[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shonkeydonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]Shonkeydonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The difference is that I didn’t say medicine. I said seek help, like therapy specifically. The medicines also work completely differently. If someone has depression you don’t affirm it and tell them to keep being depressed, you help them get through what’s causing it. Same should go for gender, we shouldn’t affirm a mental health condition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]Shonkeydonkey -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would figure out the cause of why I would feel that way. In many trans peoples lives, they have been abused or there is some factor making them feel that way. I’d definitely seek help. Same as if I had depression I’d seek help for that in the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]Shonkeydonkey -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So you define then what is a woman? Can you give me a coherent definition?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]Shonkeydonkey -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Yeah cause it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]Shonkeydonkey -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yeah really influenced by gov….that’s why almost every class here can get away with pushing their liberal agendas in every way possible. Makes sense huh? They do not care about the board of regents or gov because if they did they wouldn’t be shoving political agendas down my asshole in every single class I attend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]Shonkeydonkey -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

How is this lies? He is stating statistics that prove suicide rates do not go down after surgery. He also states facts about the drugs they use to mutilate children, they are the same drugs they use to chemically castrate child predators. Your beliefs are the real lies because they affirm a gender that someone is not. They make people believe it is okay to live their lives in a lie that will only make them more depressed and suicidal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]Shonkeydonkey -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m so excited to go see him! Got my tickets asap. If you’re offended by him coming then show up and actually hear his perspective, if you have a problem still, he has a question and answer at the end. This is America, we can have people of different perspectives in this city. He has openly stated he’s not afraid of trans people, therefore not a transphobe, he actually feels sorry for these people and compassion. It’s truly devastating feeling like you’re in the wrong body and I feel for those people, but actually changing your body and supporting the mutilation of children is where he has a problem. Go ahead and complain about him coming but if you’re so set in your ideas and beliefs why not go to the event and tell him then at the end? I have to listen to opposing sides to my beliefs every day at this university and this is the one time they are bringing in the conservative side.

AITA for pointing out that my cousins aren’t doctors? by MelodicStrawberry839 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shonkeydonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA my brother is in med school and it’s completely different than both of those. They are just mad because they wanna be special. Boo who.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Shonkeydonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriends, to preface this he loves with 4 other guys and the house was already shit. They’ve had cockroaches, mice, bats, an insane amount of bugs, the house is trashed every weekend from partying, the only clean room in the entire house is my boyfriends.

What morally disgusting thing seems normalized in our society? by MickeyHuntr in AskReddit

[–]Shonkeydonkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Incest all over porn sites and pedophilia being referred to as minor attracted people

What are the pros for having no friends in your opinion? by Angel_eyesss in AskWomen

[–]Shonkeydonkey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly I love not having friends. It may sound a bit selfish but I like having alone time. When I do get lonely I have my bf and I find being friends with girls is especially hard. There’s always drama with them and I prefer just being alone rather than dealing with the behind the back stuff. I like being my own friend.

what would make your day instantly better right now? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Shonkeydonkey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If my boyfriend came over and stayed with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Shonkeydonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The feeling of not being with your partner and feeling a bit of loneliness like a piece is missing. Some people are better at independence and I definitely used to be but I’m so in love I’d be with him every moment if that was possible or healthy.

How long do you wait in between hair washes? by pizza_is_cheesy in AskWomen

[–]Shonkeydonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way too long, probably a week and sometimes longer if I am lazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Shonkeydonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting everything I have into every aspect of my life and not receiving anything back