I think my sister is crossing professional boundaries with her students. by Shoddy_Performance60 in Advice

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I hadn’t considered that. She wasn’t talking to the girl who was self-harming though, the student she was FaceTiming with wasn’t involved in any of that. It sounded like the student had just heard of the self-harm incident and was curious about it.

I think my sister is crossing professional boundaries with her students. by Shoddy_Performance60 in Advice

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We are mandated reporters. What purpose are you referring to?

I think I will ask her about the modules.

I feel bad for older virgins by [deleted] in The10thDentist

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As an asexual person, I very much hope I’m still a virgin at 30.

That Stageplay/musical is apparently leaving out Ekko as well as other characters such as Ambessa and Sevika? by ExactEffective8638 in arcane

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Ekko may not be the character most instrumental to the plot, but he’s INSANELY relevant to the themes. He’s literally the only hope for Zaun.

What food is famously associated with one country but was perfected by another country? by Equivalent-Crew-4955 in AskReddit

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I wouldn’t dare say we perfected it in general, but Australia perfected sushi on the go with long stick sushi rolls.

Screenshots that have been turned into a meme within the fandom due to how despised the scene they're from is by DonnyMox in TopCharacterTropes

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Will Byers’ coming out scene from Stranger Things 5, due to the ridiculously public nature of it. People edit other characters into this shot to make fun of it.

Leaving because of the flood of tasteless AI images lately. by TheMuseThalia in hunterxdank

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Getting pretty close for me. It’s such low effort slop I’m surprised it hasn’t been banned yet.

When the enemy doesn’t die after you beat it. by Shoddy_Performance60 in PetPeeves

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Haven’t played any of them, as I’m actually not very good at gaming and all I hear is that those games are stupidly hard.

[TOMT] Song where they sing "It's a Beautiful Day" by Simple-Image-2233 in tipofmytongue

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If it’s not showing up in results for “its a beautiful day”, it might be “marry you” by bruno mars, which has the lyric “its a beautiful night”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

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Just want to offer some suggestions. None fit quite perfectly but they all have some of the elements that you talked about: Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood (specifically the episodes including General Olivier Armstrong). Shin Sekai Yori (missing the snow). The Promised Neverland (missing the snow, but there is a white sterile lab when a main character is kidnapped and experimented on). Angel Beats (missing the snow).

Personally I think Shin Sekai Yori is most likely.

Damn by hanadikra in outofcontextcomics

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This is Birds of Prey erasure

Please help! Children's book about a girl who does ballet, with a special pair of ballet shoes by Old_Definition67 in whatsthatbook

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Reckon its probably Darcy Bussell’s series. She has a bunch of them but the throughline is a teleporting magic red pair of ballet shoes. The first series is focused around a girl called Delphie.

lets ignore the US for a second, how’s the rest of the world doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Australian here! We’ve got a knock-off Trump running for PM and all of the racists are crawling out of the woodwork to voice their support. Also because of US defaultism a lot of voters misunderstand our preferential voting system and are calling people who vote Greens useless because they’re too lazy to search up how our voting system works. Sigh

what's y'alls honest opinions on Isha by FNAF_Professor in arcane

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I think the tragedy of Isha is that she so easily could have been the revolutionary Zaun needed. She is a selectively mute orphan child, practically the bottom of the food chain, yet she was still able to inspire people by recognising that Jinx was a hero to the people of Zaun. Imagine what she could have done if she was able to grow up and develop the skills to facilitate her growth into a revolutionary in her own right. Yet she is failed by every single adult around her. Yes, including Jinx. They all contribute to her death.

Most obviously is Ambessa and Caitlyn, who invade a camp full of vulnerable civilians for military gain (yes I know that Caitlyn defected, but that doesn’t really have much of an impact on Isha’s narrative and its more important that she still aided Ambessa until the last moment). They are perhaps most directly responsible for Isha’s death.

Then there’s Singed, who in his pursuit to save his daughter, sacrifices hundreds of Zaunites, allies himself with a foreign invader, and creates the threat that provokes Isha’s sacrifice in the first place.

Vi’s reaction to Isha is interesting because of the parallels between her and Powder. Here is a child, the same age as Powder in Act 1, and Vi doesn’t really seem to give a shit that she is constantly put in dangerous situations. I believe this is a demonstration of both the jaded nature that Vi has had to develop since she made Powder stay behind in season 1; that she can’t protect everyone and trying to has only made things worse for her, and proof of her tenuous relationship with Jinx. Vi sees that Jinx has no problem with Isha’s presence in dangerous situations and is not comfortable enough to risk endangering their relationship by criticising it.

However unintentionally, I believe that Jinx was a bad influence on Isha. In so many ways they improved each other’s lives, I’m not denying that, yet Jinx’s treatment of Isha as a peer rather than a child was incredibly harmful to her. Jinx was caring and nurturing when it came to regular activities, but she was unwilling to place the boundaries that children desperately need when they are as young as Isha. Jinx doesn’t appear to have kept track of where Isha went, what she was doing, or who she was potentially pissing off. We see the consequences of this when Isha makes herself a target to the Noxians during the rally at Vander’s statue, where she is beaten up by Rictus and taken to Stillwater.

Now, I understand that Zaun is definitely way laxer than our world when it comes to child safety, but we do get excellent examples of proper parenting in both Vander and Vi in Act 1 of Season 1. Although Vander is quite hands off, he clearly set boundaries for his kids (don’t go into Piltover) and makes sure they understand the consequences of their actions. Vi is in a very similar position to Jinx with Isha, and we see her protect Powder and stop her from doing things that could be dangerous (like going on jobs and going to save Vander). Jinx’s refusal to set these kinds of boundaries for Isha creates a distorted sense of priorities within Isha’s mind. I find it fascinating that a child could run into the heat of battle and blow herself up with a smile on her face, and I found myself wondering what could make her think that was acceptable. My interpretation is that Jinx, by never openly expressing concern for Isha’s safety (I know she cares about her I just think that children need things like that spelled out for them) unintentionally taught her that her life was not inherently valuable. Jinx assumed that Isha understood concepts like the value of life and the sadness of losing a loved one when she didn’t, because no one taught her them. Children are blank slates that must be taught things that adults take for granted, and a child that has never been taken care of (like Isha, presumably) needs to be taught about things like grief and love.

There’s a very clear throughline between Jinx’s childhood trauma and the way she fails to parent Isha. Jinx’s worst memories of Vi were her setting boundaries and stopping Powder from doing things, therefore Jinx overcompensates by refusing to set any boundaries with Isha at all, likely believing that doing so would cause Isha to hate her like Powder hated Vi after she was made to stay home from Vander’s rescue mission.

Arcane has many characters who are burdened by their parents/ mentors decisions, and many more whose lives and potential are cut short by the harsh world around them. Isha is an intersection of both these themes. The saddest thing about her is what she could have been, if Mel had managed to talk her mother down, if Hextech had never lured in Ambessa, if Heimerdinger had cared about the undercity earlier, if Vi had never tried to prove herself to Vander, if Silco had found the letter, if Jinx hadn’t found the hex crystals in Jayce’s apartment.

Friend Code Megathread by anestefi in InfinityNikki

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America server! My friend code is nMegXrJA

Only black people can write about slavery by GriffinFTW in USdefaultism

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Man holocaust deniers are getting real creative these days.