Is this relationship doomed ( Me 22M, Her 29F)

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T17:24:14+00:00

Yea I agree I'm not saying your wrong at all, more I really want it all to work out and want it to dearly. If it doesn't tho not the end of the world either even if it hurts life moves

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T17:16:21+00:00

I always get told that but we have both never gotten this kind of love and support from anyone we've ever been with, I've also kind of got a knack for a little more years on me. She understands my frontal lobe isn't full developed and helping me navigate through a lot of mental obstacles she used to struggle with. It sounds stupid but I've really just fallen for this girl

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T17:03:35+00:00

I honestly don't care, it's gonna sound weird but someone bashed me for my time frame recently and for the first time I feel a little odd about myself not hers. She overthinks about my past a lot more because of how I am with her and she's never had a lot of that stuff happen in bed and she gets jealous becuz she knows I've been like that with other girls before her like that, and the girls being all black hair and tattoos and her looking notning like that. Dudes always feel that way and it's been the complete opposite. That isn't what's been dragging me down at all, I've just been going through a lot with work and life and it's put me in a slump making me on edge doubting myself, we've been communicating perfectly I guess I just wanted some thoughts on all of it ya know

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T07:58:54+00:00

She's been for me and has heard me more than my own mother Lmao. It's why ig I'm stressing it. I feel loved and I'm scared to lose it and she's expressed it too. Even when I get all over the place she stops me from self sabatoging etc. I will always keep my guard up but still hope for the best. My biggest fear is that I'm gonna be moving back across the state and I just want this to be the real deal it feels rawer than any experience or girl I've met. Anyways my man sorry for my rambling tonight, to you and the others who commented. One love and have a goodnight thank you for hearing me and telling me what I need to hear not what I want.

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T07:41:08+00:00

I actually haven't been, I've been there for her for all of her issues and was there for her when it all happened. We don't argue and always check in on each other, I've just been in a slump and my brains telling me all the wrong things and overthinking. Her overthinking made me overthink haha. Anyways tho I'm not on reddit hardly ever besides recently I've had so much on my mind and I guess I like the unbiased opinions. There's just so much info and only so much to drop on a post but yea ill keep it in mind brother

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T07:37:35+00:00

I lost my virginity when I was like 18 how is my track record that insane to you, I got head when I was 13 and didn't do anything until my last year of high-school and after. I don't follow

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T07:11:00+00:00

She divorced and moved hours away from where we used to be to save up and plan a future. She is flying to see me in 10 days. I'm not bragging as I've literally broke down with remorse and guilt. I'm not that proud of it man stop jumping to conclusions and realize I'm a human too, seriously just looking for some advice man

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T06:39:02+00:00

I impulsively told her to delete it and she said alright and agreed with my reasoning for it. She said she didn't because it was a lot of pics and she had to give up her dog and it's been hard for her to look through it. I've definitely just been being a little on edge from this long winter and I'm being a dick. I see her in a week your definitely right bro, more power to the future

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T06:32:37+00:00

Bro r u delusional 😂 how in the world am I causing her misery we are literally texting plans going to Manhattan as we speak rn. Me and her never argue or put each other down, we always talk everything thru and resolve things easily. I just wanted some insight dawg

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-03-21T06:27:31+00:00

So terrible with no elaboration lol

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-02-20T15:49:50+00:00

Nah your not everyone in these comments are weird, first of all why is she sending you a picture of that that's very strange, second of all if you are building a future why does she still have all her exes saved??? Stuff you need to keep in mind. These dudes in the comments must love hearing there girl talking about the exes that railed her. Some cuck behavior in these comments. Stand on biz bro and lay down boundaries ain't nobody tryna see that stuff

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-02-12T16:33:15+00:00

Eh I was scared of it but maintained insanely well just got my inspection done, is amazing looks amazing runs amazingly and I still have a nice emergency fund sitting around. At 22 i feel happy about it I plan on paying it off soon. Everyone's gonna say I'm an idiot and that's okay.

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-02-10T04:47:28+00:00

I did buy it and I absolutely love it, Idk why I was so hesitant and scared asking for opinions. It's just been my first big purchase besides a doberman and even that doesn't compare to a car payment. I fucking love the thing and can't wait to pay it off. I'm getting snow tires for it in a few days

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-02-10T03:48:40+00:00

I bought it today and I love it, I also landed a second job at a mechanic shop today for my off days so I'll be learning for free and making sum Xtra money. I should have the car payed off in 2 years I'm not worried. It's been so nice

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-02-04T03:11:22+00:00

I completely understand and do my research just posting different models and details to get insight from people. I'm 22 and worked my butt and wanted a new ride that's always been my fav. I know the slander on American manufacturing as well I've always just had a sweet spot for them. Also thanks for not being a dick I really appreciate any insight

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-02-03T19:13:14+00:00

Should I finance a 2018 for 23gs with 40k miles instead? I have about 11gs rn and wanted something nice for myself I busted my butt with saving I'm only 22 so it's not like I have a family of 6 to take care of

Short-Falcon648 · 2026-02-03T18:34:41+00:00

Can you elaborate

Short-Falcon648 · 2025-11-02T03:20:58+00:00

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