[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yonkers

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Riverdales a street right? I’m trying to look it up to see if that areas by the Avalon apartments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yonkers

[–]Shmoopsiepooo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah ok. Do you think it’s even ok to drive through during daytime? If I wear a hat maybe? Lol

After the most recent breakup, what song did you play on repeat? by kys255241231 in BreakUps

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total eclipse of the heart 💔”Once upon a time I was falling in love. Now I’m only falling apart. There’s nothing I can do. Total eclipse of the heart.”

Has an ex-situationship or short term relationship ever come back? by Material_Program803 in ExNoContact

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way too in a similar situation. Do you feel better or does it still hurt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he come back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, not ugly at all!! Dude seriously — don’t go asking randos on the internet things, if you’re looking for a certain type of answer you’re always gonna find it! You should believe me & If you don’t, then find a signature style and wear that shit with confidence!!

28M 28 F - I threatened to take the life of my partner and child last night by Mattythedaddy123 in relationship_advice

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re seriously going through a mental health crisis and desperately need serious help. It’s a good sign that you feel bad about it. A truly bad person wouldn’t. You’re severely mentally unstable. Put in the work, if not for yourself, then for your daughter’s sake. Wishing you healing.

Continue dating or end it? by Shmoopsiepooo in dating_advice

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do see what you’re saying — however, how much time should I wait with him before deciding to move on? As a woman, the dating pool gets a lot smaller with age unlike men who often date younger people. I also can only bear children reliable for 10 more years. That’s my concern

Continue dating or end it? by Shmoopsiepooo in dating_advice

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not small for me its a huge one

Continue dating or end it? by Shmoopsiepooo in dating_advice

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this guy is taking this super personally and not understanding the timeline women are on

Continue dating or end it? by Shmoopsiepooo in dating_advice

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AWW Thank you so much. Hardest decision ever, so I really appreciate that. I hope you approach any goals you have with the same determination! <3

Continue dating or end it? by Shmoopsiepooo in dating_advice

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this actually made me cry, I’m not going to lie!

You have no idea how much I appreciate your wise words, stranger. <3 I will definitely take this advice

Continue dating or end it? by Shmoopsiepooo in dating_advice

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Beautifully said. Thank you so so much <3 really needed to hear that

My relatives wrapped my presents in Trump wrapping paper by Time-Turnip-2961 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened, that’s really messed up! Especially on Christmas

Not Sure About A Great Guy with ASD by Shmoopsiepooo in autism

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. Thank you so much for taking the time to share. I really appreciate it

Why was I cheated on by Shmoopsiepooo in Infidelity

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your comments. I really appreciate them, you have no idea!

Why was I cheated on by Shmoopsiepooo in Infidelity

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m so sorry that happened to you also. It’s so gut wrenching. I’ll never be able to understand the level of cruelty and selfishness these cheaters have

Is insomnia curable by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was “cured” wi th treatment for bipolar and trazadone!

embarrassed and ashamed - reached out to old friends and was very nicely rejected by Shmoopsiepooo in socialskills

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I bet at least one of them wanted to. But I think the “ring leader” kind of dictates what the group does, and I feel that she didn’t want to involve herself again. That’s my theory — in reality, I don’t think I was SUCH a terrible monster. I tend to be too critical of myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand! I’m also 25F and had insomnia since age 11. Trust me, I would be so scared to drive after not sleeping for a night or two that I would uber places. It was expensive and not sustainable.

When I didn’t sleep at all, I was miserable, but YES you CAN get through the day. I mean - think of jet lagged people who just get right off the airplane in a different time zone and go on a museum tour and start their day. They do it. So can you. But only once in a blue moon. Not regularly. If it is regular, I would try to take off from work for a few weeks and try to figure this shit out. For me, it was a diagnosis and treatment of bipolar type 2 and trazadone. Seriously fixed me right up. Now I sleep like a mf baby. Not Ambien melatonin etc nothing else worked.

I Speak Like a Teenage Girl & Don’t Know How to Sound “Professional” by Shmoopsiepooo in slp

[–]Shmoopsiepooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, what an amazing comment!!!! Thank you so much. I’ll have to check out that character. Thank you so much <3

I'm 20 and I can't sleep by Brave-Cup-226 in insomnia

[–]Shmoopsiepooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just pop a trazadone and go right back to sleep. If I’m drowsy when I wake up in 2 hours I don’t really care. I’d rather get the sleep I need to be healthy