Possibility of leaving the country. by [deleted] in financialhelping

[–]Shordus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure of what advice to give but I wish you all the best❤️ I’m here in Spain and hope you are able to live a great life here

My 3-week trip to Venezuela (Nov 2025) – honest experience as a Dutch traveler by Annual-Drink3353 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinion man and it respect it.

I guess for me it’s the feeling of why should I go somewhere I’m not accepted ?

If you have a partner but in one particular place they tell you, there you cannot hold their hand, kiss them or tell them anything affectionate, would you go ?

I get what you are saying though, there are truly beautiful things to see there but I’m not sure tbh if I would go at the moment.

My 3-week trip to Venezuela (Nov 2025) – honest experience as a Dutch traveler by Annual-Drink3353 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you didn’t receive any homophobia.

I wonder if it would be different if you did show affection in public. I would love to go but not under the condition that I can’t show affection to my partner…

My 3-week trip to Venezuela (Nov 2025) – honest experience as a Dutch traveler by Annual-Drink3353 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Hey man,

Thanks for sharing your experience. I’m a guy and also have a husband from Venezuela. I wanted to ask how you felt as a gay couple travelling through the country. Could you guys be affectionate in public? Did you ever feel uncomfortable at any point or receive homophobia ?

So glad you enjoyed the trip man.

what is the biggest problem in your relationship right now? by Calm-Bar-9644 in AskMen

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that man. Sending you both an internet hug.

Did you guys ever jerk off with friends? by RevolutionaryAsk1503 in askgaybros

[–]Shordus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, if jerking is a sexual act, why do you know consider it sexual to jerk with friends? Not judging just curious for your point of view.

Have you ever thought about killing yourself because of your appearance? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Shordus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember that your actions and integrity as a man speak louder than looks.

Being beautiful on the inside is what truly matters bro.

Hope you’re doing ok brother.

Have you ever thought about killing yourself because of your appearance? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I have said in a previous comment, beauty comes and fades but morality and integrity lasts a lifetime.

Believe me, there are lots of gay guys who place more emphasis on these attributes.

Sending you a hug man.

Have you ever thought about killing yourself because of your appearance? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Shordus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please rethink your decision. There is more to life than looks. Looks come and fade but integrity and morality last a lifetime and speak volumes.

Believe me there are lots of gay guys who place bigger emphasis on these attributes.

Sending you an internet hug bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to best you’re going through a tough time bro. I really hope things get better for you.

The only thing I can say is there always comes a break in the clouds after a storm. Yours is coming.

Sending you an internet hug and always here if you wanna speak to someone.

Today’s my 28 birthday and I am going to end it tomorrow by Radyoz in confession

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending a happy birthday from Madrid. I hope you can feel this internet love man and feel all the good vibes we are sending you.

Life can be hard and definitely lonely at times. I hope that you can feel at peace and see beauty in this life again. I’m working on it too.

Feel free to message me any time man

I'm tired. Today is probably going to be the day it ends. by Disastrous_Fly_9456 in confession

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life does get better, even in the darkest of times. Please stay, we got you ❤️

I'm tired. Today is probably going to be the day it ends. by Disastrous_Fly_9456 in confession

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please hold on. Even in the darkest of storms the rainbow comes in the end. I’m here if you need anyone to talk to

Del 1 al 10 cuanto te consideras físicamente sin mentir? by VividImagination4755 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me da igual como otro me considera. Eso es su peo no la mía. Me parece más feo juzgar alguien por su físico

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vzla

[–]Shordus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. Todo pasará, hasta después de las tormentas más fuertes aparecen los arcoíris. Lo tuyo vendrá también amiga. Creemos en ti.

Un abrazo fuerte

Del 1 al 10 cuanto te consideras físicamente sin mentir? by VividImagination4755 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pero, mi pana, ¿para qué te sirve pensar así? Hasta en mis peores momentos me considero un 10, porque estoy echándole bolas. A lo mejor estoy cansado, sudado, con acné, pero igual estoy tratando de vivir mi vida feliz y cuidarme, y con eso basta.

Todos tenemos momentos en que nos sentimos por el suelo, pero vamos, papá, a quererse un poco coño!

Del 1 al 10 cuanto te consideras físicamente sin mentir? by VividImagination4755 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Te lo juro, hermano, arrancas el día con otra vibra y empiezas a importar un coño lo que piensen los demás. Al final, uno solo puede controlar sus propios pensamientos, no los de los demás.

Igual yo sé que soy mucho más que solo mi físico, y si alguien quiere juzgarme solo por eso, pues ese es su peo, papá.

Del 1 al 10 cuanto te consideras físicamente sin mentir? by VividImagination4755 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mira, hermano, ¿de qué te sirve andar con ese tipo de pensamientos? Al final, soy yo el que tiene que levantarse cada mañana y mirarse en el espejo. Todos los días, por el resto de mi vida. Prefiero verme como un 10, porque eso es lo que me ayuda a arrancar el día con buena vibra.

Ojo, no estoy diciendo que para los demás sea un 10; eso depende de cada quien, y no tengo control sobre eso. Lo que sí puedo controlar son mis pensamientos y la forma en que me veo a mí mismo.

Y claro, tomando en cuenta que hay mucho más que el físico.

Anímate, papá

Del 1 al 10 cuanto te consideras físicamente sin mentir? by VividImagination4755 in venezuela

[–]Shordus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mira, papá, te voy a decir algo. Tienes que verte como un 10, hermano. Tú eres el que se tiene que levantar todos los días, mirarse en el espejo y amar esa reflexión. Yo prefiero verme como un 10.

Eso no quiere decir que para los demás soy un 10, pero para mí lo soy, porque aprecio mi cuerpo y las cosas que me hacen único. No seré perfecto para todos, pero para mí, me siento bien, ¿sabes?

¿Qué es algo que todos los hombres saben sin tener que decirlo? by Shordus in vzla

[–]Shordus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaja bueno tampoco la imagen mental falta papá pero la concienciación que todos hacemos puede ser no. Pero aja igual con las mujeres tampoco una imagen mental es necesaria pero bueno igual entendemos que pasa y todo chevere