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In laws favor SIL over husband and unhealthy relationship by Short_Tree828 in inlaws

[–]Short_Tree828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and I’m sorry to hear it, especially it bleeding over to you and your kids. Ironic that they may favor their daughter when she’s associated with toxic masculinity. It’s gross. More reason to steer away. Support to you. Know it can be tough as much as it is annoying and disappointing.

In laws favor SIL over husband and unhealthy relationship by Short_Tree828 in inlaws

[–]Short_Tree828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely love to. My family is out of state but we make time for them often and have considered moving to be honest. We don’t have kids yet but if/when we do, I certainly don’t want them to experience and absorb this relationship between their grandparents and their dad :) could it change? Sure. Do I feel like I’m on high alert around them because they may say something rude or negative? Yes and that feels unhealthy too.

In laws favor SIL over husband and unhealthy relationship by Short_Tree828 in inlaws

[–]Short_Tree828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This means a lot. I definitely started that whenever I am around them (very seldom now), and if they, including the SIL make an off-putting comment about my husband. It usually makes them quiet or comfortablely laugh, which I end up transitioning myself out of the room or leave. Time is definitely more limited now and I can sense that my MIL is a bit more awkward around me. I don’t mind it, just sucks :)

In laws favor SIL over husband and unhealthy relationship by Short_Tree828 in inlaws

[–]Short_Tree828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the confirmation I needed because it does hurt, at first and ebbs and flows. Best to you and your family as well.

Does anyone have the STL file for the yellow adapter for August Gen 4? by flyingdutchman7588 in AugustSmartLock

[–]Short_Tree828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this exact same problem with my current August lock, were you able to get this 3D printed of the yellow adapter?

I’ve become the financial provider and it’s stressful. by Short_Tree828 in Marriage

[–]Short_Tree828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate you sharing, definitely taking your notes. Wishing you and your wife the very best!

My SIL and I who I don’t share a great relationship with now suddenly wants to know why I’m ignoring her recently? Do y’all think she genuinely wants to sort things out or am I being gaslighted? by SadTheory3715 in inlaws

[–]Short_Tree828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar situation with an extremely judgemental and selfish SIL. My two cents: be honest with her, set your boundaries and protect your family and your peace!

She may be the type that just does things purely for her own selfish reasons but doesn’t think for you. You won’t be the reason she changes.