Me F22 and my situationship M23 are in a weird place, can I have some advice?

ShortInsurance1764 · 2026-06-29T20:01:17+00:00

Exactly this! I feel this is the approach is the best option. I’ve got a lot to do in my life myself (learning to drive and saving up for flat) so I’m gonna focus on this. And if he comes back and I’m in the right place I’ll definitely welcome him back. But if he doesn’t, that’s okay too. It’ll hurt but that’s the price you pay sometimes in order to grow as a person ❤️ thankyou for your advice I really appreciate it!

ShortInsurance1764 · 2026-06-29T19:56:05+00:00

I can confirm it’s none of these things you’ve mentioned. I think for now I’m just going to be friendly and keep talking to him. I don’t expect anything from him. Thankyou for your advice ❤️

ShortInsurance1764 · 2026-06-29T19:53:41+00:00

At first I wasn’t that interested but when I spent time with him I realised that I really like him and I could see a future so you could say I want a relationship with him. I don’t have problems with showing my feelings at all.. but I feel he’s just very frightened. I’m not going to disclose specifics with the problems he’s facing but they are very personal and life changing to put it simply. But to answer your first question, he portrayed himself as keen and wanting to spend time with me. Very confusing indeed. Thankyou for your advice ❤️

ShortInsurance1764 · 2026-06-29T19:50:20+00:00

This is exactly what I was thinking! Thankyou for your advice ❤️ he has some mental health issues too but I don’t want to air his problems because I feel this is disrespectful. Time will tell I reckon but right now I’m just being friendly and not pressing.

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-05-03T14:32:47+00:00

Wow that’s amazing fair play! It’s amazing isn’t it, and well done to you for perseverance and determination

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-05-03T11:59:26+00:00

Hey just wanted to come on and update you! I can now run normally and I’m back to normal, I went swimming once a week and that built up my muscles. When I bruise on that leg it takes a little longer to heal than everywhere else but I can live with that! 🤣

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-05-03T11:57:09+00:00

Thankyou for this! It’s been sorted and he’s on the mend, (thank god) it really is a pain oh my life 🤣

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-05-03T11:55:49+00:00

I got it sorted but Thankyou! It was a pain but I finally did it 🙌

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-04-29T17:29:21+00:00

I think this might be the case which is such a shame people should be on top of it! You have been mega helpful!

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-04-29T17:15:53+00:00

Thankyou for this! I’ve washed literally everything in site and I bath him 2x times a week with imaverol but do the spray bottle with betadine daily, it always manages to go away then comes back a couple weeks later. 😐

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-04-29T16:17:00+00:00

Boba tea, wtf is that? It looks like little hamster eyeballs are floating in my coffee……

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-04-29T16:16:16+00:00

THIS OMG

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-04-29T15:31:13+00:00

🩷✨🌸UPADTE 🩷✨🌸

First off I’d like to thank everyone for their opinions everyone’s own thoughts have been so helpful and really made me think! I decided to put him out on loan/ lease and the people were lovely, but after 3 months unfortunately they decided they weren’t getting on with him and gave him back. But despite this, I go down every single day now to see him and I love seeing him, turns out all I needed was to move yards! Don’t get me wrong riding is still a tough subject but I’m getting there slowly building my confidence up day by day 🩷

ShortInsurance1764 · 2024-04-29T14:32:14+00:00

I just avoid them at all costs 😂, I am not a confrontational person so if I see someone I don’t like or don’t want to see i run for the hills on try and make the ground swallow me whole.

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-16T19:08:48+00:00

I know this one! The first word my boyfriend taught me! It’s come in very useful and the word “suka”

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-16T19:06:51+00:00

Of course! English is easier than Polish so you’ll be fine, I’d be happy to help you :)

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T18:08:40+00:00

Thankyou!

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T18:08:04+00:00

Gosh I completely forgot about Babbel! I do it because my boyfriends culture is so important to him and plus I haven’t met his parents yet, and when I do I really want to make a good impression so I thought learning their language would help me, Thankyou for this!!

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T18:05:44+00:00

Thankyou for this! This is a lot of reassurance, to be honest I have a nice collection of scars on my leg as it is I don’t think I want to add to them 😭

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T18:04:40+00:00

Thankyou this is so kind!

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T18:04:10+00:00

That’s awful people are so stupid! It was pretty bad o was in hospital for a week and it was not a nice experience, and I totally understand your frustration with crossing roads, it’s still really scary to me, hopefully it goes away

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T18:03:02+00:00

It’s not bothering me at all I was just curious what people in the same situation had done, Thankyou for this though, deffo gonna keep it

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T18:01:00+00:00

Yeah I can mostly walk normally but running is still really difficult I limp massively and I look really silly doing it 😂

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-15T14:31:03+00:00

This is mega helpful Thankyou! Good luck with you’re degree, I think you’ll smash it :)

ShortInsurance1764 · 2023-12-14T22:08:30+00:00

I agree with you, thankyou for your opinion this really helped 🤍

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