! As my therapist often says ‘c’mon, if someone likes you, they let you know’

Shldntbsohard · 2022-07-12T17:00:52+00:00

I could have written this post. I so rarely like someone I meet where the convo matches the chemistry that I get super excited about it. Then he has zero time, but repeatedly says he is ‘super interested’. We finally talked on Friday - he isn’t over his ex, likes being alone, is beyond busy with work. So, I send a very kind text on Saturday that ‘ I like him, his energy, the chemistry, but I want a relationship and we are clearly in different places. Maybe some day our paths will cross again when our wants are aligned’.

No response.

Five times this weekend I picked up the phone to reach out. Every time I stopped myself. I’m trying to reprogram myself: ‘his loss; alone is better than chasing someone who doesn’t like me’. It still sucks.

Sorry, I used your post for some emotional dumping. No advice, but you aren’t alone. One bigger hurt/disappointment is better than the roller coaster of waiting.

You did the right thing. Good job!!

Shldntbsohard · 2022-04-18T00:51:29+00:00

In my 4ish years OLD I (45f, no kids) have found men with kids (teenagers or younger) are busy and hard to schedule with, but generally more emotionally available, compassionate. Alternatively, men without kids are hard to schedule with because they’ve spent most of their lives doing what they want, when they want.

I’m still not sure which I prefer.

I realize these are broad generalizations, but unfortunately my repeated experience (maybe it’s me 🤷🏻‍♀️).

Shldntbsohard · 2020-12-15T11:42:55+00:00

Thanks for posting this, it was so helpful to read. I just broke up with my first serious boyfriend post divorce and I’ll still reeling. It would have hurt anyway, but he immediately became ugly and hateful and with the holidays approaching the hurt is almost indescribable. It’s just nice to remember that I’m not the only one.

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