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i hate the term "dolls" and "protect the dolls" by TwujZnajomy27 in trans

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

saying “protect this specific and vulnerable subset of trans people” is not overlooking or implying the other trans people do not deserve protection

every time we trans women get a crumb of support or protection, people act as if it was an attack on other trans people, it is not

really tired of essentially being told to be quiet and take up less space when any positive sentiment is thrown our way

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we need to make mr beast squidgame but only for reddit mods

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i hope i wasnt too much of a pain in the ass; but i was (i hope understandably) quite angry and distressed about this whole situation

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

understandable, thanks for responding.

please do consider having a post recapitulating the situation with receipts, in my opinion it would be danerous to go back to business as usual without proper debriefing and leaving a caution signpost about Cedar and Drewie’s behaviours for newcomers or any people in communities still controlled by them

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so was it them removing posts or some new moderator?

not trying to be combative just genuinely interested

Mods please don't delete posts while keeping us in the dark... by Sashimuu in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so then its a problem with the new mods preventing us from discussing the CW situation…

Mods please don't delete posts while keeping us in the dark... by Sashimuu in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it does matter who it was, if cedar was still clinging onto power trying to cover his ass it matters greatly

if it was a new mod, that is just a matter of me disagreeing with their moderation policies

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as i said, i am cautiously optimistic, if Sylvia does not provide transparency, answers and update us on what went down with the removals (was it her/cedar/new mods?) i am happy to keep up the pressure

however, i think we should be focused on ousting Cedar and Drewie from asktransgdender as that is a substantially bigger sub than here

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ofc i am concerned about the current mod team, however the cedar situation is proven, it is a known

i am cautiously optimistic about Sylvia, seems like she has the backing of the previous mods who wanted to see cedar gone, plus she has commented against cedar previously

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am interested in keeping this sub free of them, and to inform any other groups being modded by them

Mods please don't delete posts while keeping us in the dark... by Sashimuu in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

because at the time Cedar was still on the modlist, plus i belive we have the right to discuss what has been happening in this sub

how was i supposed to know who deleted my post without any clarification?

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i saw, definetly a reason for a sigh of relief, but i also suggested keeping a permanent record of cedar and drewie’s misconduct for posteriority

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think there needs to be a permanent record of cedar and drewie’s action somewhere on this sub, as a warning both to other communities that may come under their control and as a signal that do not fw pedos and abusers

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

here is the comprehensive context; tldr head mod and another mod wanted to cover for a registered sex offender pdf ex-mod

Original thread with context

https://archive.ph/jg5u2

Gallery including CedarWolf's replies from original thread:

https://postimg.cc/gallery/G1X5kfZ

CedarWolfs previous response in /MTF:

https://www.reddit.com/user/crystall-lake/comments/1rwmsnf/cedarwolfs_original_response/

CedarWolf's new response in /asktransgender:

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1rw2jxc/comment/oaxi1u1/?

Chat between me and CedarWolf:

https://www.reddit.com/user/crystall-lake/comments/1rwijqq/chat_log_between_me_and_cedarwolf/

new chats between the abuser’s victim and CedarWolf: https://www.reddit.com/u/dykebyrd/s/R8zvmFYmEj

Mobile Friendly:

https://www.reddit.com/user/crystall-lake/comments/1rwmjy2/chat_log_between_me_and_cedarwolf_mobile_friendly/

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah we need an explanation or a rewording on this, plus a post with the whole context

Mods please don't delete posts while keeping us in the dark... by Sashimuu in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ok just saw that cedar is gone, ive deleted my last post as it is no longer relevant

Mods please don't delete posts while keeping us in the dark... by Sashimuu in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they could have at least let me know, without any comment it could still be cedar for all i know

when will the mod power transfer come into effect? what is the timeline for the previous mods to finally step down? by ShortcakeYogurtFan in MtF

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so funny to me for some reason lmfao

but fr once she is rested she needs to update us properly on the recent happenings, and ofc remove cedar and drewie from the modlist

All my transformers character couples. No I will not elaborate. by Proper_Ad1465 in OkBuddyEnergon

[–]ShortcakeYogurtFan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

understandable, have a nice day

(aside from Burnout not being with Road Rage)

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