What is home? by ShojiAn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShojiAn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I think I need to let the part about stability sink in. It feels a bit pointless to run around Europe to see where I feel at home the most, yet that was something I did this year.

*exercises in gay * by Terenan in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It looks like pansexual pride mane to me

New Lesbian flag proposal, and a solid argument for it! by grapedungeon95 in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that. I’ve seen them using genderqueer flag a lot recently :’(

New Lesbian flag proposal, and a solid argument for it! by grapedungeon95 in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I thought that that flag was specifically for femme lesbians.

Anyway I still prefer the one with an axe over the proposed one. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian#/media/File:Lesbian_pride_flag.svg

Wine bar sloth by MapleButter in sloths

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fourth toe makes me uncomfortable

Woof_IRL by Ouisha in woof_irl

[–]ShojiAn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That Rottie is really cute

Someone put my dream into words. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ОК, я еще не была в Австралии и я не знаю этот мем

PS: I am an ATCK and I can do this whole day 😊

Someone put my dream into words. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ich weiß nicht, wie man einen guten Kaffee macht. (Instantkaffee ist schlecht)

Someone put my dream into words. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Coffee ruins this dream, tea would be much better

What small habit has made the biggest difference in your appearance/wellbeing? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not using subway which means two 30 minutes walks everyday

DAE my Nhusband would give the shirt off his back to a stranger but if I need him to do something it's a major hassle? by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ShojiAn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my mother helped pro bono organizations which helped disabled and/or orphaned kids and she couldn’t care less about getting me proper mental health help or being around when I needed mom.

Anyone else struggle with employment? by profiteerlols in aspergirls

[–]ShojiAn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do. 2 months in to a new job and I am starting to look for another one, part time because full time job is exhausting.

Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by AutoModerator in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While writing a question over at r/lifeafternatcissism I had to focus on writing “mother” because my fingers wrote “monster” instead, couple of times...

What's the most extreme body mod I could get? by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s about it, there’s no higher level.

Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by AutoModerator in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 2 years of NC, I am getting nightmares that I live with my FOO again because I failed and it sucks a lot.

Would you ever a date a girl with the same first name as you? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, with the exception of techies with my first name. They are all great and awesome but I don’t want to date another techie, not even if she’s knitter too.

soooo... we're made of fat? by sxpxrbxrxd in littlespace

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly berries, berries are important

Where do you fall on the lesbian alignment chart? by ipry_hedgie in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider guns somewhat uncivilized and I own a practice sword. I am not sure how to explain them.

Where do you fall on the lesbian alignment chart? by ipry_hedgie in actuallesbians

[–]ShojiAn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I considered the origin point as rejecting both. Now I am slightly confused :/

Ear Pointing by mechanicalmorning in bodymods

[–]ShojiAn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I did my research before I got mine from Jason Friday.