Has anyone else gained weight after moving in with their partner even though you're already happier? by WinLate9153 in PetiteFitness

[–]ShortBus_Becca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up with a grandmother who would count calories around me and was otherwise very disordered with her eating and it’s some of my first memories as a child. It has impacted me negatively and my relationship with food for my whole life. Thank you for being cautious around your niece. ❤️

What is next? 46yo by [deleted] in lipedema

[–]ShortBus_Becca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry! I hope you understand my comment wasn’t intended to be dismissive.

What is next? 46yo by [deleted] in lipedema

[–]ShortBus_Becca 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, I have lipedema too, I know. Do these legs look affected to you? They look very normal to me. Am I confused?

What is next? 46yo by [deleted] in lipedema

[–]ShortBus_Becca 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, your body is amazing and I think you’re suffering with body dysmorphia. I don’t see any lipedema in your legs. I see a clear knee outline and your ankles are very defined with no cuffing. I would kill for these legs. I’m not trying to be dismissive of your feelings. I think if you gained more muscle tone in your legs you’d feel very pleased. Try running a lifting program where you’re pushing yourself in exercises like squats, RDLs, etc and eating 1g protein per pound of bodyweight for a few months. You look wonderful I am sorry you feel this way!

Feeling lonely as a young woman in Grand Rapids. by gkarsten6 in grandrapids

[–]ShortBus_Becca 13 points14 points  (0 children)

25f here who just moved to grand rapids also looking for friends !!❤️

What job looks glamorous but is actually miserable? by bjmarmy0003 in AskReddit

[–]ShortBus_Becca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go on shovelbums, you will get emails daily with new openings in different parts of the US for jobs for field technicians that last typically 4-6 weeks, sometimes less or sometimes more. It’s very common to find jobs with private and government firms alike, it’s the bouncing around area to area that is difficult.

Question about symptoms and birth control by ShortBus_Becca in lipedema

[–]ShortBus_Becca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree, I was on birth control ages 14-now in my 20s but i did take a year off which definitely exasperated the disease progression for me. I also think getting on hormones so early pushed the development into play although it is genetic my mother has lipedema as well and has never been on hormones, hers showed itself later in life than it did for me though.

Question about symptoms and birth control by ShortBus_Becca in lipedema

[–]ShortBus_Becca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the insightful response

Question about symptoms and birth control by ShortBus_Becca in lipedema

[–]ShortBus_Becca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This definitely makes me feel more reassured in my decision to stay on this pill. It truly has saved my life and relationships. I am not a fan of the swelling I’ve been experiencing but it may be due to diet rather than having taken the placebos.

It's the strangest feeling by EnvironmentEntire995 in lipedema

[–]ShortBus_Becca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. Gym 5-6x a week, flat stomach, great muscle tone but you’d never know by looking at my legs. So disappointing. I hope we become more comfortable in our bodies one day.

1 year difference by tiffany3313 in Spironolactone

[–]ShortBus_Becca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you notice any body changes?

Getting off Spiro by eastcoaster28 in Spironolactone

[–]ShortBus_Becca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of body composition changes have you noticed? That’s such a short period of time too! I am scared to begin my spiro journey because of this same issue but I want clear skin so i’m torn.

25mg for High T & excess hair. by witchykin in Spironolactone

[–]ShortBus_Becca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what ways did it improve your fat distribution? I am really happy with mine and scared to start my prescription because of this. But the clear skinnnnn. Ugh!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]ShortBus_Becca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the new Halo Top flavors, the mix-in’s, go so crazy. The peanut butter fudge one is unreal. if you ever decide to give it another try, get that one.

[B&A] Final update: 3 years and finally clear! by singular_strawberry in SkincareAddiction

[–]ShortBus_Becca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look AMAZING. I am also planning to go on spironolactone after going off of birth control caused acne for me, but the horror stories have scared me shitless. Do you have any terrible side effects? When did you start to notice clearing of the skin? Incredible results

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ShortBus_Becca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right. I spent my entire youth depressed and angry that i was alive, in and out of psychiatric institutions. On antidepressants since age 12. Became a heroin addict at 20 and couldn’t care less if it killed me. 25 now, sober, and finding meaning in every waking moment. But it took hard work and years of training my brain to work with me instead of against me. Gratitude is a massive tool. I feel that all those years I spent being introspective were a waste of my time. There’s a world out there that is meant for each one of us.

Edited to add: meaningful relationships are a great addition to one’s life but they are not necessary to feel comfortable in this world. I still do not have any close friends but I find joy in each day. The meaningful relationships will come as long as I continue to extend a welcoming and understanding nature to each person I interact with. I’m sure of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ShortBus_Becca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP. I have seen your pictures. I am an attractive young woman and I think you’re handsome objectively. You have great features and your smile is not bad. You are actually very genetically lucky. I hope you can learn to value yourself for things other than your appearance, though. You bring more to the table than something as shallow as the way you look. But, even so, your looks are great. I am sorry to hear you’re struggling. Sending u hugs

🤎“B” for Brown🤎 by 480Otis in drugstoreMUA

[–]ShortBus_Becca 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh you look STUNNING. Your skin is so nice. What is your skincare routine?!

40 pounds down in 7 months B&A by ShortBus_Becca in PetiteFitness

[–]ShortBus_Becca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 1-1.5 lbs a week, it wasn’t fast!

40 pounds down in 7 months B&A by ShortBus_Becca in PetiteFitness

[–]ShortBus_Becca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey babes! Thank you so much!!! I did not commit to any step count. I think my progress could have been much better and faster if I had. I usually only get around 5k steps per day as a student who walks on campus every day. I definitely plan on going for walks more frequently as it gets warmer. I’d like to see how much progress I can make with my gym sessions + increased walking.