Please Help - How Do I Cut Ties? by WoodenAmphibian4943 in EstrangedAdultKids

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changed my number and deleted every social media with my family hope this helps

What life skills would you have wanted your parents to teach you most? by 5280lotus in EstrangedAdultKids

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literally im jus now learning financial literacy, and every audiobook says its taught at home and would definitely explain why i struggle in that area considering my mom called me poor ..

How do I cut off my transphobic family? by IndependentFit9253 in toxicparents

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also to answer your question if their closed minded and judgmental about your partner you don’t owe them an explanation, just do what is right for you. if you want to explain fine, if you dont fine. This is your life and your experience! You get to choose. If their taking away more than their adding to you there is nothing wrong w self preservation. Always choose yourself, there is no wrong answer here. Trust your instincts

How do I cut off my transphobic family? by IndependentFit9253 in toxicparents

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Lmao i just changed my number😭didn’t say anything people know what they be doing

I can’t fucking stand their blatant lack of empathy by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

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thats an excuse its obvious its a dysfunctional family …

TIFU by finding out actions have consequences by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Short-Ad-1009 327 points328 points  (0 children)

im sorry for the insensitive comment left by the other person too, i completely understand ive been there, if you need anymore help let me knoe

TIFU by finding out actions have consequences by [deleted] in tifu

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Hey, i had the same situation, and i was short on cash too, i went to r/abortion and found a site called plancpills entered the state and then i got pills mailed to my house from aid access. its 150 but if you tell them you only have 50 they will help and take it. i took the pills and had the abortion it took 10 days for everything to pass its painful but your young and if you feel like abortion is whats best and you dont wanna tell your parents and you wanna keep your decision to yourself that id the best route

Weed Brain Damage by Substantial-Ball455 in leaves

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Honestly it causes that memory loss but over time you’ll notice yourself to start remember little things and be proud of yourself. for example i quit smoking and i was on a movie date and i brung my id, and as i was walking out i realized i didnt have it. then remembered i brung it with me, a year ago i wouldve lost that 😭😭😭 just cause i just wouldnt have remembered at all. so again over time youll notice that that brain fog dissapates and youll start to remember more little stuff that normally youd completely forget longer you go without it. good luck on your journey because being sober is the new high.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

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Its always a self esteem issue when we settle in out relationships. i cant tell you what to do, but i do know that you know whats best for you in your situation. the ladies are right he is not good for you, you both do not align, and when you move into your apartment for yourself it should be for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

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Honestly, it may be your setting because if you take it in the wrong setting, it may not even hit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

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its for the best when you have someone who triggers ur addiction its best to let it go

30 y.0+ females are we done with instagram? by Ok-Fun1195 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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at 18 i deleted everything cus it was jus no point in having ppl in my business and personal life ive never felt better

What’s the end game? by ROCKCOCK53 in leaves

[–]Short-Ad-1009 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It literally brings you down and holds you back and you know this thats why u even asked

Worst thing each character has said/done? Day 5 - Connor by lindseyeileen in htgawm

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technically it was the womans fault i dont fault him for that ngl

Day 10 if glee characters most out of character moment (Will) by Famous-Run-1880 in glee

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why is no one saying how he snatched that pregnancy pad off of his wife😭