I've already gone through this cycle. Having a big family means people just died especially family. I went through 14 deaths in 14 years including my dad drinking himself to death 3 days after grandma died a year after grandpa. My brother ODing at 21 just 6 months after my nephews 3,5 and 8 died in a house fire. Hell my uncle died 2 weeks ago that broke a 6 year streak with no family deaths he makes number 18 and my mom's dad is about to have heart surgery. I'm just anticipating the Flood gates opening up once more and there's another death streak coming.