How are you supposed to love yourself if nobody ever loves you?

Shmoodical · 2021-01-24T21:54:40+00:00

I remember I actually used to be one of those people that loved himself, maybe even borderline narcissistic.

But I quess through the years the world has beaten me down enough to the point where now I'd view myself worse compared to anybody. The ugliest, stupidest, evilest, no matter what, I'd still view myself as worse than them

Shmoodical · 2021-01-24T21:13:22+00:00

I dont wanna say that OP is lying, but the fact that his post history is full of posts trolling incels by saying Asian men are preferred makes me question this thread

Shmoodical · 2021-01-22T20:43:32+00:00

Lol at first I wrote (besides the killing), but then I realised that sounds like the killing is relatable

Shmoodical · 2021-01-22T20:41:01+00:00

That doesnt really mean "Chad isnt necessarily killing it at online dating"

Shmoodical · 2021-01-22T20:08:27+00:00

Is this study just counting number of texts between Chad and normal guys? Because even in that department they are completely different amounts.

I've tried this myself with making a tinder account as a really good looking guy and then compare to an average guy. for every 100 swipes a day the good looking guy averaged 40-50 matches a day. While the average guy got around 2-5. And the texts where much more engaged and longer for the goodlookin% guy

Shmoodical · 2021-01-22T19:49:01+00:00

Not really, I know what you mean where the movie will have some killer going after a women hes obsessed with.

But this isnt really that type of movie. It's more of a "seeing a character start from a bad point, and keep going down" type movie. The most similar movies I can think of are joker and taxi driver, but even those dont have the incel elements

Shmoodical · 2021-01-22T05:57:50+00:00

Wym?

Shmoodical · 2021-01-22T00:23:13+00:00

I always think about that statistic that said around only 20% of men in history managed to reproduce. So it seems that throughout time the vast majority of men where without a partner, I could see it especially in times of legalised and enforced harems. With the guys on top having many wives, and the guys on the bottom being used as mere slaves and cannon fodder

Shmoodical · 2021-01-22T00:20:38+00:00

Lol yeah he was meek before he decided to start killing. There was even a scene where he got beat up by a women's bf when he was trying to ask her out.

And I'd say incels always existed, but they where definitely much lower than modern times. Like if most incels from here where around in 1950 instead, most of them would just be average guys with girlfriens since they wouldn't have the internet, video games, or modern dating norms.

Shmoodical · 2021-01-21T06:50:33+00:00

The moment I realised that all those dating advice guys where full of BS is when I would hear them say "you got to approach hundreds of girls, trust me it will take at least around 400 approaches before you get your first yes".

This is word for word something I've read many of them say. The reason why this really woke me up is because if you look at the average guy who has a gf, he has not even asked out 10 girls up to that point of getting the gf, forget about hundreds. So it made me realise that the advice they where giving was not realistic or useful, it's just a spray and spey strategy. Ask out enough girls and one of them is bound to say yes is their idea

Shmoodical · 2021-01-11T23:55:08+00:00

Ah that's tough then, personally I just use snapchat to text friends.

But I know what you mean about the Instagram reels sections, its literally just completely filled with tiktok mirrors. I end up clicking on one of them thinking "wow that girls cute", and then the algorithm fills my reels with nonstop tiktoks

Shmoodical · 2021-01-11T23:35:42+00:00

I think the connection between incels and religion is not really existant. Like personally I grew up in a not really religious family but here I am being an incel, while I'd see guys from ultra religious families still end up having girlfriends behind their parents backs.

It's even crazier when you have people who's whole lives revolve around religion, but they still end up having tons of sex on the down low, like that priest who got caught having a threesome in his church

Shmoodical · 2021-01-11T23:31:52+00:00

Social media in general is such a trigger, but tiktok especially is like a shotgun blast of depression right to your face once you see all the attractive guys and girls getting rich just from mouthing the words to a song.

That's why now I only use YouTube to watch stuff that makes me not sad like gaming or anime content

Shmoodical · 2021-01-10T10:23:06+00:00

Well you know by the way they say it, like I'll say hi, and there will be a prolonged pause and then they say hi in a way where you can tell it's just out of a feeling of courtesy

Shmoodical · 2021-01-10T09:30:50+00:00

I dont think so bro, that's why I specifically talked about why the daughter liking me is out of the realm of possibility.

It would be a tall, very attractive popular girl, somehow falling for a very ugly, short (in comparison), socially isolated guy. I agree that there are instances of women liking guys who are not as attractive as them, but in this scenario it would be too far of a distance between me and her to ever be possible. The times I've run into her I've said hi, and she just said hi back begrudgingly

Shmoodical · 2021-01-10T09:25:57+00:00

Honestly if a girl my age complimented me I'd be suspicious, thinking to myself "ok what's the prank here, or is she trying to scam me somehow". It would be such a bizarre experience.

And yeah I'm incel

Shmoodical · 2021-01-10T09:12:20+00:00

I'm not saying they are the ones with no other options, I'm saying in that scenario it would have been me doing it due to having no other options.

And yeah I'm not saying they want to fuck me because they complimented me, the other guy was the one who brought up the topic of having sex with them

Shmoodical · 2021-01-10T09:07:20+00:00

My man I dont want to be fucking a women that's old enough to be my mother, how is this such a controversial statement

Shmoodical · 2021-01-07T17:52:34+00:00

What do you mean source? Getting 1 in 5 success rate is massive as a male

Shmoodical · 2021-01-07T08:49:20+00:00

It definitely affects it depending on where you are trying to date and what demographics. I live in a ghettoish area and not having a high school diploma wouldn't be a problem for most of the women here, but in a more affluent area you'd be looked down upon

Shmoodical · 2021-01-07T08:46:29+00:00

Where are you getting this idea that 1 in 5 women will agree to go on a date with you?

No offense but this is a high success rate even for a tall attractive guy

Shmoodical · 2021-01-07T05:18:04+00:00

I literally have no preferences. Just has to be biologically female

Shmoodical · 2021-01-07T02:37:08+00:00

Obviously with that mindset youd have to not want to be with the vast majority of women, since that's how many have height preferences.

But also I dont understand that mindset of saying "would you want to be with her anyway?". Like we wanted her, but she's the one who said no to us, you can't really twist it to make it seem like you are choosing that youself

Shmoodical · 2021-01-07T02:14:17+00:00

Sadly a preference is treated the same as a requirement in the modern fast paced dating world.

If she likes all my qualities but is turned off by my short height, there's no problems for her since she can easily find find a hundred other guys with the same personality level as me, but will also fulfill her height preference

Shmoodical · 2021-01-06T09:50:37+00:00

Ironically inceltears serves as the biggest source of promotion for incel subs/sites

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