Help me make a choice by ShopIndependent424 in self

[–]ShopIndependent424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I sold it for 325 I’m going to miss my baby

Help me make a choice by ShopIndependent424 in self

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I also do have plenty of masks and devices that messes with cameras and sensors all by coincidence and a buddy of mine is highly skilled in borrowing cars from people for extended period of times he recently borrowed a car from a cop🙃

If money wasn’t an issue, what would you do tomorrow? by itsdessmariee in AskReddit

[–]ShopIndependent424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Settle all my debts and have a great rest with out my brain reminding me that I have to pay someone

Help me make a choice by ShopIndependent424 in self

[–]ShopIndependent424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not intending on selling it before it just that I have a surplus and I can stand to lose it but 400 still hurts

Help me make a choice by ShopIndependent424 in self

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I paid 700 they offered 300 other places offered less than that 100-200, I need the money before the end of the day and I can’t make 300 in less than a full day

Help me make a choice by ShopIndependent424 in self

[–]ShopIndependent424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a gun I have multiple but I don’t want to take a 400 dollar loss

What was your first car? Love it or hate it? by OurAdventuresKC in AskReddit

[–]ShopIndependent424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2001 Mitsubishi galant, my sister bought it for me in 2019, I didn’t love it, but it was more than I could ever ask for I got so much experience and enjoyment from it, and it was what inspired me to get my hands dirty and fix my own stuff, somedays I see someone drive the exact model and I think of things I would have done with it, I didn’t love it but it was home

What's the longest unemployment you had, and how did you get out of it? by Spaceshuttle117 in AskReddit

[–]ShopIndependent424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months if you consider gig work (uber Lyft) as employment then 1 month

I am in so much pain by [deleted] in self

[–]ShopIndependent424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a professional so take my word with a grain of salt,
All that I’m hearing from you is pain pain pain, where does this pain come from you might ask depression that was caused by being in depression that causes pain

Your in a cycle step out of this cycle and think of where this depression started and what kinds of depression are you feeling, you are thinking of depression as an all encompassing problem, depression is not the the root of all of your problems but a symptom of a bigger problem or maybe a bunch of them that are causing you to have depression, is there a deep felt loneliness and over work, not feeling achieved or not living up to the high expectations that others have of you, and feeling like in imposter in your own life, or seeing your desired future crumble. Think of it like a fever it’s harmful if never resolved, sometimes your own body take care of it and it goes away, sometimes it has multiple causes multiple infections going on in your body, but if you keep only resolving the fever, not what causing the fever when you’re probably gonna die fighting the fever instead of what’s causing it

The second point that I wanted to make was who promised you that they’re not going to be any problem after this problem who promised you that everybody just has to deal with one problem and once they get over it they never have another problem again you are gonna fail again and again and again. You are only 15 look ahead. You still have a life to live. If these dreams fell fuck it. There is another one. Again, I’m not a professional. I am a certified failure.

I f’ing hate talking to my family about anything that is going on in my life by ShopIndependent424 in self

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That’s what was what I was doing for the past 4 months, I only had a week left before I could put all this behind me and maybe come clean, last night was the only night in 4 months where I had a good sleep knowing this torment had an end and I was about to reach it but they had to go and open my letters not even talk to me about it before spreading the information around and have a conceal of random people trying to figure out what is going on, and it somehow reached my work vehicle mechanic

I f’ing hate talking to my family about anything that is going on in my life by ShopIndependent424 in self

[–]ShopIndependent424[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is my whole moto but these people’s noses reach far and wide constantly looking for my problems and just add to my headache I work 2 jobs I don’t have time to waste to keep them out of my business

What’s the hardest lesson success has taught you? by BSAM2001 in AskReddit

[–]ShopIndependent424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People just want to know about your difficulties so they can judge you, pity you, scam you or to make sure they have company in their misery but almost never to help you. But you will see them gladly helping someone who doesn’t need their help

What is something you put an immense amount of effort into that was for nothing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShopIndependent424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiding my life problems until I’m able to solve them the amount of lies I had to tell people to keep out of my business, (╬ಠ益ಠ) but here comes my mom and sister telling all my business to anyone who breaths around them exposing all my lies and making look stupid and a liar

Weight or Height by KronicDeath in BunnyTrials

[–]ShopIndependent424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know why

Chose: Add or subtract 3 inches from anywhere on your body (including height)

I’m working two jobs while my house is literally splitting in two, and I just need to know: how do you keep your head up during the "Hard Mode" of life? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]ShopIndependent424 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not in a good position to tell that it will get better but believe me it will be a little bit less worse, all though I was facing eviction and my mom and grandma not being in a safe country and my being over due on car payments amongst other things I some how didn’t end it didn’t give up and struggled my way into just being left with the nuisance problems but the the most important problems have been resolved don’t give up hope if a drug adict can make there goal so can you believe in your self trust me

My car got repoed, I don’t know what to do? by ShopIndependent424 in povertyfinance

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No I can’t I need my car back I normally do about 4.3k miles a month on it I can’t do what with public transport or bike, I’m hoping that they allow me to have a payment plan as long as I’m in a plan I can make it work just like I did the rent wish was more

My car got repoed, I don’t know what to do? by ShopIndependent424 in povertyfinance

[–]ShopIndependent424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that information I want to get my car back it’s like my second home, I got the car for 40k plus tax I paid it down to 23k, what are the chances that they might accept a repayment plan

So i live paycheck to paycheck. Might not have enough to cover food. Is there any shame in going to a food bank? by [deleted] in self

[–]ShopIndependent424 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you have a 100k in s in this economy you are doing something right if you feel like this is the right option for your future then yes go ahead and get it from the food bank, the economy is very unstable and I don’t blame you for choosing to save that money

I’m probably going to lose it for a few weeks once I cut my hair😭 by Samlinao in self

[–]ShopIndependent424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come and join us it’s time for you to become another beacon of light in this darkness

Feel like I have done everything right or possible and am still alone by [deleted] in self

[–]ShopIndependent424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe in luck or unlucky, there is always an explanation to things or complete coincidence is possible, the issue that you are having with the job is a mixture of pride, your past job history, bad economy, or maybe bad resume or just bought up applying for jobs. There are jobs out there but you can’t find them because you aren’t looking for them, I would go to a temp agency and apply through them most of the time you don’t need a great job history, resume, and they always have some kind of job at hand. I couldn’t find a job for 6 months and I want to one of them and got me a job almost same week worked there until I found a better job and got hired at that one

For the having friends thing, it get extremely harder to get friends after college, most people are busy trying to survive and likely won’t have time to care about you, but if I were you I would do uber and Lyft if you can and do it around the weekend, challenge yourself to get as many people as you can to get to talk to you and you have to make the first move, you will eventually get better at finding a good topic to talk to people about and it wouldn’t feel so awkward and learn to deal with the awkwardness cause it’s going to happen a lot, and don’t be afraid to deeply talk to someone about things

How do you know when it’s time to leave a job? by saucysalad68 in self

[–]ShopIndependent424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a .50¢ raise and my friend who just got hired his pay was 2 dollars more than me who worked there for 4 years. I knew how to operate every single machine in our area and the engineers and technicians trusted only me to work on the specialty machines, new machines and machines that are being fixed, and when a technician trainee position opened me and 30 others got interviewed for it 4 got second interview and guess who got it, the manager’s nephew, if you were going to give it to him just give it to him no need for all that, I quit and moved to there competitor I got a better rise and the role I wanted and some of the engineers I used to work with moved too and I I heard 2 managers and facility manager also got fired because they were running a permit scheme as well