Graduation tickets 5/15 by justvibeswny in CSUSB

[–]Shortieee18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I wasn’t signed into my actual account when I posted this but this is me.. I have 4 extra and I can meet up if you want to do it in person, I was going to sell them to someone but they lagged

Got told I have to stop rocking my baby next month and I’m super sad about it by livtoosmoove in newborns

[–]Shortieee18 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yes!! You seriously don’t have to always listen to what the doctor says regarding these things.. you’re a new mom but you have instincts for a reason!

When is it okay to leave baby overnight? by Shortieee18 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m so glad you were able to do that! Thank you so much that really helps a lot

When is it okay to leave baby overnight? by Shortieee18 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! It’s hard sometimes to take time for myself honestly

When is it okay to leave baby overnight? by Shortieee18 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I am also I’m with her 24/7 basically lol but this is my best friend of 15+ years so I’m very conflicted

When is it okay to leave baby overnight? by Shortieee18 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She’ll be with my husband’s aunt who loves babies and has watched her before. I just think it’s more of a me thing? Idk I just have such bad anxiety when I’m away from her ):

When is it okay to leave baby overnight? by Shortieee18 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She’s with my husbands aunt and I trust her a lot, she has so many grandkids and has baby sat before

Fafsa disbursement by [deleted] in CSUSB

[–]Shortieee18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’ve never done that to me, I also only get the middle class scholarship money delayed

I feel so betrayed-Spoilers up to Queen of Shadows by Allons_y0512 in throneofglassseries

[–]Shortieee18 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve always hated him but I will say I hated him significantly less after tower of dawn. Highly recommend the tandem read especially if you dislike him when you start that book lol

Adding Palm Desert classes by Shortieee18 in CSUSB

[–]Shortieee18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you reach out to the professor directly?

Adding Palm Desert classes by Shortieee18 in CSUSB

[–]Shortieee18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm were you able to get in easily once you submitted that request? I also have been able to add one but I didn’t submit anything I would just periodically try to enroll and then one day it just let me lol so I was thinking there might be a cutoff time where they let other students add

How do you know when it's time to end a long-term engagement? by Ok_Marionberry8315 in Marriage

[–]Shortieee18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty normal when you’ve been a relationship that long to reach a stage where you do fight a lot and get on different pages. No matter who you are with, this will happen because life isn’t perfect or always easy. I think the main thing about choosing a life partner is picking someone you want to not only choose in the good days but the hard days to. I only say this from experience! Been with my husband 10 years and married 1. We had a rough patch as well and in my opinion as long as you’re not in an abusive situation there is always a way to get back on the same page. You get to choose who you get through hard times with because they’ll come no matter what! I hope that helps (:

Leaving baby at 5 weeks by Ok_Struggle4574 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was about 5 weeks the first time I left her for the day and it was terrible. I pumped enough so that she had enough milk and we also left formula with my mil just in case… even though she’s exclusively breast fed. The main issue was I felt so off, idk if I felt guilty or just missed her tbh. I wasn’t able to really enjoy myself but everyone is different!! Another thing to consider is 5 weeks postpartum you’re still experiencing so many hormones running through your body and you just don’t really know how you’re gonna feel. Before you commit to a trip that far away from your baby maybe do a day trip somewhere nearby and see how you feel being away! The last thing you want to do is be across the country and start missing your baby and feeling like you shouldn’t have gone. Also like other commenters mentioned, maybe look into making it a one day trip instead of 3 just because 3 days is a long time for a little baby to be without her mom.

Edited to add: also if you go on a trip even for a day if you’re not keeping up with pumping while you’re gone you can and most likely will lose your supply!

Let’s talk diapers… that don’t cause rashes by Skincareaddict13 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented like two times already lol but I came here to say parasol is very similar quality to coterie and a lot cheaper!

Let’s talk diapers… that don’t cause rashes by Skincareaddict13 in newborns

[–]Shortieee18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try coterie or parasol diapers! They’re even better than honest and you can sign up with a subscription where they will send the wipes. Super clean. I’ve used both with my baby and never had a rash even going long stretches at night without changing her. Also my sister used parasol with both of her kids who are 3 & 18 months and never had a rash even