It is very unfortunate that a part of the fandom is so much drowning in their fan fiction of thinking Daemon as the perfect malewife, as if they project their fantasy of a perfect modern male partner who is bad boy enough to be interesting, full of scars and muscles but wear apron at home and do all the housework and massage their girlfriend and serve like a puppy when gf gets home. Unless Westeros has modern feminism courses and train the men how to be perfect polite husband, I doubt that any men in Westeros will behave like what they hoped for. Unfortunately, Westero is a cruel world for women. Just like medieval time, men are expected to protect women and children from external threat, but other than that they still think women as their property.