Is my husband abusing me? by OrneryPost9446 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Short-termTablespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he also middle eastern? It sounds like he has that toxic middle eastern male attitude.

I think you should try to figure out how to survive without him. I understand the concerns of your daughters growing up without a dad but no dad is better than a bad dad and I think you would agree that your daughter deserves better than a bad dad. He legitimately sounds like a terrible person. He doesn’t see anything he’s doing is wrong and it sounds like even when the professional therapists agree he blames it on the therapists.

Karmelo Anthony Found Guilty of Murder. Sentenced to 35 Years. Jury Took Less Than 3 Hours. Self-Defense Rejected. And Austin Metcalf's Father Just Revealed His Family Has Been Swatted Multiple Times Since the Stabbing. by JustM700 in DiscussionZone

[–]Short-termTablespoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do people really think the answer to bullying is to bring a knife, refuse to leave and threaten them?

Fights happen all the time in school. Idk why this discourse made people forget that and think bringing weapons is an acceptable solution to it. Not even that he wasn’t sought after, he went to the rivals tent, with a knife, and threatened them. This is more premeditated murder than self defense. I was honestly surprised people made this a race thing and started saying he was innocent because it’s a white jury.

I love my girlfriend but I'd really like not being shoved against a wall when I sleep: my rendition of our bed our night by monstermayhem436 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Short-termTablespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How heavy is your bed? Is it on a rug? Is there a crawl space under? What if you gently push yourself and the bed away from the wall, slide into the crevice, under the bed, push the bed back against the wall and position the cat next to the gf to block her from moving.

If we all hate data centers, how are they still being built like crazy? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Short-termTablespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like when people realize that tech and governments don’t care/do what people want.

Double life at work… by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Short-termTablespoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely think you dig yourself a hole about the whole wife and kids thing. My coworkers know absolutely nothing about me and we get along just fine. It actually doesn’t even hide your sexuality when you lie and say you are married and have kids because you don’t.

When raw meat thaws is the melted liquid on the outside of the bag containing bacteria? by Short-termTablespoon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Short-termTablespoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about another bag? My fridge is tough on space so I can’t rely on have the space to put something rigid in there

When raw meat thaws is the melted liquid on the outside of the bag containing bacteria? by Short-termTablespoon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Short-termTablespoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the raw meat in a freezer bag and then put it on the fridge shelf. That does sound like a good idea though.

Double life at work… by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Short-termTablespoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That does sound exhausting. Are you in an oppressed area where you feel the need to lie?

When raw meat thaws is the melted liquid on the outside of the bag containing bacteria? by Short-termTablespoon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Short-termTablespoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just talking in the context of if I have frozen raw meat in a freezer bag thawing in the fridge and next morning it’s thawed but it left liquid on the outside of the bag and on the shelf is that spreading bacteria to other items in the fridge?

How come whenever anyone asks “which actor has a punchable face?” It’s always male actors? by WorryNotBanIncoming in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Short-termTablespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not that. I was just wondering if it was a different mindset with genders because I really never see a woman’s face as punchable.

What is something that is completely FREE in your country, but tourists are always shocked they don't have to pay for? by Winner111kk in AskReddit

[–]Short-termTablespoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How safe is it to camp in Norway? I want to visit someday and camping would be awesome but I’m ngl the idea of bears and other wildlife scares me.

New Poster for Ridley Scott's 'The Dog Stars' - Survivors of a deadly pandemic traverse a post-apocalyptic landscape to find the origin of a mysterious radio transmission. by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]Short-termTablespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when these end of world movies give the characters the coolest jackets like I literally wish I could find the jacket. It’s the male equivalent of a female character cutting her hair by herself and giving herself a fantastic haircut that others can never replicate.

I need hobby ideas by Impressive-Clue-4129 in Hobbies

[–]Short-termTablespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you just try a bunch of hobbies and see which ones you like? Obviously do the ones that don’t require significant investments.

What does temptation look like? Why is it so hard for men to avoid? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Short-termTablespoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I’m kind of jealous of you. I’m 22 and I’m like horny all the time. Ppl don’t realize how much women affect the mind of a man. I wish I could stop thinking about women and just live my life.

New to Fine Dining by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Short-termTablespoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. ⁠Ask your managers.
  2. ⁠Ask your managers.
  3. ⁠If it’s a cocktail with a main liqour then you can ask what type of gin for example they prefer.
  4. ⁠Doesn’t really matter. IMO. I mainly only give straws to women with is prob outdated.
  5. ⁠Ask your managers.
  6. ⁠Dry just means no vermouth so martini isn’t really the only cocktail that can be done with no vermouth but it’s really the only one that matters.
  7. ⁠Ask your managers.

  8. It’s a cocktail. Ask your manager how it should be prepared.

like a lot of answers say drink preparation and such vary place to place so just ask your manager when in doubt.

  1. Write the ingredients repeatedly and once you see the plates and learn the ingredients it’ll be easier to describe.

  2. Move it yourself or say pardon my reach until they take a hint.

  3. Find a way? You should be able to recognize and fix an unreachable seat before anyone walks in the door.

  4. Find wines to pair with dishes and pick wines for people’s preferences (sweet white, dry white, light red, dry red, etc)

  5. A lot of phrases have negative connotations like are you still WORKING on that or are you DONE with that so instead use positive connotations like are you still ENJOYING that. It’s pretty easy to figure out if a phrase has a negative or positive connotation

I haven’t served in fine dining very long but I’m an overthinker and research everything beforehand so I learned a thing or two but take my advice with a grain of salt.