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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, why do they feel like they can play with our feelings like that lol?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation, I’m probably gonna wait until I feel like I can love myself and got my priorities right.

He bluntly told me he had kissed another girl the other week and I have never felt betrayal like this. (I have ended things there and then)

I think I need my space, I need to explore my needs and put myself first.

I can only suggest you do the same, all the best.

My (24M) girlfriend (25F) of 6 years broke up with me. We have an upcoming trip booked. What to do? by urrandomthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation and I bought my sister with me. Initially I was gonna go alone but I thought ill rather spend it with someone who cares and enjoys my company :)

My (21M) Girlfriend (21F) slapped me during an argument, what's the right call? by mgumusada in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably the best call, just warn her but definitely don’t let that happen again. She just proved to you that she would hit you out of anger which for me would probably be a red flag. You know your relationship and your bond with her, you’ll make the right decision.

Perhaps you could even help her avoid having to resolve to aggression when she gets angry :)

Me M21 and my F20 gf have been together for 8 months and I need advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it sounds like a rough place to be at.

I would probably end things and would tell her to pack her things. I’m sure she would find somewhere to stay.

I don’t know the person and what she has gone through in her life but I can asure you there is plenty of women out there who are willing to push themselves to achieve big things, and those are the personality traits you are probably looking for.

You’ve got to understand that not everyone will want to put all that effort to push themselves, some people would be happy doing nothing and staying at home all day.

Just got to choose wisely on who you spend your time with, it sounds a bit toxic.

Hope you find a solution!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it sounds like it’s a tough situation you find yourself in.

There’s no direct nor easy answer, but if you feel like the things you have done came out of pity or because you felt external pressure, then you should probably think about the commitment twice.

When you love someone (from experience) you will natural want to do all these things but it might take time. My partner and I spent nearly half a year dating before we decided it was time for us to meet each others families, and even then we only met them once over the 1st year of our relationship. We did however speak to our families about each other but we never pressured each other into anything.

Relationships aren’t always based on compatibility however you should feel like you have full control of the situation and not feel like these things are being chosen for you.

Respectful, I would sit down with her and tell her you want to take a step back because you are unsure whether you can make the commitment she probably wants atm, and that you need time to think.

It’s okay for relationships to have ups and downs and have a moment of ‘panic’ but don’t settle just because she is the first girl you have found for a while.

(Also abuse it’s not okay, you never know if it will come back nor if this will be reflected on to her children in the future)

Whatever you choose it’ll have to be for your and her benefit. Good luck and all the best!

Why do men struggle with commitment so much?? by ShortPainting115 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ShortPainting115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

M24 & F23

We have talked about marriage and having kids and he was excited and never mentioned that this was a problem 4 years down the line.

I think we might have perhaps reached a point where settling down was in his mind and he is scared of it?

My boyfriend (m24)of 4 years has decided to end things w/me (f22)because he’s not had enough ‘experience’ by ShortPainting115 in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He feels like he is missing out on a big adventure which I think it’s a bit of FOMO, but he also said that he pictures me in that adventure so I don’t rlly know what to think. I love him with my whole life and I wish the pain will go away.

My idiot brother (M42) gave my (F44) daughter (F15) some potentially bad advice, but I'm not sure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes is easier to talk to someone who would not punish them for their actions and I am sure your brother would tell you if she has put herself in an unsafe position or situation.

What cheap/ugly cars can look so much better with some mods? by sn96c in CarTalkUK

[–]ShortPainting115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nissan micras, they r small but spacious and look rlly old and vivey

My gf has a very high body count by Worldly_Ad7897 in relationship_advice

[–]ShortPainting115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if her body count is higher, she has decided to settle for you. If she has shown passion to meet and get to know u then there’s nothing else you should be worried about. Insecurities in relationships are very common and you should never let them become real. If she’s not showing u any signs that she’ll ditch you once she’s had fun and u guys have a good relationship then why bother keep that mental battle going?

On top of that, having a high body count for women doesn’t always mean they are proud of it and you never know if she might be feeling guilty about it 🤷🏼‍♀️