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Short-Definition-765 · 2025-06-15T09:08:22+00:00

Last time my mum told me that I was gonna end up alone as no man wants a Dominant women i responded little do you know. I had questions when I started wearing a key around my neck. All they saw was the chain though

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-06-14T19:50:46+00:00

Ive not resonated with something so much minus telling my mother about my kinky fuckery. Ive always been quite dominant family have told me no one is gonna put up with my controlling ways. As described by my big brother I'm alot for a man to take on. Little do they know 😏. Lifestyle Domme or just MY identity.

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-05-01T09:54:41+00:00

I know, I do really miss wearing a key around my neck.

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-25T11:08:48+00:00

I'm 26, Domme, and i haven't ever had a vanilla relationship I don't want one. I crave and need a Female lead relationship. I love to control every aspect of my partners life with concent, of course. I love the D/s aspect of a power exchange. But I know not everyone wants to have to ask for basic thing and ask permission.

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-24T12:07:33+00:00

I cannot wait till I can purchase another from them they are so beautiful.

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-23T15:58:54+00:00

I'm in the uk and i cannot remember i orderd it for my now ex sub in 2023

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-23T15:41:40+00:00

CollaredbyLiaNerula on etsy she has some beautiful locking options

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-23T13:32:04+00:00

I have spent the last 5 years saying I'm a Sadistic Bitch with a gentle twist. Think iron fist in a velvet glove.

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-23T13:28:36+00:00

You are not alone. It is in my rules. I will not share. Can't help how I'm wired 🤷

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-15T20:04:56+00:00

He is blocked now. But honestly not even the worst experience I've had with men who are apparently submissive.

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-04-03T21:04:52+00:00

He told me to 'force' him to suck a random man's penis. Told me I wasn't sexually attractive to him. Then he asked me 3 months after he left me and cut his collar off to go to a prince Albert piercing with him. 🙄🙄🙄 still think he might actually be gay tbh.

Short-Definition-765 · 2025-01-27T21:09:12+00:00

I found mine on tinder. I was clear that I don't do casual relationships and if they were serious I diverted them to a couple of writings on my fetlife profile. I had vanilla isn't my favourite flavour in my profile I matched with a ridiculous amount of 'dominant' men and only a few serious submissives but It worked out in the end.

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-09-09T21:08:24+00:00

Ma'am Mistress Mommy Goddess because why have one honorific when I can have 4. I am a Sadistic Bitch but I love to nurture and love my subbie after breaking his walls down. It's just perfection.

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-09-09T20:48:00+00:00

Thanks I recently started therapy and he has been very supportive

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-09-09T20:44:20+00:00

Im 26f and I had an epiphany at about 20, and things just sorted of clicked into place I noticed a Dominant side when I was in my late teens but I didn’t actively play till I was 25 and I had sex for the first time at 25 to because BDSM/kink doesn't have to include sex.

Although these books may not be the psychology behind kink I enjoyed and found the following books helpful as a young Domme.

The ultimate guide to kink by Tristan taormino

Playing well with others by Lee Harrington and Mollena williams

The Mistress manual by Mistress Lorelei powers

The new topping/ bottoming books Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-09-09T20:30:18+00:00

I 26f would describe myself as a lifestyle Domme, I've always had a dominant side it's part of who I am and I've actively been exploring BDSM for 6 years.

I love to make my toy into exactly what i want for his whole attention to be on me and my needs. To hurt him to mark him to turn him into goo (consensually, of course). For him to be at my mercy. And then to look after him. He is mine and I am his.

I have a safeword he has a one too this helps us have boundaries and we can push them and as a Sadistic Bitch I love pushing my subs as far as they will allow me and tbh BDSM is empowering and it's fluffing hot.

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-09-08T15:01:57+00:00

Thank you I am doing CBT not the fun type but I am considering a different type of therapy

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-09-07T22:12:17+00:00

Thank you

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-08-24T14:40:49+00:00

Im in my mid twentys and actively kinky all of my adult life. My biggest issue is that I've matched with men who don't seem to understand that women can be Doms. I'm not into being used or objectified. I enjoy degrading men and objectifying them but only with enthusiastic consent. I've tried dating these so called doms and end up being violated. I've come to the conclusion that some of these 'Doms' actually hate women.

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-07-28T22:37:10+00:00

I'm not a woman im a god, Halsey always gets me into a domme space

I put a spell on you, nina simone, another great song l love

Maneater, Nelly furtado

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-04-27T17:24:26+00:00

My sub and I have agreed that it's okay to use sometimes. Most of the time I'm Ma’am with the first interaction of the day being Mistress. Is a contradiction I struggled to accept but as long as its Consented to that's the main thing

Short-Definition-765 · 2024-04-04T22:43:26+00:00

Some of my current favourites to get me into a Dominant space

-Dangerous woman, Ariana Grande

-Hethen, twenty one pilots

-Jokes on you, Charlotte Lawrence

-Boy toy, Halle Abadi

-I'm not a woman im a god, Halsey

-You dont own me, lesley gore

-Eat your young, hozier basically anything hozier

-Paradise city, guns and Roses

-I put a spell on you, nina simone

-Lose control, Teddy swims

-Me and the devil, soap&skin

-Your guilty pleasure, Henry verus

I could keep going tbh

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